fuck marriage and children
pointless bs imo
shareYou always sound so unhappy. I hope you find something in life that brings you pleasure.
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It’s not for everyone. If it’s not your path then it’s not your path. But pointless it is not. It is a very happy life for many.
shareI have to say my situation was quite similar to Shogun’s and had I not settled down I would have continued down a self destructive path. Getting married is a big step but bringing children into the world and being a parent is a major life changer. I’ve always felt like after spending time around people you can tell who’s parent and not without even asking, and I do mean an active parent. I think it changes a person for the better.
shareI never ever wanted to get married and have kids and was quite happy living like a rock star (I’ll leave it to your imagination).
Then I met a very patient and persistent lady who ground me down (I’m kidding here) and pretty well forced me to marry her (actually, I’m not sure if I am kidding).
Now I have a beautiful wife and a beautiful daughter who I adore, so it can turn out nice sometimes.
I couldn't wait to get married. I only had one other girlfriend and I thought for sure we would get married after college. She had other plans. I was able to hang on to the second one.
shareHappy ever after can happen.
shareHonestly my husband is the best person I ever met.. He is amazing I know we are not together. He is the person I would want to spend my life with. He is the best of the best.
shareI think it's pointless to have kids and marriage on some must-do checklist. If they fit into your life, if you have a trustworthy romantic partner, if you have the financial and mental stability, etc - those are the things that need to be thought on.
I really feel like having kids and getting married as a must-do social rule is kind of antiquated. You're not five years old, getting a baby chick on Easter that will bore you or overwhelm you in terms of responsibility 3 days later. It's a lifetime thing that deserves more consideration than I'm over 25.
I’ve had the opposite experience of many of the others here. Whenever I get involved in a relationship I come out worse for the experience and have a set back no matter how hard I try to have a good relationship.
sharehalomaniac88, you must have had a bad marriage or whatever. Marriage and children can be a joy to those who are willing to love, share, feel an attachment, etc. I hope you find happiness.
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