And you're jealous because having zero to offer isn't getting you any?
Seriously, you don't know what the guys have to offer, as seen through another person's eyes, you just look at them with your own eyes and see nothing. But for all you know, the guy could have "money, sex appeal, great sense of humor, genuine good nature, part of a known social circle or desired social circle, impressed their mother, terrific dancer, season tickets to their sport of choice", or maybe the gal saw the guy rescue kittens from a house fire or her best friend said he gave great head, things you will never know by looking through envious eyes. You never understand ANYTHING if your perceptions are warped by envy.
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MovieBuff224 (5053)
4 years ago
Who said I have zero to offer? That’s why I’m frustrated, I have lots to offer but it usually gets overlooked while I see guys with much less going for them succeeding.
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Otter (24464)
4 years ago
Well you sure talk like someone who has zero to offer!
As for the other guys, you're not seeing what they have to offer. You've made it abundantly clear that you aren't great at seeing other people's points of view, especially that of women. But that doesn't stop you from thinking you know what women OUGHT to value, and being baffled when real human beings don't behave the way you think they should.
Obviously, the problem is in your viewpoint, not their behavior. You're puzzled because the real world doesn't match your preconceptions, and won't admit that the problem is your preconceptions. Buzz off until you do.
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MovieBuff224 (5053)
4 years ago
Yeah you’re right, everything is logical and makes perfect sense and women have great judgement! I don’t have “preconceptions” I just take things as they come, but I still need a reason in order to justify something. 80% of the time women make questionable decisions in regards to mate selection. You can bury your head in the sand and deflect to my “inability to see other people’s viewpoints” but I’m a pretty intelligent guy and I’ve been around long enough now to know right from wrong. Tell me, if women are so good at selecting partners why is the divorce rate over 65%, why do women continue to go back to abusive exes and why do they post about wanting good guys and date assholes, then complain there are no good guys? I’ll wait.
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Kowalski (59366)
4 years ago
YOU DONT SEEM TO REALIZE IT...BUT YOU HATE WOMEN.
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MovieBuff224 (5053)
4 years ago
Bullshit deflection
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Kowalski (59366)
4 years ago
LMAO...DEFLECTION OF WHAT?...ALL IN YOUR OWN WORDS...YOU ARE ANGRY BECAUSE ALL THE WOMEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO ARE WITH GUYS YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO.SO YOURE SUPER JELLY...WHAT DID I MISS IN YOUR CHILDISH RANTS THAT SOMEHOW MAKES THIS ANYTHING OTHER THAN YOU BEING CRAY CRAY JELLY?
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Otter (24464)
4 years ago
No, in general, if you are baffled and angry because things do not go the way you expect them to go... the problem is your expectations. This applies to everything in the universe, not just your sex life.
That is a life lesson everyone needs to learn, if they want to understand a damn thing. I have to go be essential now, so am signing off.
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MovieBuff224 (5053)
4 years ago
I thought you said this was about my perceptions, now you’ve shifted to expectations. Or maybe that’s what you meant all along. Yes, my only option is to adjust my expectations. But that doesn’t make my observations any less valid or change the reality that women have poor taste.
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TalkinPikchorBox (2250)
4 years ago
Are you one of those guys who are like girls who are too hot to get a date? I’m sure Maury Povich would love to have you on his show.
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Otter (24464)
4 years ago
So, how's being deeply unhappy with your life but scoffing at any suggestion of change working out for you?
Because, just so you know, all the women and all the other people aren't going to change because you want them to.
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102000 (6136)
4 years ago
So why don't you list your attributes for us? Just curious because if you are as negative in person as you can be here, then perhaps that is a turn off to a lot of women?
What are you looking for? If appearance is your #1 priority, then that too could be a problem.
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