This is the best discussion I've seen on IMDB.
I grew up in a 100% white community, went to a mostly white college, and didn't know anyone but white people until I was 30. I'm saying that, admitting my ignorance; because it's just what it was. But fortunately, in my late 20s, I moved to Washington DC and was there for 12 years. I had friends of all races and ethnicities. My boyfriend of 4 years was black. His 10 aunts and uncles (all with the same parents) ran the gamut from dark brown (like my boyfriend) to light-skinned. Until that time, I was ignorant of how common this is. I subsequently learned a lot. In Washington DC you see the fullest range, from dark coffee brown to skin lighter than one of my brother's. (example: Dinah Shore who had a black grandmother: http://www.radioarchives.org/pictures/Dinah%20Shore3.jpg)
My background is 50% Irish/50% English (but in doing genealogical research I've found if you go back to the 1400-1500s, in my family there were Spanish, Italian, Russian ancestors--so what does "English" or "Irish" mean?). One of my brothers is extremely fair with freckles and a pinkish hue to his skin, blondish/white hair, and light blue eyes (can't be in the sun for more than 10 minutes without burning), another brother and I are fair, but not freckled, with medium blue eyes--that brother has light brown hair and I'm medium blond, and another brother has slightly more tawny skin, hazel eyes, and brown hair. It's funny that no one ever questioned the differences in our skin tones. It's just a given that we're all white. And no one would incorrectly assume we had different parents--they'd just figure those are natural differences between siblings. Black families are very open about differences in skin tones and features among family members, exactly in the way white families would ("John tans really easily and he's got granddaddy's brown eyes--Tommy's got that really really blond thing going on").
My boyfriend and I talked a lot about race, exploring a lot of the topics we're talking about here on this board. Sometimes when we'd be out in DC he'd point out someone who was black who I wouldn't have known. It's not that it "mattered," per se, but got rid of a lot of my preconceptions. I just didn't *know* (i.e., I was ignorant, uninformed, unknowledgeable).
And as to skin-tone-related racism...sadly it still exists
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