godewey. - General Discussion Discussion

[–] [deleted] 6 years ago

Beautiful.
Here's to everyone who has a vacant chair in their home.

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[–] GlenEllyn (21144) 6 years ago

🥤🥤

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[–] GlenEllyn (21144) 6 years ago

Hear hear! 🥤🥤

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[–] db20db (16232) 6 years ago

I happen to have a strong belief in an afterlife. I've had experiences with loved ones that have passed.

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

"So I was there for him, in the way I'm there for anyone in a time of need and he told me that I was magical because I had appeared just when he needed something, to get back on track."

Thank you for that 💓

I love to think of Dewey and your mom partying together!

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[–] GlenEllyn (21144) 6 years ago

I think about how good a memory he is. And when I am certain I can’t stand it….I go one moment more and I'm thankful for all the good memories he's given us.

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

Me too. I knew about DeweyGandhi 1.0, but not about DeweyGandhi 2.0, until Dazed let us know. Thank you, Dazed!

RIP, my dear friend. You were there for me and helped me through a very dark time. I can only hope I was anywhere near there for you.

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[–] thewaitress (1616) 6 years ago

no thanks needed but youre welcome Cat. :D
me too! I thought about them so much today, having a blast, being wild haha.

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[–] Stratego (29332) 6 years ago

Nevermind.

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

You were there for him in exactly the right way you were meant to be. Trust in that. You gave him joy and laughs. What more could he have wanted?

🐰💓🐰💓

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[–] Stratego (29332) 6 years ago

Nevermind.

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

You're not on the outside looking in, dearheart.

He had that. He didn't even want his RL friends to know. As Dazed said, and I agree, he just wanted to go on being Dewey, not the guy who was sick and dying. The funny, witty guy, who came here to escape all of that and hang out with us.

I believe Dazed and he became close early on, and it evolved to PMs, and eventually spilling the beans. To another person too, but I won't mention them by name; I'll leave that to them, if they want to or not. With me, it came about because we bonded over dogs on a board, because of what happened on my trip, soon after losing my dog, and he knew I needed someone, so he was there for me. With you, it was all joy and fun and games!

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[–] Stratego (29332) 6 years ago

Nevermind.

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[–] MissMargoChanning (6630) 6 years ago

But like Cat said a few days ago, this was a place where he could forget his troubles and laugh. So in a way, we were all there...here for him.
I never reached out to him either, even when he would say that he would be going away. I had the feeling that something was going on with him but I didn't feel that it was my business.....it was his. Since he didn't specify what his trouble was, I felt that it was best not to say anything.
He and I joked around about the garden shed and I enjoyed that little bit of flirting. He was a charmer. He gave us all little bits of pleasure, and I have no doubt he got something special from each of us.

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

I didn't know about the garden shed, but am *certain* he loved it!

He was a charmer. He was both a ladies' AND a man's man! He was a people's man. And a dog's man. He was an everyone's man.

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[–] MissMargoChanning (6630) 6 years ago

The garden shed was just pure silliness. Like Stratego's Basement. Of course, I only invited Dewy. Just nonsensical flirting.

All in all, I will simply say that he was a wonderful man. He made a person feel good. That's a nice legacy to leave behind. Something to work on.....

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[–] Catbookss (13664) 6 years ago

Thanks for splaining. He was a flirt! But like the good man he was, his heart belonged to his GF 💓

Couldn't agree more. He made people feel good, and there couldn't be a better legacy than that. I need to work on that too.

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[–] Stratego (29332) 6 years ago

Nevermind.

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[–] db20db (16232) 6 years ago

I've got some intimate stuff about my personal life in my pm history with him that I entrusted him with. Nothing bad but actually very powerful. It's just that it's the kind of content trolls would see as fodder for attack and ridicule. He told me he felt honored I chose to share it with him.

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[–] Stratego (29332) 6 years ago

Db, I'm afraid I ruined the atmosphere of the party.

Time to get jiggy, everybody!

https://youtu.be/scWtz-7YjdA

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[–] db20db (16232) 6 years ago

You did nothing of the kind.

I think Shogun and I should forego this approach for tonight : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4E9ydw_aDMg

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