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Poll: did you hate Jasmine or feel sorry for her?


Quick poll, to see how many here either sympathised with Jasmine or totally hated her guts. No bashing or long winded explanations, just your gut feel after watching the movie.

Personally, I felt sorry for Jasmine.

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Feel sorry.

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To some extent I felt bad for jasmine since I think she suffered from a nervous breakdown at the end and being alone.

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Sympathized with her.

I wish we could have seen her progress and redeem herself but I still loved the movie and the ending.

Perhaps our greatest cruelty is our blindness to the despair of others.

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I didn't feel all that sorry for her simply because if she called the FBI on her husband, that shows she knew. She may not have anticipated that catching her husband would also end her own affluent life, but the life she lived was based on theft anyway.

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I did not hate her but I did not feel sorry for her either. I just did not like her.

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After some deliberation, i do not feel sorry for her. She brought it upon herself. She may have been loving to her husband, but she took all his wealth for granted while her husband became her daddy. She herself stated that she wanted to make something of herself and while she had all the time and opportunity in the world under her husband's care, she chose to bask in this glory and dint pay heed to developing skills to survive in the world. Also, she was almost indifferent to her lovely sister who more often that not, chose Jasmine's side even though she had lost her 200k. If i had a sister like that, i would hold them in the highest regard in my heart and never let go.

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Agreed. Her sister was so incredibly good to her, it broke my heart. The way Jasmine treated them when they came to visit New York was despicable.

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I have to say that I enjoy the Dullboy9000 and threenails10 conversation. In that modern non forgiving mode I would like Jasmine to complete a suicide pact with her fiancé.

In a more forgiving vein, I see the movie as a retelling of the fable of the frog and the scorpion.

Ginger is the frog.
Jasmine is the scorpion.
Everyone else is collateral damage.

There is no helping the scorpion. It's character is it's destiny. When we get entangled in that situation we are simply adding to the body count.

Great Movie though. Well worthy of praise.

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Jasmine was a drunkard drug addict who never managed to achieve anything in life other than look good and seduce rich males. To add to that, when she learns that her husband had lost her seduction grasp and fallen in love with another she calsl the FBI, not because she wanted to do the right thing - she could have done that any time, no, but out of revenge. Because how dare the man, being her property, have sex with another woman. obviuosly she owns him and can treat him like a slave and tell him what he can or cannot love.
After that she still however learns nothing and tries to do this all over again as soon as life gets tough instead of trying to finish her studies (second time she does it too). This time it fails however due to lucky accident of meeting somone who knows the truth. Yet even after that she continues to lie and scheme

Jasmine is the perfect example of steretypical dumb blonde that is also not right in the head.

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Yes, i do not like Jasmine.

How many rich men did Jasmine actually seduce? None. If you follow the plot, Jasmine met Hal when she was in her last year of college and he ‘swept her off her feet.’ They stayed married for 20+ years while Hal had numerous adulterous affairs and was a crook. Hal was very charming, handsome and seductive and needed a young beautiful trophy wife to help him socially in his investment business and to get custody of his son from his first marriage.

One that we see off, and its not like she didnt try for more, nor is there a reason to assume she stops after the movie ends. In fact she flat out asks where she could seduce some in the movie.


Jasmine looked the other way with Hal’s numerous adulterous affairs.

She was ignorant, not looked the other way.

Hal was not ‘her property’ or ‘her slave’ but her husband. Hal wanted a divorce to marry a younger woman and told Jasmine she would be taken care of.

And? It is not like Hal wanted to throw her on the street or tried to force her staying in marriage.

Jasmine had not made the phone call out of pure rage, she would have wound up with a large divorce $ettlement, the Park Avenue apartment and probably the lavish beach house.

This is unknown. Hal was a smart guy (had to be to avoid taxes so well) and probably set the arrangements to avoid that easily. He claimed he would take care of her but to what point is a question.

Hal was the villain. Many of his investors lost fortunes and Jasmine did other investors a favor by making the phone call. Jasmine was not an accomplice or would have gone to prison as well. She looked the other way in both his business and extra-marital affairs.

Yes he was. However she knew about it and did absolutely nothing until the moment she did the call out of rage. So she was very much an accomplice. Her not being in jail is likely due to fact that she did make the call which gives her some levy against the FBI. There is a practice of absolving some crimes if the person allows them to catch a bigger fish.


