So obviously gay.

Real gay guys can do it without it hurting. A pillow biter is rather a straight guy in lets say prison.

He makes it pretty obvious he is bi in some of his films. In Legend, his character is somewhat flamboyant. In Eyes Wide Shut, there is the scene when the "frat guys" run into him on the street and accuse him of being gay. His character in Magnolia is obviously someone who is desperate to hide his gayness by coming off as a "macho" man. There is the scene in Vanilla Sky when his character seems to make some kind of gay statement to the bartender and that he and Jason Lee's character may be more than just friends. In Rock of Ages, he seems to give a sort-of "I don't care if you think I'm gay" kind of performance.

He likes to CRUISE in parks in men's toilets.

I don't know about Tom Cruise - he may be or he may not be. I'm really not sure. I feel a lot more strongly (on the "is he gay" issue) RE: a fellow Scientologist of Tom's - John Travolta. I would be very surprised if Travolta, in reality, was not gay.

I remember watching Edge Of Tomorrow at a party with a gay dude, he kept saying "omg he's just so gaaaay!" anytime Tom Cruise literally did anything. He claimed his gaydar was flawless as a gay man himself.

In his book White, Bret Easton Ellis wrote: "I was sitting in a theater with my boyfriend of four years and about to watch a matinee of Oblivion, starring Tom Cruise (I won't get into the layers of gay irony here)."