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Do You Remember Life before the Internet?


Sometimes I wonder what am I doing right now if there were no Internet.

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You'd be doing the things people do when they're not on the Internet.

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Which are?

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Spending time with your family & friends, going to the mall, going to movies in a movie theater/watching TV - we've done that for 50 years. Playing sports, taking a walk and eating at a restaurant are a few things I can think of.

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Except many people are still tethered to the internet doing those activities. Not specifically internet related, but go to pretty much any concert today, and you end up looking at the stage through banks of electronic pacifiers. ie smartphones wafting in the air. A great concert is just as much about a great crowd as it is great bands, thousands of people in the moment, sharing a collective experience. Even walking in nature has changed over the years, I am lucky to live close to a large, gorgeous park with dozens of long interconnected, tree lined trails inside, it is becoming more and more a challenge having to navigate through people walking head down, staring into a mobile gadget screen, oblivious to their surroundings.

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This post is what did people do before the internet. You're talking about phones. I think phones & the internet get confused. The internet has been around for 20 years, but it's not been that long that we've had these sophisticated smartphones. People choose to take phones with them when they're doing things where that's not quite appropriate, like walking or hiking. But there are many things people do and should be doing without phones.

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We were also talking about phones; not just the internet. Actually, you do get internet on your phone, so it's basically the same thing. The two go hand and hand.
Let's just put it this way..... do you remember what it was like without all of this crap?

If you want to go back further, I'll bet people asked the same thing about Telephones, and the automobile over 100 years ago.

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No, cell phones and the internet are not the same things. I am posting using this other thing called a computer. lol People always ask what they did before they become dependent on certain technology, but inventions/technology have moved faster in the past 20-30 years than ever before.

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I beg to differ on the cell phones/computers. You do get the internet on your phone. In any case, many of us were also talking about phones too. With technology the way it is, they can do everything now days. I have no doubt that one day there will be an app. that bathes me!

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I never said you couldn't get the internet on a phone. The reason you say this thread is about phones & the internet is that as I said, you think they are the same and they aren't. One is an object you hold in your hand and the other is a network of communication and information.

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Ok.

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Obviously one is a physical object, and one is a network (that also includes physical objects), but in today's world, most people (especially under a certain age), use the former to connect and interact with the world, via the latter, and increasingly that includes in all kinds of public settings, such as spending time with family & friends, at the mall, at the movies, when watching TV, taking a walk, eating at a restaurant, etc, etc.

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It is 2017, very few people use basic cell phones, they are using smartphones, essentially small but very powerful computers, that are constantly connected to the internet. So when someone is out in public staring into their smartphone, in all likelihood they are utilizing the internet in some fashion.

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Ah, so I am one of the very few! 😉

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Yep, the few are still out there!

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Uhm, those little smartphones are connected to something, oh that's right, its's called the internet.

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I have no idea what your multiple posts mean. They have nothing to do with the original post (not written by me) & I'm not sure what they have to do with anything.

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All my posts are related the topic, OP, whereas yours seem to really miss the point. Food for thought.

Firstly, it could be said that just like the explosion in desktop computers from the mid 1990's to mid 2000's, smartphones would not have become a fraction as popular, if not for its connectivity to the internet. Conversely, if personal computers (desktop or smartphones) had not made it so easy for the masses to utilize the internet, the internet itself would have remained relatively niche in its usage (business, university, geeks). One without the other, would not have had anywhere near the same impact on society.

When people are talking about life without the internet, they are essentially talking about life before the information age, of which both the internet and computers (desktop and smartphones) are a part of.

Second,even if a person "decides" to not PERSONALLY utilize the internet themselves when in public settings, it does not mean they will be totally free of its influence, and increasingly that is the case. When it comes to internet usage today, for more and more people being in public settings is just an extension of the living room or bedroom. Unless you live in a vacuum, it is hard to not be impacted by that shift in society, either by accessing the internet yourself while in public, or by others you are spending time with doing so.

All my posts are very much on point with the OP and you initial reply, not sure why that is so difficult for you to understand.