Jasmine was very serious about her studies but had many major obstacles in her way besides not having money: Jasmine had a previous mental breakdown and was hospitalized; she was dually addicted to alcohol and Xanax which contributed to her erratic behavior. She worked for a lecherous dentist. As her classmate stated, Jasmine should have sued him for sexual harrassment. She was constantly being badgered by Chili who felt Jasmine had blindsided his plans to move in with Ginger and the constant noise in Ginger’s apartment and lack of privacy. If only she had taken the divorce settlement…

She was serious about her studies in that stupid "head forward eyes closed" way. Instead of taking design classes like she wanted she took computer classes to take design classes on the internet - a backward way of doing things. especially considering how bad she was at computers. Oh and the class cost question was out of the window since she paid for computer classes as well.
She did have mental problems and drug addiction, however while mental problems can be excused to a point, drug addiction is not an excuse. especially considering she did no attempt to stop using. The dentist perspective wasnt broadcast very well in the movie. it felt like she worked for him for weeks and then suddenly he decided to go on her.
Jasmine HAD blindsided his plans to move in with Ginger. And while Chili was acting like an idiot as well she was agonizing him all the way through.


Jasmine was delusional and did lie to Dwight about her past life but she did not seduce him. Dwight needed a trophy wife to further his political ambitions and I believe he honestly cared about her. Jasmine did not seduce him and it was Dwight who made all the advances from the first kiss to the marriage proposal.

I didnt think you were that naive. She was set on him the moment she learn of his position.
LOL about your last comment as I get the impression you have watched too many bimbo movies.

I think i just watched too many movies overall. IMDB voting history approaching 4000 titles. This is getting ridiculous.




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Where is that in the movie? I remember Jasmine asking her classmate if she knew any available men. If Jasmine was on the hunt for men, she could have easily met them in any posh cocktail lounge in San Francisco.

You already described the situation when she asks the classmate if she could get some men.

Hal wasn't so smart - look how he wound up. Hal knew Jasmine looked the other way and he flagrantly carried on with his extra-marital affairs and shady business dealings - right in front of Jasmine's friends who remarked that Jasmine shouldn't sign everything. The divorce court would have decided what Jasmine was entitled to - not Hal.

Read again. Hal can easily arrange it so the court would not be able to do squat. its not unheard off. And Hal was smart. stupid people get caught when they avoid taxes. Dont mix smart with good. There are smart and bad people.

It was Ginger who suggested that Jasmine become an interior designer and Jasmine thought it was a good idea. Jasmine did not have the finances to go directly to a school to get her degree. First, she would have to get her college degree and then an interior designer degree. Jasmine had to take a menial job with the dentist just to pay for basics. I believe the nightime computer class was in a free public school.

No. She got the job in order to pay for the computer classes that would allow her an online degree, when instead she could have paid for the designer classes straight away instead of going the hard route. but she was too stubborn and stupid to realize that.

Nothing wrong with that. Hope they were good movies.

There were many kinds among them, from movies i completely loved to movies so bad they dont even get listed on IMDB (for example "Warning: Pedofile released"). And there were soem truly horrendeous movies. I always said that Black Ribbon was the worst movie ever, but i recently saw Night of the Tentacle released in 2013 and that is worse.

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I didn't know that an interior design qualification was a post-graduate degree in the USA. I thought from the film that she needed some computer skills to access the online design courses that would enable her to become qualified as an interior designer.

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Really? If Hal could have done that, he would have. Smart crooks don't wind up in jail and commit suicide. Smart people also have even smarter lawyers.

Maybe he had. We do not know. There was never a divorce case to be had. And the state froze all the assets so it wouldnt have gone either way after his suicide. Smart crooks do mistakes too. His mistake was allowing Hal to know about his crookedness. We do not know what lawyers he had. Obviuosly they were quite smart if he could evade taxes for years. the story isnt about him though.

Jasmine said she was broke so how could she pay for 'designer classes' whatever that is.

