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Hitchhiking: Why I'm Against It:


Hitchhiking has been a popular thing here in the United States (and throughout the world) for ages. In the 1940's and the 1950's, it was very common for soldiers on leave from the military, or who'd just come home from the war(s) to hitchhike home, or to hitchhike back to their base, if they were on their way back from their military leave.

During the mid to late 1960's, however, when the hippie/flowerchild counterculture began to go into full swing, hitchhiking here in the United States became even more commonplace. It was not uncommon to see people waiting on the ramp entering the Mass. Turnpike or other large interstate highways with signs that stated the place(s) that they were destined for, or even the direction that they wanted to go. Lucky!

I still remember stories that my (now long-deceased) grandparents used to tell me about how, up through the early 1960's, they used to pick up hitchhikers and even take them into breakfast or whatever, without ill results. There was one story, however, that my grandfather told me, about a guy he knew who'd picked up a hitchhiker, who'd gotten into the back seat of his car. The hitchhiker, who was carrying a sledgehammer, was preparing to hit the guy who'd picked him up over the head with it. The driver saw that in his rearview mirror just in the nick of time, and covered his head with his hand. The hitchhiker hit the guy who'd picked him up with the sledgehammer anyway, and permanently mashed the driver's hand grossly out of shape. Not a pleasant ending.

During the mid to late 1960's, when the counter-culture was in full swing, however, the situation regarding hitchhiking (and picking up hitchhikers) began to worsen, although it was mainly the people who hitchhiked and were picked up who were in the most danger. As the crime rate here in the United States began to increase rather rapidly, so did the grotesque incidents that occurred while hitchhiking, many, if not most of which failed to make the evening news or the papers.

In the 1970's, there was an even bigger increase in crime throughout the United States as a whole, and more ugly incidents occurring in which hitchhikers were the victims, became more commonplace, and more showed up in the papers.

Here in the Boston, MA area, for example, during the early 1970's, a whole slue of young women ranging in age from their late teens through their mid-20's, who were college students, or working woman, who were hitchhiking to classes at school, or to work, disappeared, never to be seen or heard from again. Their bodies were found, in very distant places, either by the roadside, or in wooded areas. One woman had been killed and nailed to the wall of a tenement in Boston's Roxbury section. Some women had been strangled, others had been stabbed. Moreover, these were tough women who knew their way around, had it together, and how did they end up? Dead. It was found that these woman had been picked up by a serial killer, who's now serving a lifetime jail sentence, where he belongs.

In the spring of 1972, two teenaged couples from the high school in which I'd graduated from three years before, who were on a double-date, on a Saturday night/Sunday morning, decided to hitchhike home. They were picked up by two men who, although they were clearly intoxicated, did not seem hostile, at least not at first. The two girls were let off first, without incident, but then things took a nasty turn. The two boys were taken to a very secluded area near the Lincoln, MA-Waltham line, where the two men who'd given the two young couples a ride, attacked and beat up both of the boys. One of the boys received a concussion due to being hit over the head with a blunt, heavy instrument, and the other was nearly mowed down by their attackers' car while they were escaping to get help.

In the mid-1970's, the grisly overall pick up-kill scenario was rather tragically played out once again, when two young college guys who were hitchhiking home very late one night from downtown Boston, were picked up by two rough-and-tough men from Southie (South Boston, MA), taken to a secluded place, and murdered.

During the 1970's, it was quite common to hitchhike. My younger sister did more hitchhiking than I did, although I, too, occasionally did some. Once, when I was in college, I hitchhiked a ride to my music lesson in Cambridge and was picked up by a young man who was a former drag-racing champion. He drove at what must've been 50-60 miles an hour, though the streets, and through Harvard Square, yet! I did get there in one piece, however. When I told my mom about it, she said "Well, at least a former drag-racing champion would know something about how to drive a car very fast." She had a point.

I had a couple of rather weird experiences myself, where the conversation started out perfectly innocuous, and then slid into sexual innuendoes and overtones. In each instance, I asked the guy to let me out.

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Hitchhiking became more dangerous as society became more coarse during the 1960's and later. I don't know why anybody would encourage other people to engage in it knowing the risks. It's unfortunate that some people would corrupt such a practice but it happened so the time of innocence for it has long passed. It's not just the person driving the vehicle but the person you may pick up that is at risk for criminal behavior.

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That is exactly the point that I've been trying to point out, BiffGG. You're absolutely correct on that count. I was lucky that the guys I was picked up by let me out of their cars when I asked them to. I don't know how it is now, but back then, many of these guys would take the handles off of the insides of the car doors, so that the women could get in, but were unable to get out. I had a friend at school who said she got a ride with a pervert. She, too, was lucky to be able to get out, like I was.

Many people think that it's fine to pick up or be picked up by strangers, claiming that hitchhiking is like crossing the street, or the fact that most people are assaulted or killed by people they know, be they acquaintances, friends or family members. That may be true, but that's totally missing the point, as it fails to negate the risks of hitchhiking or picking up a hitchhiker.

Many people say "Talk to the driver or the hitchhiker first". Demeanors, as well as looks, can be very deceiving, especially since people with bad intentions often put on a totally different demeanor in order to lure their victim(s) to harm.

