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Why are milennials so easily offended?


I've also noticed they depend on their parents for everything even in their 20s! I've seen many of them have their parents book doctor appointments for them even when they're adults. WTF....

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They've been bred to be offended easily. I was recently asked not to use the term "Grammar Nazi" on a forum in case it "triggered" anyone! In the unlikely case that there was a holocaust survivor on the forum, I think their experiences would have made them far tougher than to be offended by a term like that!

They are also incapable of doing basic day to day tasks, hopeless at work too. I agree.

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It's sickening! They need alot of hand-holding.

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Sounds like a generalization to me. Millennial here!

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A huge generalisation Padeen. I know many well-adjusted, successful millennials who are no more offended than any other generation.

Sounds like old people’s grumbles to me 🤷‍♂️

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Its more than a generalization, its out and out bullshit.

The urban myth that "milennials so easily offended?" is propogated purely by uninformed made up posts like the OP that feed off each other.

Has anyone actually SEEN an offended millenial?
Which members of this site are always posting "oh i'm so offended about ..." thats right - none

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Most millennials are little whiney cry babies. I'm an elder millennial. You're unaware of prissy millennials because they do all their crying through email or direct messages and never create threads on forums because it's too confrontational.

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How dare you generalize! I’m offended! I need my safe space! I need my safe space!

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dere dere mr. boomer. here, have a soft cookie ;)

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Not a boomer! ;)

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Because there's millions of social media posts telling them to be offended instead of using their own rationale to decide if something is offensive or not.

It is really annoying.

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It's like it's "trendy" to be offended and to be the "victim" these days. You get to score "brownie points" or "sympathy points".

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Yeah exactly.

It's the same with antimaskers. If they genuinely don't want to wear one, they would shop online, but instead they go to a store with their camera rolling and stand there for 10 minutes having an argument. It's attention seeking and it's getting really tiresome 😒

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Although, to be fair, the anti-maskers seem to be from an older generation than millennials on the whole.

This whole thread annoys me to be honest. Like the boomers didn’t complain about the gen-xers being lazy slackers, or the silent generation didn’t complain about the boomers being no-good pot smoking hippies.

I assure you that in a few years time it will be the millennials complaining about whatever pisses them off about the generation behind them. Round and round and round we go...

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Exactly. It is not like these people are the first to complain about "today's youth".


As a Millennial though, I have to say that you must have the right to be offended.
It is not like you have the right to decide what is hurtful to another person.

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Yeah, it goes as far back to Socrates in Ancient Greece who complained about youth.

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The whole freedom thing is great and all, of course I like our freedoms in the West. But to not wear a mask to myself and others in danger for the sake of some idea of freedom? That is stupid given the situation right now.

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It's only stupid if you care about other people.

Let's do survival of the fittest. It may get me too, but fuck it. Fuck the mask and the vaccines.

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People who are easily offended may either have been mollycoddled when they were a child ( lacking resilience and defenceless ) or badly abused in one way or another as a child ( over-reactive and distrusting ).

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Because they were brought up in the Participation Trophy era where everyone’s a winner and never had to deal with losing
So the moment they don’t get they’re way they start pouting stamping their feet and protesting

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That's a good point.

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The left winger ones also feel they have some kind of moral superiority. And they don't like being challenged!

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the right winger ones spring to the conclusion that :
there is a 'war' on Christmas
they're being 'censored' when someone objects to their slurs, or 'disrespects' herr schlump

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There actually is evidence to point to those things though. And by slurs you mean their opinions and experiences of course. Not to mention actual facts.

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no, i mean slurs & lies & threats. calling people communists, baby rapers, election stealers, etc.

have you heard of 'Q' ? did you catch the action in the capital 1/6? they wanted to hang the vice-president.

these aren't mere opinions.

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Uh huh. I know you aren't smart enough to realize it but you defeated your own argument in your first post.

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What evidence? What the heck is a "war on Christmas"?

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Happy Holidays jonathan.

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And to you, too, even though the season ended almost a month ago. My favorite time of year.

That still doesn't answer my question.

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That was the answer

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Do you mean referring to Christmas as "the holidays"? That's nothing new; it's been done for decades.

I define the holiday season as kicking off with Halloween and concluding on New Years Day. When I say "happy holidays" it includes Christmas along with Thanksgiving Day and New Years. There are also people who celebrate holidays like Hanukkah and Kwanzaa. Just because I extend greetings to everyone doesn't mean I am trying to bury Christmas. It's my favorite time of the year, the only thing left that I actually look forward to.

I don't know if I would call it a "war," but there's this growing movement to eliminate all holidays. New Years Day, Easter and July 4th at one time were actual holidays. Now they are ordinary weekdays with business as usual. Thanksgiving Day is the latest casualty with stores opening up on that day. It's the major retailers who are pushing this; profit is more important than family traditions.

I'm sure someone, somewhere, is plotting the demise of Christmas as we speak (or type). We will be looking at a world in which a holiday is nothing but a fancy marking on the calendar, unless we turn things around.

No special time of year to look forward to? What a dreary existence.

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They won't be happy until we are all one beige life less lump. Holidays and traditions get in the way of work.

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There 12 major religious celebrations in the month of December. 8 of them are Christian/Catholic. Happy Holidays only became an issue when someone chose to be offended by it.

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I keep forgetting that only certain groups have a monopoly on being offended.

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I wouldn't say that Christians have the monopoly on being offended.

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my son is 28 and he has a career, a house and a steady girlfriend.

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Yeah, I think milennials get a bad rap over this. It's not just them.
My friend's mum is the same and she's in her mid 50s. Always having some injustice happen to her and she's always a victim and outraged by something. It seems the more of your life you spend watching videos online the more it affects people.

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of course. it's a personality type.

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One reason is because they were raised in an era which gave "participation trophies".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzbfAiYi14E&ab_channel=JayMac

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that's a right wing meme. i hear it all the time, at least twice in this thread.

people know who the winners and losers are, trust me.

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I think this is true. Kids know when they've lost, whether they get a trophy or not. I think the problem with participation trophies is that they represent a culture where kids aren't given effective tools for dealing with failure or accepting that things sometimes turn out badly. They have to pretend they don't know that they lost. Hence, the adults around them don't teach them that you can lose stuff and still be a worthwhile person. In fact, I think the constant insistence that everyone is equally a winner leads to the belief that if you DO lose then you must NOT be a worthwhile person. I think it's a sort of dereliction of duty on the part of adults, to not be willing to accept the pain that a young person feels when they realize bad things can happen to you in life.

But, for the under age 5 set, I think they don't really care if they won. They just like the shiny medal.

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another, less pejorative way of looking at it, is that being given support win or lose reinforces the inherent worth of people, 'win or lose'.

since we agree that kids know anyway, parents rubbing salt in can hardly be a help.

our system has plenty of real rewards for various contests, of which our social & economic system abounds.

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But the winners should be acknowledged as such. Otherwise, you run the risk of raising a generation of wimps
and pussies.

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