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When you were growing up...👩‍🏫


...did you have thoughts about what you'd do as an adult? As in, what kind of job you'd have or something you'd like to do?

I used to think I might become a teacher, but that didn't happen. I ended up working mainly in retail. Not always in a store, although I did spend a few years in one, but I also had jobs that were more behind the scenes. I worked in the benefits department of a major retailer, but I also worked in the finance department of the same retailer, paying vendors and working with them when there were issues. I also audited our accounts with vendors.

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I had realistic expectations which is to say not high. Being at the low end of the economic ladder combined with poor health and a less than stellar education ( to say the least ) meant that my options were limited. So it was mostly pen pushing and later keyboard tapping office jobs for me.

When you come from the lower economic end and family life is a grind or worse you seem to develop a very limited mindset. It never occurred to me to emigrate to America when I was young for example. If I bought something that didn't perform very well I stuck with it because that was just the way things were and so on.



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I wonder if that's why I didn't aim higher. My family was on the lower end of the economic scale, but I thought a teacher was a reasonable aim. But by the time I graduated high school, I was sick of school. I worked a few clerical-type jobs, but eventually ended up in retail. To be fair, for a few years we lived off my dad's inheritance. Being an only child, he inherited everything. I have no idea how much it was, but until I was about 10 we did okay. And then, the bottom fell out and it was a struggle.

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There are exceptions but I think rather depressingly it's mostly a case of "monkey see monkey do" and the opposite "monkey don't see monkey don't do".

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To be honest, I simply wanted a job that would allow me to live comfortably. I never cared about being rich. I just didn't want to worry about paying the bills.

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Like most people I had dreams of what it would be like to be rich and how I would spend the money. But these days now that I have a bit of money stashed away I'm really scratching around to find worthwhile things to spend it on.


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IF I won some sort of big money now, I'd pay off debts that my children and brother may have. I'm lucky in that I have no debt, so I'd like to help them out. Being debt free is wonderful.

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I wanted to be an Historian
It just didn't pay well at all

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I sometimes think I should have been an anthropologist because I find it interesting how people lived and their social customs.

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i never really had any clue or real drive towards any specific career or anything like that. i had a vague notion that i'd like to study mathematics or stats - math & calculus were the only subjects in school i was really good at - but i just didn't have the discipline. & i definitely would not have been cut out for a career in academics or anything. i think it's for the best i didn't go down that path.

it wasn't until i was 25 that i decided i needed to get serious & pick a real career - my testosterone wasn't getting any younger, y'know, so i basically threw a dart at a board & decided to become an accountant. solely because i'd never heard of any starving, homeless accountants, so it seemed like a good move.

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Math has never been my strong point, but I still think it's interesting that I eventually ended up working with numbers.

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I wanted to hit the lottery and not have to work. Or come into money somehow, like the Beverly Hillbillies.

As a kid the only job I can remember fantasizing about was being an executive in a company. At the time I thought that was the best thing a guy could be.

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The lottery wasn't around when I was a youngster so this never entered my mind.

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My earliest memory is late 1960s. You filled out your entry in pen. There were one or two carbon copies underneath. You kept one, and placed another in a box. Maybe the store kept a copy, I don't remember. My folks were not players so I don't recall when they switched to machines that spit out your ticket. I don't recall playing the lottery very often in any event.

I thought the Clampetts were lucky because they didn't have to lift a finger for their millions. It was like hitting the lottery.

Besides being an executive, I think for a little while I wanted to be a subway motorman. I thought that would be a very cool job. But mostly I just wanted to just come into easy money and live on easy street.

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Well, we could say, who doesn't want to come into some easy money so you can do whatever you want?? To be honest, I didn't care about winning millions, I just wanted enough to pay off debts and live comfortably. I think I've bought lottery tickets once, maybe twice. Just for fun.

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I never really cared about millions, either. I thought I would be, as an adult, happy to have a home like the Brady Bunch or Bewitched.

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Oooh. I liked both of those houses, too.

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According to my parents, as a little kid, I wanted to be a doughnut maker so I could give free donuts to all of my friends and family. Sadly, I never became a doughnut maker...

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Interesting career choice for a kid, and not a bad one since doughnuts are yummy! Makes me wonder how old you were at the time.

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Young enough where I don't remember it. I'm thinking early elementary school.

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I wanted to be a fighter pilot but I needed glasses since middle school and I have partial color blindness. Still, I was an Infantryman in the Army.

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Sounds like you worked around your limitations. Not a pilot, but at least you were able to serve. That's something.

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I had a book that I wrote in every year at the beginning of the school year and it had a place to write what you want to be when you grew up, and I wanted to be everything from a famous dancer, to a brain surgeon, to a psychiatrist, and mostly a teacher.

I did get my degrees in both psychology and education, but I now work in the theatre.

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Sounds to me like you've mostly done what you wanted to do. Good for you!

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I never became famous though. Or rich. That was disappointing.

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This makes me think of the time, years ago, when I made the comment, "Some day, when I'm rich and famous..." My youngest son piped up and said, "Mom, you might be rich some day, but I don't think you'll ever be famous." To this day, it still makes me laugh.

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That is cute. 😊

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Many years ago, I used to think about being a teacher as well. But that never happened.

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I grew up in a time when being a teacher was one of the few careers that was open to women. Nurse, teacher, store clerk, whatever. Limited acceptable options back then. Thankfully, times have changed.

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