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It's more acceptable for women to be perverts then it is for men


It's true, it doesn't matter what perversion it is whether it be homosexuality bestiality or necrophilia it is always considered more appropriate and more acceptable if women do it, if men do it is less acceptable.

The only perversion which both men and women get equally judged for and condemned for is pedophilia and that's because it is child abuse and when it comes to abusing children it doesn't matter if men do it or if women do it either way it is considered equally outrageous. however statutory rape which is having consensual sex with minors is also more acceptable if it is done by women.

Just take a look at all the stories from around the world which have involved women many of them teachers who have had sex with underage persons both male and female. It is often considered not to be bad and many even consider it to be good especially if it is done with a male and the male in those situations is often considered to be lucky by many people.

However every time a man is guilty of statutory rape he is always judged and condemned and is considered to be a pervert and a predator and people will say that he should be locked up.

I'm sick of it and I'm so tired of the hypocrisy and double standards that apply to men and women. I wish all behaviour would be judged exactly the same regardless of who does it.

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I agree. I was thinking about this as I was watching the movie, and I sort of came to the conclusion that it's because of womens' physical structure. We (I identify as a woman mentally and physically) don't have a penis, therefore we can't penetrate something. We don't invade or intrude into others bodies, except when something else is involved or I guess fingers, but this is just an overall beginning thought process.

Take for instance this movie and necrophilia. It only showed her riding their face or kissing them. It's not like she was entering them with a sex organ or cutting pieces off and *beep* it. It's very complicated and a lot of it stems from our own perceptions of women's sexuality. I'm just as bias in this perception because I can understand the division and think the same thing myself. Like a dude masterbating and ejaculating all over a corpse is somehow more disrespectful to the deceased more than her kissing them and riding their faces. Which is super *beep* up I'm just curious as to why I think that. I'm sure a lot of people would agree.

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Another question that I sometimes can't help but ask myself is this - who, in the case of either opinion, is actually RIGHT or ULTIMATELY CORRECT, in any of this?

And the people who often go and complain about how unfair it is that women get lesser sentences for say same or similar bad deeds, or even, criminal offenses, or even, and to a certain extent even perhaps like here or in other cases, law violating offenses of a *sexual* nature, well, how right are THEY? And are the law systems REALLY unfair or biased in such cases or is there, perhaps, a logical reason that some of us, even intelligent adults as such, are overlooking, or can the other side perhaps ALSO overlook such things?

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Its a strange, twisted, weird, direct, normal, relative, absolute, uneven, double standard-oriented, at times unfair and unjust, sacred, sacramental, sacrilegious, humane, hypocritical, silly, intelligent, understanding, feelings-oriented, taboo-present etc world of humanity we live in, and a surprise and a reality in it almost always collide.

Welcome. Or not. :)

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I also wonder...

Is there a BALANCE overall in such views and truths? And do you think these views are CORRECT or are they often heavily biased and wrong?

If we lived in a world that was more well balanced and we were much more truth oriented, who would be right?

Also... Does it simply, YOU personally, depress and disappoint you? Or are you morbidly fascinated by it even if you don't agree either? Or you just wish the world was perfect?

P.S. Harm and bad actions are always wrong, at times even illegal. But are some of them actually worse than others including often some types of deeds in same or similar field?

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Yes. It apparently is. What do you expect? Women and men are equal... lol

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Women r wording men is based. Men can back off and wait their turn

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[–] Dainty (1650) 2 minutes ago
Women r wording men is based. Men can back off and wait their turn

What?

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INCORRECT...IT IS ONLY MORE ACCEPTABLE FOR A WOMAN TO BE A PERVERT IN THE VIEWPOINT OF MEN...WHO ARE ATTRACTED TO OR FEEL SUPERIOR TO SAID WOMEN.

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Whenever I hear a man complain that women can get away with fucking the underaged and women can't, I assume he's saying that out of envy.

And that he wants to be able to get away with fucking the underaged.

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Both genders are sickos when it comes to that. It's Ok to admire a young person, and think they are cute, but that are moral boundaries. I think it is unfair to always blame the adult, many times, the young person is just as cunning and devious. Teenagers are far from angels.

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2 Popcorngal - but can you TELL that from the very many MOVIES that you watch?

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"Both genders are sickos when it comes to that."

But we still view men in here as the bigger monsters whilst in general women are seen more as wrongdoers - in polite and civilized terms that is.

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Although you may have a point, don't forget that...

In this film, we have a female necrophiliac character so, well, in the overall context, even WITH those common truths in mind about the male gender in aspect of common guilty examples in sexual wrongdoings, let's not totally shy away from that.

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Has anyone also ever thought even in this day and age...

Why we look at various sexual issues including various aspects of sexual violence DIFFERENTLY, and often more EMOTIONALLY and with factual statistics and often controversial discussions, than we do at other forms of violence, including in fictional scenarios like movies, which also includes killings and murder, of innocents who don't deserve it mind you, no matter what the gender is of culprit or victim?

And why when it comes to sexual violence or sexual ISSUES we often get COMPLEX explanations rather than simple "good and bad dichotomies" and many talks on the order of "its unfair this, but this is how it is" and other related matters and assortments?

Is it just human nature? A tradition? We are curious? Can't help ourselves? Are we biologically and scientifically sexually sensitive? Is it a total fact or truth or opinion or a mixture? (Is anything in life even ever absolute?) As much as we DO agree with many GENERAL principles, rules and truisms.

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And does anyone in here HAVE a satisfying explanation to all of this WITHOUT having a problem in doing so and having such (correct) views?

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What does this ALSO say about our COMMON HUMANITY where and if...

In sexual terms, and sometimes OTHERWISE...

We human beings often debate, as civilized and normal ones mind you - not necessarily evil and selfish ones, in a controversial manner, not just how INNOCENT women should be treated and looked at including in fictional CINEMATIC scenarios...

But guilty ones of criminal including sexual wrongdoings, like here and otherwise, even if... WE KNOW AND AGREE ITS STILL BAD AND WRONG AND EVEN ILLEGAL AS WELL AS IMMORAL, for that matter but even MORE than that...

That online, we have CONTROVERSIAL DEBATES over such subjects that reach tens if not hundred of REPLIES even.

In terms of right and wrong, good and evil, cinema and life, revenge and forgiveness, law and morality, practicality and mental thoughts, intelligence and stupidity, or even looking at it all from a distant curiosity point of view but with truth nonetheless...

Where do we stand and how are we here human nature wise?

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