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This is the original post. "Sometimes I wonder what am I doing right now if there were no Internet." What does that monologue have to do with that? lol

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Read your original reply, and then my replies, lol.

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In most ways it was better

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Except Google Maps. That thing is tremendously helpful.

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You got me there, but GPS predates the WWW.

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My dad bought us a Commodore 64 when I was a kid. There was no internet with that! The first time I was on the internet was in college and I remember thinking it was so cool. It was pretty fast because it was the college's line. Then at home, we could dial in through the school and use it. Then after college the internet got super crowded and we had AOL and it took ages for a page to load. I hated it then and really barely used it for years. Plus, I remember dealing with viruses all the time. It was a pain. Now, it's such a huge part of my day. I am grateful though for many of the handy parts of the internet, but a lot has been lost. Like, opening up a dictionary for a definition and then finding a ton of interesting little tidbits in there. This whole thread is making me realize I need to do some of those things again!

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I KNOW!! What did I do? well, I did work and was raising kids. But yeah, I love the internet. A crazier question : what did we do before our smart phones?! Yikes - had to use pay phones!

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" But yeah, I love the internet. A crazier question : what did we do before our smart phones?! Yikes - had to use pay phones!"

LOL! I also love the internet but as for your crazier question about smartphones, we also had to look up numbers in the phone book.....(why do they even print those things any longer????)
We had no problem with waiting until we got home in order to make a call or to receive one.
Life really wasn't that bad when we didn't have constant communication 24 hours a day.

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These days just try finding a pay phone when you really need one because you forgot your cell phone or it died on you. Oh, never mind - I don't know anyone's phone number except my next door neighbors' house phone. Everyone's number is on what we used to call "speed dial." Now it's "contacts."

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" I don't know anyone's phone number except my next door neighbors' house phone. Everyone's number is on what we used to call "speed dial." Now it's "contacts."

Tell me about it! We use to have one phone number in each household. Now, each person has a number but that is a number we quickly type into our contact list on our phone and after that? You forget it. I finally memorized my own phone number after over a year after having my own smart phone years ago. It was embarrassing not knowing what it was. I couldn't tell you what anyone else's number is..... not even my husband's.... not unless I looked it up in my "contacts". None of these are committed to memory. Why bother? You only have to click.
You are screwed if you are actually asked for it or you don't have your phone at the ready.
I'm one of those people who do not have the phone welded to their hand.
GASP! Sometimes, I even leave home without it!

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You're absolutely right and I think you nailed a big part of it - everyone has their own phone number now. I hadn't thought about this aspect. No wonder I can't remember them all.

I'm not welded to my phone either. I leave it at home a lot. The only times I make sure I have it is if I'm on a road trip - anywhere outside of the immediate area where I live. It can be days before I even think to see if it's turned on. Rather embarrassing when I do get around to it and find text messages from three days ago. Oops.

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I do
Maybe we were better off then..?

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I remember it well. We all got by just fine without the ability for 24/7 communication and information.

Don't get me wrong, on the information side I do love the fact that I can look up and research anything under the sun instantly, without even moving from one spot.

In the old days, if you wanted to research anything, you had to physically go to a library -- or a bookstore. You had to use microfiche machines to look at editions of old newspapers and magazines. Now you can just go online and look at archives.

In the old days you consulted a dictionary or encyclopedia, now it's all instantly at your fingertips.

This is all really great and convenient.

It's also fun to be able to chat with people across the globe. Just saw a movie or read a book or bought a product? You can go online and get into entire conversations with people about the same thing. In the old days you only had the people you actually knew to talk about anything with.

But on the downside -------- people would now rather take and make calls and texts, check their Facebook obsessively, etc than actually talk to the people they actually know, and who they are actually physically WITH.

I think that's an appalling development in society.

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Yes, all true. I am guilty of wanting to be connected most times. I do leave home my phone alot, though.
The worst is when my spouse and I go out to dinner and there we both are checking our phones instead of having our date night!🙄

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I think that's so sad! Be in the moment with the person, especially on date night! Think of how short life is and you won't always have each other. Your memories will be of sitting staring at your respective phones. . . !