It's true that most people are perfectly normal and honest, but the ones who are not don't have to be in the majority to present a problem. Moreover, a person that one gets picked up by, or picks up could be criminally disposed, not in their right mind, drunk or drugged out, or just plain careless behind the wheel.

Also, when one either gets into an enclosed vehicle with a total stranger, or lets a total stranger into their car or other closed vehicle, they're totally at the mercy of that stranger, thus putting themselves in an extremely vulnerable position, because the person who gets picked up, or picks up a total stranger and is in a moving car with him or her, has little or no control over what may happen if things go south, if one knows what I'm saying. It's not like going to a party, a dance, a bar, or a night club, where one at least has the option of leaving quickly.

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I agree, it's dangerous and not something I've ever done or would do. But I don't think it should be illegal.

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Hitchhiking is illegal in many places, at least in part because it puts the driver who stops to pick up a hitchhiker in danger, as well as the hitchhiker him/herself, especially when there's a lot of traffic around, and the hitchhiker is standing on the side or the ramp of a freeway or turnpike.

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There's always a reason and they are almost always well-intentioned. I personally think the bar for declaring our activities to be "crimes" should be much higher than it is.

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I think that hitchhiking is illegal in a lot of places, not so much because it's a crime, but because it puts both the driver who picks up the hitchhiker, as well as the hitchhiker him/herself, for at least a couple of reasons:

A) The driver who stops or even slows down to pick up a hitchhiker runs the risk of being crashed into by the driver of another car or other enclosed vehicle, especially on a turnpike or freeway with extremely fast-moving traffic on it, and/or during rush-hours, when there's lots of traffic around

B) The hitchhiker him/herself stands a good chance of getting hit by a fast-moving vehicle while standing on a ramp or the side of a road, especially a freeway or turnpike, as well.

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Also, what I was going to add, is that hitchhiking is not at all like attending a party or a dance, or going to a bar or nightclub, where, at least if things start to get dicey, there's the option of leaving quickly and/or calling for help. Nor is hitchhiking like crossing the street, as some people claim.

Some people even claim that their faith in humanity has been restored by some lovely experiences that they've had while hitchhiking, but who's to say that the person who picked him/her up will be so lovely the next time they meet?

Getting into a car with a total stranger is too risky, especially here in the United States, which has never been a very safe place to hitchhike, due to the fact that the United States, as a country, overall, is way too big..and impersonal.

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> I don't think it should be illegal.

right, if you don't like it don't do it, but don't legislate others behaviour

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Is there any hitchhiking culture in countries other than the USA?

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Hitchhiking is common in Israel, as well as a number of the European countries, but Israel, as well as many of the European countries are much smaller and more personal. Hitchhikers in these countries are more likely to be picked up by someone that they know and trust. That doesn't mean, however, that the situation in those parts of the world are perfect. I'm sure that there are occasional bad incidents in those countries, too, but the United States, being as big and impersonal as it is, carries a bigger hitchhiking risk at least in part, for that reason.

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Sounds about the same here in Canada. I still see people on the road when the weather is warm, but its less and less people out every year. You know spring has come when someone is out there. I used to say "Hitchhiking season has begun". Maybe a joke in poor taste I guess considering the seriousness of this post. I do realize it is a very dangerous thing to do, but I also think most people that do it are desperate. Obviously.. especially if its winter. You could die like that. Just from the weather, not the person picking you up.
I know people had certain "rules" about who they would and would not pick up, all stereotypical so you can imagine what they were.

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Do you know about British Columbia's Highway of Tears, where tons of girls and women, namely Native American and Aborigine women, have gone missing while hitchhiking on that highway? Bodies of women and girls who've been killed while hitchhiking have turned up, after hard info searching. If I understand correctly, however, the Canadian govt. didn't do or say much of anything about it until Canadian-European (white) girls and women began to go missing while hitchhiking on the Highway of Tears. Many, if not most of the girls and women who live in that particular area have no cars, and there's little, if any public transportation along the Highway of Tears, so girls and women are forced to put their lives and overall freedom and safety at risk by hitchhiking, which isn't a good thing.

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I actually used to live very near there in British Columbia. It always baffled me why they would go back out there, but lack of money would be the biggest thing. People hitchhiking around there were often thought of as prostitutes too if they were female so I'm sure that didn't help any. There was a good documentary about that whole topic, I'll have to find you a link to it. But yes, very tragic. The posters would go up with more and more photos on them for girls that have gone missing. There are huge signs there warning not to hitch hike and how its illegal. Not only that there is a prison along that highway so people just out of jail would be hitch hiking along there too after release. Not saying prisoners are not reformed or anything like that, just saying.

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In some parts of the United States, there are signs on certain parts of freeways that say

"Prison Area: Do Not Pick up Hitchhikers."

Frankly, I think those signs are up there for a reason: The hitchhikers that one encounters at a prison area could well be convicts looking for a way out, and to escape.

