I don't know if it was just because I was bought up in a different culture or upbringing, but by the time I was 12 or 14 I was old enough to realize that feeling comfortable enough to change in front of a fully grown(strange man) it seemed like, it was not the way for a developing girl to behave. Ever. Let alone changing a bra, no man except for my real daddy if the occasion called for it(sick in hospital, sick in bed etc...). Otherwise, it was just plain and overtly dirty and disrespectful. Girls need to understand boundaries, self-respect and self-esteem. The earlier the better, I'm sorry but I agree with OP on this. It takes two to tango, and if Lo did have certain morals instilled in her then their relationship might not have even worked or have gotten to the point of intercourse.
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