Did you notice people changing how they treat you when you hit your 40s?

Good way for sure
When you're married and employed in your 40s people seem to show a bit more respect...it makes you seem steady and dependable, no matter how nuts you might be😬

I've managed to become the Counselor/Rabbi to a bunch of younger guys at the office, this despite being ridiculously Irish looking lol
I leave my door open at all times and the gang constantly passes through for a quick word or my opinion

I like helping my work friends in this way

I'm only 39!

Oh yes. I've become invisible. People look right through you, they don't even notice you anymore. Nobody bothers you to hang out anymore either. It's honestly pretty great for the most part, but impossible to hit on girls without coming off like a super creep.

Nope.but then I don't look my age and can still pass for a 30 something.young people can make me feel old though.I brought up blockbuster in a conversation a while back and my 24 year old nephew asked me what's blockbuster.

No, my 40's were great. I'm wayyyy past that now but I look pretty good for my age and think it's all about attitude. I'm 69 and still work - not because I have to, but because I want to. People retire and then it all goes down the toilet.

Ok sweet crap I’m 2 years away how does it change ? How !!’