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Can a white father say "My daughter can't date black guys" in 2020?

posted 4 years ago by [deleted]
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Once upon a time, it was against the law, whether the father wanted it or not.

Laws changed but still, even in the 1970s, the majority of Americans were against interracial couples.

But things have changed. Not only are you not allowed to have those views, some might call that a 'hate crime' if you were found to have such rules for your daughter and her 'human right' to date whoever she wants.

What do you think, would it be a 'hate crime'?

[–] samoanjoes (51843) 4 years ago

I don't know. Some cultures it's important to them to marry within their own race/culture/religion. Personally, if someone wants to date someone outside their race, I don't care. But I also don't care if someone doesn't want to do it either.

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

A father can say whatever he wants. Who cares?

A Christian father can say, " My daughter can't date Jewish men" in 2020.

A Republican father can say, "My daughter can't date a Democrat" in 2020.

A Republican father can say, "My lesbian daughter can't date women" in 2020.

If the daughter is over the age of 18, she can make her own adult choices.

[–] Zilkin (401) 4 years ago

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[–] KingMarty (171) 4 years ago

You did go all the way.
All the way towards the end of the Middle Ages.
I'm so proud of your accomplishment!

[–] Quasimodo (16388) 4 years ago

I'm so proud that you are proud to be proud of his accomplishment !

[–] KingMarty (171) 4 years ago

Correction:
I'm so proud that you are proud of his accomplishment!

Come on, FOCUS next time!!!

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!

[–] yatzo376 (7487) 4 years ago

Keep that stuff indoors

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

Say whatever you want and deal with any repercussions which may come your way. Every action has a reaction - to act the way you wish.

[–] Zilkin (401) 4 years ago

You know those words are funny and people use them sometimes jokingly and sometimes not jokingly. I bet they are used in the bedroom a lot. Afroamerican boyfriend in the streets, niga dick in the sheets.

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

Use those words all the time.

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

Congratulations, you just gave Intothenight the EXACT reaction he was looking to incite.

You're both as bad as each other.

[–] ultravioletx (10216) 4 years ago

You can use the word, you just can't use it the way you want to which is out in public in a negative manner.

[–] lusious214 (102) 4 years ago

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[–] kspkap (13065) 4 years ago

You’re not necessarily a bigot or racist for not wanting your daughter to marry a Black. There are many Blacks who feel the way you do in not wanting their daughter or son to marry a White. But, the descriptive words you use are offensive to me as a pure White person. Those words are ugly and should not be used in today’s lexicon. Attempt to use Black and homosexual in their place. BTW, they aren’t fun nor funny. Personally I don’t use African American...they weren’t born in Africa. They are Black Americans. I also don’t use the word “gay” in place of homosexual.

[–] B1cKsurN (15067) 4 years ago

I used to be sad I didnt get married and have children.

Now I'm stoked I don't have to be a slave to a system that hates men.

[–] Filmtenk2 (3401) 4 years ago

That's funny. Lately, I feel like some of my friends with young kids may feel jealous of me for not having the immense burden (at moment anyway) that comes with being a parent. Part of me wants to some day and another part feels like once you have kids that's it the government wins and you're a slave the rest of your life financially at least and you have to buy into the the bullshit that is the world. Idk maybe the woman I've been waiting for will change my mind or intentionally go off birth control without telling me.

[–] B1cKsurN (15067) 4 years ago

Idk maybe the woman I've been waiting for will change my mind or intentionally go off birth control without telling me.

I wish you luck man. Just remember they can end your existence, take your money and children away from you, at any time, for literally any reason. Vet heavily, then vet some more.

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

Anyone can say anything. Should they? No, that is a terrible thing to say. Will the daughter listen? I doubt it, if she is already an adult.

[–] Matildawormwood (1545) 4 years ago

That would make anyone an extreme ignorant cunt!! What does race have to do with dating? That's a hate crime.

[–] Zilkin (401) 4 years ago

I don't think it's a hate crime. If a Japanese father said his daughter is not marrying anyone not Japanese, would that be a hate crime? Sure he is trying to preserve his race and culture, he is racist also but we won't judge him too hard. Only white people have to be tolerant of everything and everyone all the time. If you don't want your daughter marrying another race you might be a racist but it could be just because you want her family and community to resemble yours which is not motivated by hate.

[–] Matildawormwood (1545) 4 years ago

Keep in mind, parents technically don't have the power to control certain aspects.......like who their kids choose to date and marry!

At the end of the day, it's their choice especailly one they reach that legal age (over 18). Parents enforcing these views is going to to backfire in their faces.

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

That's a great example, Japanese. They often don't want mixed grandchildren.

[–] kspkap (13065) 4 years ago

I’ve been waiting to inquire about this subject. You opened the door for me. The rapidity of races mixing will someday not beget a pure race. Different cultures lost forever. No longer a pure race of the 3 to 4 currently in the world.

Most anthropologists recognize 3 or 4 basic races of man in existence today. These races can be further subdivided into as many as 30 subgroups.

Caucasian races (Aryans, Hamites, Semites)

Mongolian races (northern Mongolian, Chinese and Indo-Chinese, Japanese and Korean, Tibetan Malayan, Polynesian, Maori, Micronesian, Eskimo, American Indian),

Negroid races (African, Hottentots, Melanesians/Papua, “Negrito”, Australian Aborigine, Dravidians, Sinhalese)

[–] [deleted] 4 years ago

I heard there were three.

White
Asian
African

White encompasses sub continent people (like Indian) and even aboriginal Australians.

[–] kspkap (13065) 4 years ago

”White encompasses sub continent people (like Indian) and even aboriginal Australians.”

White does not encompass Indian or aboriginal Australians. The bone structure and skull for the American Indian is akin to the Mongoloid race. The aboriginal Australians is akin to the Negroid race.

There are four which is stated in the following link.

https://biologywise.com/list-of-human-races

The four are:

Caucasoid

Negroid

Mongoloid

Australoid

[–] Kowalski (60803) 4 years ago

YES...A WHITE FATHER CAN SAY TO HIS DAUGHTER..."DONT DATE BLACK GUYS"...IF THAT FATHER WANTS TO ENSURE SAID DAUGHTER DEFINITELY DATES BLACK GUYS JUST TO PISS HIM OFF.🙂