Your missing the point. She needed money for designer classes. So she decided to take internet classes (apperently free?), but then she needed computer classes, which need money too. So we got two things that cost money: Designer classes and computer classes. Then she gets a job to earn money to pay for one of those things. She chooses to pay for computer classes instead of designer classes. Which was a stupid choice as we later saw (she was very bad at it, obviuosly wasnt her thing).



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Jasmine was very serious about her studies but had many major obstacles in her way besides not having money: Jasmine had a previous mental breakdown and was hospitalized; she was dually addicted to alcohol and Xanax which contributed to her erratic behavior. She worked for a lecherous dentist. As her classmate stated, Jasmine should have sued him for sexual harrassment. She was constantly being badgered by Chili who felt Jasmine had blindsided his plans to move in with Ginger and the constant noise in Ginger’s apartment and lack of privacy. If only she had taken the divorce settlement…


This is pretty extreme as far as defending Jasmine goes.

I'll grant that the dentist was a lech and probably would have fired her on day one if he didn't want to get in her pants. She was terrible on the job.

I didn't see any evidence that she was serious about her studies. She dropped out of school, she had plenty of free time to continue her education while she was married, and it was clear that she only wanted to "go back to school" because it would delay her having to be a part of the real, grown up world where she would have to work for and answer to someone.

As far as her being "badgered by Chili?" Not the case. He knew all about her, how she looked down on her sister, but took advantage of Ginger's kindness when she was down on her luck. How Hal lost Ginger & Augie's money and, instead of showing any sort of remorse, Jasmine continued to avoid her sister, and ultimately acted like everyone should just get over it. Chili was not harassing Jasmine; he was sticking up for Ginger who was far too loving and kind to stick up for herself. Jasmine is not entitled to any quiet or privacy while crashing in someone else's home. Ginger was kind enough to try to accommodate her, despite having a life Jasmine vocally wanted no part of, but Jasmine had no right to bust up the party or try to silence her children.

There are a lot of things Jasmine should have done. Least among them was taking the divorce settlement.

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Introducing Jasmine to his friend and brainstorming potential career ideas are not hostile acts. At best Chili's trying to help and, at worst, he's trying to get Jasmine back on her feet and out of the house. Chilli discussing Hal and Jasmine's past didn't occur in a vacuum. She was putting on airs, being dismissive, and looking down on all of them. He was letting her know that he knows who she is and that she wasn't better than anyone. She isn't. Chili and Ginger have no money, so how is it stripping Jasmine of her dignity to acknowledge that she's broke?

(Ginger has a big mouth and even told her two young sons about Jasmine in the diner scene).


Ginger has a big mouth because she shared something with her family and serious boyfriend? How else should she explain the sudden presence of this woman who wants absolutely nothing to do with her?

As far as Jasmine crashing Ginger's apartment, they did have a history together as children and it was Ginger who had suggested the online course.

Actually, Ginger said taking the computer course, just to take an online course was too convoluted. Then Jasmine hypocritically accused her of being negative.

Jasmine was probably also giving Ginger some money toward rent.

What money? Her salary from the dentist's office? If Jasmine was actually contributing to the household, she's definitely the type of character to mention and make a big deal of it. She flew in first class, showed up with expensive luggage, and made no offer or promises to her sister. Just that she needed to stay for a while.

Even if Jasmine was just a 'guest,' she would be entitled to have some peace to study so she could move on.

Not really. She could study at the library if she needed peace. Guests don't get to police their host's home.

So much is covered in about a 90-minute film that the audience has to fill-in other parts of Jasmine's former life. Many women do not pursue education once married and take on too much of their husband's identity.

Jasmine actively ignored her husband's "identity" so she could blindly enjoy the trappings of wealthy living. If she was truly serious about education as you previously claimed, she would have either finished school in the first place, or used some of her free time to take courses (even online)

I get that you sympathized with the character, that's understandable, but she's no special, delicate saint. She is at fault in the majority of her interactions with the other characters (except the dentist, of course). Even when she tracks down her stepson, after sneering at his current lifestyle, the first thing she says to him is that "she needed him." Not "how are you," "I missed you," "you look good," or "I'm sorry" or anything that a caring person would say to a lost child.

Let's not rewrite the movie to try to defend her.

