So what exactly has he done?

I have had many discussions about the current storm / frenzy over this kind of thing - more so regarding Mr Spacey's downfall.
Now, I have no personal experience of sexual harassment (I would think a guy would need his eyes testing if he wanted to sexually harass me - no offence to my other half!) and I am not commenting on the validity of the victim's claims/experiences or the impact anything that was done had on them.
However, when glossing over the allegations against Spacey compared to Wienstein, it seems to me that Spacey was just a normal gay guy who was finding the young men about him attractive. He was showing his affections and basically making moves on them, perhaps a little too hotly sometimes, but he did not rape anyone. He spent money and time with them and had picnics with them -old school. Over the course of history, isn't this how a lot relationships start out? Men have been doing things like this forever with women.
One person likes another and they try and seduce them - either for some quick fun, or because they want a relationship. Sometimes this works, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes at first the object of affection is resistant but then they get to know the seducer they may end up being a happy couple. It takes time to get to know someone and some people are very hands on with displays of affection. Love sometimes takes an effort; some people are not won over easily.
I am not condoning being harassing however, but to some, sexual harassment is a friendly touch on the arm or an invitation to dinner, to others it's being pushed against a wall and molested.
Weinstein was inappropriately dressed, asked women to give him massages, raped women and masturbated in front of them. There are no claims that Spacey did anything like this - but what he did do was show himself to be a rather (in my view) over-zealous man, desperate for returned affection and he did hold off, when rebuffed. He seemed to have been rejected and to me it's all a bit sad.

Spacey and Bryan Singer have had notorious boy orgies for twenty years.

Everyone got bored of Harvey, now they need a new horse to beat to death. Spacey as far what’s been said so far is guilty of being overly aggressive in his perusing of men. The rapp thing, IMO, is little more the poor judgment of drunk 20 something. Whatever it was we won’t know. If he is into jailbait, there won’t be just one and we will know then.

As for his aggressive and sleazy behaviour, sure it’s not right, but claims of ptsd because someone came on to you? Gimme a break. Seems everyone wants be a victim these days.

I guess he came on too aggressively is one crime, having a preference for young guys, teenage looking ones is the worst though I guess.


But it seems like once you reject him, based on stories, he turns away or stops.

Unlike others who are far more predatory like.

I think the me too hashtag is very unfortunate. Because it feels more like a look at me give me attention too thing rather than a serious attempt to deal with actual sexual misconduct.

I could claim sex harassment based on the standards used today, and no, no one that I could claim it against actually did anything wrong...it just with the low standards to make the claim these day i could easily do so.

Well, we are becoming a society of keeping healthy distance from each other. Let's have no body contact whatsoever, or it could be considered as sexual assault. Shaking hands? Don't even think about it. Having sex, are you crazy? That is asking for a lawsuit!

Is there some sort of security camera footage of Spacey chasing 14 year old kids around on the House of Cards set or something? Most people aren't proud of some things they did 30-40 years ago either.

The main thing is Spacey a threat to children today or is this just something that happened during his apparent drunken years?

Yeah, it seems like everyone is hanging him because he hits on guys but doesn't actually do anything to them. I wasn't there, so I wouldn't make a judgement one way or the other without proof. But I think its pretty sad that his series and movie on Netflix have been cancelled based on allegations that he hits on guys. Ironically, all the anonymous accusers who worked on House of Cards are now out of a job. Hope it was worth it. I really wanted to see Gore and the last season of HOC.