I think kids are also not getting to learn basic etiquette and manners in social situations. I have a platonic male friend, he's married with kids, and one time we met up for coffee with his 11 year old son along for the occasion. We don't see each other often.

So you'd think the son could put away his phone and join in the conversation, even as practice for having to talk to a grownup he doesn't see that much?

Nope. While his father and I chatted at the cafe table, his son sat staring into his phone, basically removing himself from the situation entirely. The father, who is usually strong on manners and politeness, didn't even tell the son to please switch off the phone and try to engage politely. He just let the son be completely socially disengaged from us.

I think that's incredibly rude. I didn't want to say anything because parents tend to resent anyone voicing an opinion about their child's behavior.

But that boy is not getting to learn basic lessons about delayed gratification and polite manners in real, face to face socializing.

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What you say is all so true. It is sad. I will remember your words next date night. I will not bring my phone. 😊

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Do you remember the BLISS of answering machines. "Leave a message." AHHHHH. Oh I miss it dearly. "I'm not home leave a message." Ohh you could really unplug. And deal with stuff when you got home. I mean 99% of cell phone calls are pointless and can really wait.

Now it's like "Why didn't you answer you phone?" You have 50 missed calls. so many texts....ughhhh you know people do take showers, cell phone batteries run out, they leave their phone in another room...etc...just hate when people EXPECT you to be effing GLUED to your phone ughhhhh

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It was so great to not have to deal with anything until you got home -- and the rest of the world did the same, so everyone knew that!

Now, people can be fired from jobs just for not answering 24/7 if there's an "important" thing comes up. . . that's insanity.

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Yeah I miss people having common sense and manners. Now they answer a phone in your face. When a phone is more important than a real life human being I lose respect for that person. And you know 99% of the time it's a bs call. Just shooting the breeze, well that is what I was doing with them irl.

Sad that people expect us to take a back seat to their phone, as if to say 'well you understand the phone is more important than you' WHAT!?

Yeah I had a horrible boss that was like why did you not get back to me. 'my phone died' response was 'you are so irresponsible' yeah the boss is not irresponsible who could of told us this sh!t when we were at work, but just tells us last minute on faulty devices, yeahhhhh ugh

Truly common sense has left the world, the less we socialize and let these machines take over the more callous and cruel we get. Since a phone call/text is pretty nameless and faceless. *sigh* I miss the days before cell phones so badly.

So happy someone agrees with me! Unlike these cell phone addicted dolts! ;) There is a time and place for everything, but cell phones mess that all up. People talking in restaurants, bath rooms, etc....yikes!

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The bathroom is another matter that really bugs me! I hear people talking in public bathroom stalls. I think it's not only ridiculous. It is disgusting when you think about it. What do they do with the phone when they wipe? Even after they wipe they have to touch it when they leave the stall. That means they touch it before even washing their hands. YUK!

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yes, indeed!
Awful too is when you are stuck on a plane or a train and there is a "big mouth" talking on their phone. You cannot escape it then. It's infuriating.

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Before answering machines, either you or someone else was there to answer, or not. If not, you had no way of knowing if anyone had called. If there were anyone to answer, and they took down and gave you the message, you knew; otherwise not.

Being fired for not answering your phone 24/7 is insane. People need to be allowed time to live their lives, and not be a slave to their phones.

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Yes people had to *gasp* actually interact with each other..... IRL!!!!! AHHH!!!! the insanity!!!! LOL

We also knew what trees looked like.

The internet is great tho no offence. Just hate what it is doing to people's social lives. I hate hate hate social media "twitter-i just at a sandwich fb-location fancy restaurant insta-i just took a dump...." no one cares. How about you just live your life. No one cares about the mundane things you do.

Before the internet, to find stuff out you had to call people, library, books. Go outside. Just not know stuff. Be more easy going. Go to help desk, office....ahh the good old days. My favorite things was when office people would tell people to go to the website. And they lost their jobs. haha It was cute that they thought they could be glib and keep their jobs. You want to get paid for telling me to go to a website LOL ohh the early 2000's.

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