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I saw a really attractive girl at the mall yesterday.


She was working as a saleswoman at this store selling various anime and video game themed merchandise. I was tempted to talk to her but I couldn't think of what to say and I was quite nervous. I could have complimented her on her beautiful long hair, but she probably gets a lot of compliments about it already. I could have also talked about anime considering the theme of the store, but I dunno. It would still seem kinda awkward.....

So, I just lingered at the store for about a half hour, checking out the merchandise and occasionally, checking out her.

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Ask her something,mate...did she noticed you aswell?

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I don't know if she noticed me other than as a customer....

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Talk with her,mate...do you expect for her to make the first step?,trust me,she won't.Who knows,maybe it will become a wonderful friendship and in the future...but you must talk with her...friendly advice.

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That does not work. Keep the visits to the store short and the checking out very brief. If it is in the cards the two of you will strike up a conversation and progress from there. If not she will soon perceive you as a stalker. It's nice when things click and every girl you desire feels likewise but for most of us it takes quite a bit of time and the acceptance of quite a few women rejecting before a person makes a connection. Do you have any interests that might allow you to join a club? That might allow for you to be seen as a desirable person if a woman hears you talk and express yourself on a number of topics. Again, it's nice to be seen as some very desirable man but for most men it is a fairly long road and should be prepared for a lengthy journey. It may not be fair but that is how it is.

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Was she, by any chance, wearing leather pants?

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If that was directed at me the OP is in no way a sock for me.

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Who knew Roy Moore posted here?

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Actually, Bill Clinton just swooped in. Said something about doing Thanksgiving weekend in Arkansas and Hillary won't go there any more plus the last 5,000 dollars from the Clinton Foundation was burning a hole in his pocket.

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"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor."

- Mark Twain

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Walk up and ask a few questions about some merchandise then introduce yourself. If she plays along then ask her out for a coffee.

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