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BTW - the first thing Jasmine said when she saw her stepson in the music shop was something like "Is that what you quit Harvard for?" Also, my point about education was that Jasmine realized education was important after finding out about Hal's affairs and that he was going to divorce her. She brought up the education issue when her stepson was quitting college and moving out.


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Even when she tracks down her stepson, after sneering at his current lifestyle, the first thing she says to him is that "she needed him."


Jasmine's concern was never education, but status. It wasn't about him going to school, but about him going to Harvard. We don't know if he continued his education at a state school or community college, just that he left Harvard, is married with a kid (no congratulations from Jasmine), and now works in a music store.

But yeah, more excuses for Jasmine, with another healthy serving of demonizing other characters to make her seem innocent. Chili can simultaneously want to move in with Ginger and not like the terrible way Jasmine treats her sister. "Most libraries close after 6 o'clock" is hilarious. Even if the San Francisco public library wasn't open until 8pm three nights a week, she could still go to a coffee shop or cafe. So funny, first she's "probably giving Ginger money" and now there's no place in all of San Francisco for a student to study. How ever do the thousands of students with actual course loads manage?

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I wasn't rewriting the story, I was simply pointing out that if the character Jasmine was truly committed to education as you claimed, she would find a way to study. That's not what was written, because that's not who the character was.

Danny being embarrassed by his father's crime is not indicative of an obsession with status. You're right, whether Danny went to community college isn't relevant to the plot, but again, if Jasmine was SO committed to education, she would have asked him if he got a degree elsewhere instead of just griping at him for leaving the prestigious Harvard.

You're giving her character attributes not supported by the actual movie. She was probably giving Ginger money? She put education first, despite all evidence to the contrary? Whatever helps you justify her actions.

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Even if Jasmine was just a 'guest,' she would be entitled to have some peace to study so she could move on.
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Not really. She could study at the library if she needed peace. Guests don't get to police their host's home.

Except that it wasn't Chili's home, it was Ginger's, and Ginger was perfectly ok with and wanted Jasmine to study with some quiet but Chili's arrogance was acting like it's already his house and I can be mean to Jasmine all I want.



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Regardless, Jasmine was not entitled to police the home and throw fits when Ginger had people over. Her poor sister was a doormat. At least Chilli tried to stand up for her.

Jasmine got what she deserved in the end, so all the excuses for her awful behavior don't bother me much.

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Jasmine got what she deserved in the end, so all the excuses for her awful behavior don't bother me much.

I'm definitely not making excuses for her behaviour prior to Hal's incarceration. She was an awful person then. However, after that, that way of life crashed and she lost everything. It's debatable whether Ginger should have told her "Go f--k yourself" then or not but I can understand the choice she made to help out her sister a little bit when she was at her lowest and had nothing anymore. I'm not saying Jasmine suddenly became a totally good person, but she did show weakness, and willingness to make a humble effort to work from scratch and be a secretary to a sleazy doctor to pay for her studies. Surely that was the way to go, no? Ginger was willing to give her that opportunity. Chilli was awful to her from the start. I can also understand where he's coming from, but it wasn't his home to refuse to turn the TV down just a little bit at Ginger's request. I don't recall Jasmine "throwing fits" about it; she was just a curt with Chilli in response to Chilli's attitude with her from the start.

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Thanks. I followed your interesting discussion with JadaDreams and felt I wanted to chime in there...

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As far as her being "badgered by Chili?" Not the case. He knew all about her, how she looked down on her sister, but took advantage of Ginger's kindness when she was down on her luck. How Hal lost Ginger & Augie's money and, instead of showing any sort of remorse, Jasmine continued to avoid her sister, and ultimately acted like everyone should just get over it. Chili was not harassing Jasmine; he was sticking up for Ginger who was far too loving and kind to stick up for herself. Jasmine is not entitled to any quiet or privacy while crashing in someone else's home. Ginger was kind enough to try to accommodate her, despite having a life Jasmine vocally wanted no part of, but Jasmine had no right to bust up the party or try to silence her children.

There are a lot of things Jasmine should have done. Least among them was taking the divorce settlement.


Dead right on all points.

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You're my new personal hero <3
Bravo

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Hated, but started to feel sympathy for her as the movie went on, even though I still kind of hated her, and by the end I was back to unequivocally hating her again. One of Woodie's more memorable, better written characters in a years.

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