I can see why people despise this movie
I mean, you've got the whole "death of Kirk" thing going on, and I can see why even the concept of it would rub people up the wrong way, but then there is another death, too - the death of the Enterprise-D, as awesome as it is, also probably rubbed people the wrong way. That ship was even more iconic than the original Enterprise, but they rubbed it out as it was old and "not cinematic enough".
So yeah, lots of wrong turns taken in this movie, although it has great moments and I love the music in it.