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Most hitchhikers are young, down and out on their luck/money, and therefore in a vulnerable position for being taken advantage of by unscrupulous people, of which there a quite afew of out and around in their cars. Being caught in extremely cold or extremely hot weather for hours at a time, with no food or water, is a danger posed by hitchhiking, as well.

Also, looks and demeanors on people can be quite deceiving. Many people with bad intentions have the ability to put on a human, decent face and demeanor in order to lure their victim(s) to harm. Also, a driver could refuse to drop a hitchhiker off at his/her destination, plus there could an accident, which could permanently cripple or kill the hitchhiker, as well.

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Same here,in my country...but in this parts,if you want to hitchhike,then you'll need money to pay the driver.No one is pick you up for free.

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You hand over money at the side of the road? That would be weird. I thought most hitchhikers did it because they were too poor.

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Sounds like a traditional Uber.

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Yeah but you order and Uber, not flag it down with your thumb. At least that was my thinking. :)

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In this part of the country,it's a habit...a weird one,but real.

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That doesn't make it safe, or good.

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No,it doesn't.But if you want to go somwhere quick and you don't want to wait the public transportation...hitchhiking is your best choice.

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Hitchhiking doesn't necessarily and always get one to where s/he is destined either safely or quickly. Sometimes, hitchhikers end up waiting for hours before they get a ride. Public transportation, if one has access to it is a hell of a lot safer than hitchhiking.

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You're right.

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It could also be done more safely today I believe because someone could text a photo of the license plate to a friend before entering the car, and then keep them on the line the whole drive. Not 100 percent of course, but much much safer than the past.

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@Daisy

Still a no-no. Texting a photo of the license plate to a friend wouldn’t do the hitchhiker any good after s/he is murdered! Criminals steal cars and license plates. The safest thing is not to hitchhike.

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Yes, I agree its still safest not to hitchhike. I'm just saying its much safer with cell phones and their GPS. Also it might make the criminal think twice, but I suppose they could just grab the phone and throw it out the window.
That thought just occurred to me.
So yes, even if you take precautions its dangerous and risky and ya shouldn't do it.
Not that I am pro hitch hiking.

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Good point, kspkap. Even though most people are perfectly normal and honest, there are people out and around in their cars who are not. Those are the ones who present the problem despite not being the majority, because there's no telling if or when a hitchhiker will be picked up by somebody with bad intentions, is drunk or drugged out, is criminally disposed, is just plain not in his/her right mind, or is just plain careless behind the wheel.

I agree that the idea of a photo of the license plate to friends or family, or even a text, wouldn't help, either.

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Too many scary real life stories out there that make me never want to hitchhike!

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It's a risk that i take it every time...

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So you still hitch hike this day and age? I know a few guys younger than me that do too.

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Everybody's doing it...and i'm not that old,Daisy😉

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Oh I think you are like 21 or so?

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Plus it looks trashy.. at least for a girl/woman. Ew.

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Hitchhiking is stupid, any which way one looks at it.

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You're right.

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Thanks, Daisy.

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That's very true, Stratego. Moreover, many, if not most of the horrific real-life incidents that occur when people hitchhike fail to make the papers, or the evening news.

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You should be against it. It's very dangerous. Duh.



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Thanks, MovieManCin2.

Getting into an enclosed vehicle with somebody that one doesn't know from a hole in the ground is too risky, because the hitchhiker is at the mercy of this total stranger that s/he knows absolutely nothing about. Moreover, the hitchhiker has little or no control over what may happen if things go south, if one gets the drift.

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You're welcome, mplo. It's way too dangerous in both directions. I never do it.



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I haven't hitchhiked at all since the mid-1970's, nor have I picked up any hitchhikers. The danger cuts both ways, and it makes no sense to put oneself at the mercy of a total stranger that one has never seen, much less talked to before.

I'd never pick up a hitchhiker, much less be a hitchhiker today, because I've read a number of horrible stories about people who've been robbed, assaulted, or worse, in both instances. It's not worth risking one's freedom, life and overall safety just to take the chances involved in being with a total stranger in an enclosed vehicle.

More recently, when I'd taken my mom to a doctor's appointment, I decided to go for a walk while I was waiting for her, since it was such a nice, warm day. Since the sidewalk, and the place where my mom's appointment was is located along a state highway (Route 9, to be exact), a man pulled up and asked me if I wanted a ride. I declined with a matter-of-fact "no thanks", and went on my way. I probably should've taken his license number. It was a small red car, and the guy was dressed casually but respectably, but I was taking no chances. When I told my mom about it later, she said that the guy was a creep, and that I should've taken his license number and called the police. Maybe somebody did later. Who knows? The next time some creep pulls over to the side of the road or highway and asks if I want a ride, I will take the guy's license number and call the cops.

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Can you believe on my way home I saw someone hitch hiking? Woman too in about her 50s or something like that. Made me think of this thread and that she probably has issues.

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Either that, or she's probably living out, or re-living her youth, if one gets the drift.

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I get ya. Call me judgmental but the first thoughts that came to my mind were alcoholism or mental illness. But maybe not, I could be waay off base.

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Thanks, Daisy. You're not being judgmental at all. Mental illness and/or alcoholism could also be a factor of why a woman in her 50's is out their hitchhiking.

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