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Do you ever purposefully engage in signalling?


Signally is where you purposefully try to communicate something without explicitly saying it.

If you change the way you talk for a job interview you might be signalling your professionalism.

If you wear a sporting team jersey you might be signalling.

Or wearing religious attire.

I've changed my voice to signal.

Example, in Argentina I was always been hit up by salespeople in the street to go into the strip clubs. I'd gone in before and was accosted, basically forced to buy a $20 glass of coke (I escaped thankfully). So I wasn't go back. So when they'd harrass me I'd say "no me interesa" and they'd keep following me. Once I thought "how do I get them to leave me alone?" So next time they tried I said "no me interesa" in the gayest lisp ever. They didn't utter another word!

My other signalling was in Australia when this street guy tried to staunch me and my friends, walking up saying "what are you doing?" I put on my rough as guts, pack a day smoker, lifelong criminal voice, "nothing much mate, you?"

He physically pulled back like he'd seen a ghost and then asked me if Id seen police around the joint!πŸ˜‚

The power of signalling.

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I signal when I change lanes, or turn a corner.

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only for sex

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So you used your normal speaking voice in Argentina and people stopped talking to you. Sounds about right.

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He had to let it happen
He had to change
Couldn't stay all his life down at heel
Looking out
Of the window
Staying out of the sun
So he chose freedom
Running around
Trying everything new

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🀣🀣🀣🀣

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I have a complex series of hand signals(not sign language) that I use to communicate with people close to me sort of like the signals baseball coaches use.

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In the realm of completely made up fiction Stephen King has nothing on you

This fantastical story telling seems like a sad trend here lately

I hope you didn't drug anyone without their consent anywayπŸ™„

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This is true.

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This is known

Glad you don't take yourself very seriously

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The most immediate example that comes to mind for me was a new employee where I once worked. He was young, brash, arrogant...almost immediately wanted everyone to know he was a Freemason. It was late fall when he arrived and he always sported a bright, orange, stocking cap with the Masonic emblem of the square and double compasses very distinctly emblazoned on it. It was clearly a conversation starter, intended to elicit questions, whereupon he could embark upon a condescending lecture of his being privy to esoteric knowledge the rest of us were deprived of. I thought the Masons were so renowned for their secrecy. Not so, according to his example.

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Everyone signals all the time, usually without realizing it. Non-verbal communication, through body language, facial expression, degree of eye contact, and tone of voice, is a normal part of human interaction.

Then there's the deliberate signalling, like the "I'm super competent" body language professionals use at work, and the goddam crushing handshakes that some men thinks indicates alpha status.

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Nothing wrong with a firm handshake.

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Tell that a person with arthritis in the hands.

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Yeah my dad has arthritis and complained about it happening. He started telling people just as they went to shake hands, that he had arthritis and not to squeeze hard. Pretty much solved the problem. You can't really expect the whole world to go around shaking everyone's hand lightly on the off the chance they have arthritis.

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It’s important in the railway industry.

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Classic Andy

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I’m here all week.

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Whenever I leave the house I make sure I have my keys, phone, glasses, mask and a flag semaphore for each hand.

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