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"Fat Monica" is an intrinsic part of Friends’ canon that it cannot seem to escape, even 25 years later


https://ew.com/tv/2019/09/04/fat-monica-friends-25-years-later/

"Even if you overlook the fatphobia that follows this character around like a shadow, you’ll find that the biggest problem with Fat Monica is how the show used her to garner cheap laughs in the laziest ways possible," says Clarkisha Kent. "Everything from how the character was designed — à la the svelte Courtney Cox in a fat suit rather than an actual person who was, gasp, fat — to how the character acted was greatly exaggerated to elicit laughs — and not much else." Kent adds: "Could the show have treated her better? Sure. But that would have deprived it of 'reliable' laughs at the expense of a fictional fat character doing normal things like eating, dancing, or simply living. Fat Monica worked in a horrendously offensive sense in that — in an era where SlimFast was popping, extremely thin models like Kate Moss were It girls, and 'heroin chic' was the prevailing fashion trend — pop culture fed a hysteria over being or becoming fat. And Fat Monica allowed people to take those anxieties about fatness, project them onto the character, and laugh at them. And be comfortable in laughing because whatever happened, they would never be as fat, sloppy, and socially inept as 'Fat Monica.'"

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Seems pretty true if you ask me.

The whole point of "fat Monica" being funny was solely because she was fat while portraying the fat stereotype of overweight people endlessly eating, clumsy/falling over and being a bumbling loser overall just because they're fat.

In reality it should be clear that most overweight people aren't extreme social rejects or pariahs that are bumbling and slow/confused/incompetent at everything. And while people gain too much body fat when eating too much, overweight people are not literally eating all day with no breaks (this is coming from someone who was pretty obese in the past).

The whole idea was weakly executed and it isn't too hard to notice it. Doesn't ruin the show overall or anything, but it seems obvious to me that it was one of several lazy attempts to construct humor off of a thinly held stereotype, idea or trope.

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Agree with you.

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Are you going to be ok?
Offended much?
Good thing we've got uptight, hypersensitive, fake virtue types to tell us what is funny and what jokes that aren't allowed.

Nothing wrong with fat Monica at all.

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NAILED IT.

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I didn't really add anything to the show tbh and wasn't really funny

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If even one real-life fat person was awakened to his or her unhealthy habits by "Fat Monica," and began a healthier lifestyle as a result, it was worth having his or her feelings hurt. Not only that, but "Fat Monica" was funny.

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