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Is there a movie that could help me lower my beauty standards? (Details in description)


I have ruined my brain. I have been watching filth on the internet ever since I was a kid. After 15-20 years of pornography/nudity/insta models/YouTube chicks I have conditioned my brain and not in a good way. I am no longer attracted to average woman. Specially if they don't have large breasts.
I have given up watching porn, Instagram etc. It's only been 25 days which might not seem much, but it is for me. Hopefully that will help. But I want to do everything I can to have a normal brain again as fast as I could. I realized how much this has messed up my mind very late. I wish I had stopped myself early on.

I look at men with below average looking woman and I wonder how the hell does he get aroused by her. How is he happy? Then I realized that the problem is not with those men or those women. The problem lies with me.

I remember when I was much younger (12-13), it was so easy for me to get aroused. I didn't need to look at the most well-endowed woman out there. The standards were pretty low. But years of exposure to world's hottest women (artificially enhanced or otherwise) has numbed my brain.

I want to watch a movie/series that could shift my focus from physical attributes to other more important things. I believe people can be conditioned into finding certain attributes more attractive. For instance, people in certain parts of the worlds care about thick thighs more than anything else. In other parts or the worlds people like petite women. In yet another people like big chubby women. Because they grew up where these attributes were promoted. Their brains have adapted to it. So, I believe that conscious mind has an effect on subconscious mind and vice versa.

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That made me laugh. lol I won't.

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Cool story bro...

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get out and meet real women

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I’m the dude that hangs out at strip clubs and even I can tell you looks only go so far. Making a mental connection is far better.

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I am well aware of that on a rational level. But knowing this on a rational level doesn't change the fact that I am biologically/psychologically not attracted anyone below average or even average. I need to feed my brain with something positive over a period of time.

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