Sure, you visited incel forums because you find them "fascinating" lol. I also watch porn for scientific purposes. Not to waste my time on armchair psychology, we both know why you went there.
But anyways, to get on the subject, don't you think incels on some fringe forum aren't the best representative of incels in general? Because there's these a very small group of freaks who actually coined the term and call themselves incels, while on the other hand, there's a lot of guys who could technically be called incels, they never had sex and probably have the impulse to just like most men, but they have nothing to do with incels as a community. Not that I've seen the statistics, but I'd guess that percentage of virgin of males age 18-25 is like what...10%? That seams like a fair guess to me and that's a large number of individuals. Now, how many users does that forum you visited have? I'd imagine less than 0,1% of young males ever visit such forums.
Honestly, your claim that they only go after blondes sounds like you've visited 4chan or something where users are just openly racist, not even incels. As for women with no kids...well very few men want women with kids in general.
I didn't say they ONLY go for blondes. I say they PREFER blondes without kids. And nope, it wasn't 4chan, it was a place called love-shy
And I went there after seeing a Youtube documentary about incels and they talk about that forum. So no, you don't know why I went there Mr. Psychologist
And yeah, most men don't visit such forums, obviously. But it's a general statement that holds roughly true that incels are particularly fascinated with white blonde girls with no kids. Just like you could say "most movie buffs love The Godfather" based on visiting a forum like this and probably be right most of the time
So I went to check out loveshy and on the front page it says total members: 6449, members online: 9 and members online over past 24 hours: 245. A fringe herbalist/ alternativist forum from my small conservative country of few millions has more users than that lol