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I'm thinking about paying a woman for sex


I'm 40 and still a virgin. I have servre social anxiety.

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Are you serious? Why wait so long?

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I'm a shut in with serve social anxiety.

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That sucks.

There is also something called out-calls, home delivery sex.

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Why the hell not! Use a condom and don't expect anything from the lady except... good customer service skills!

I may be alone in this, but I would recommend contacting the lady ahead of time, and telling her what you want, and what you would like her to do, and what you would like her to refrain from doing. I know you will find it difficult to do this, but you're more likely to have a positive experience if you tell her about social anxiety and inexperience ahead of time, instead of making her guess.

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Some brothels are legal in Nevada. Have fun.

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It might be weird for someone with social anxiety to stand in front 20 ladies and choose which ones he'd like.

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I imagine you could probably just go online and pick which one you want and schedule the session.

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Oh, times have changed.

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Logistically, you are right, an escort would probably be easier. Rather than going to Nevada and having to deal with travel and all that.

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The only argument for going to Nevada would to be to break your normal patterns of behavior, and to give yourself the feeling that everything is different and you don't have to do what you'd normally do. Although, going to a decent hotel might have the same effect, to a lesser degree.

And going out to whereever would stop you feeling self-conscious about your home, or having to clean up before your date.

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Wouldn't you get the comfort or assurance that you aren't breaking the law with a legal brothel in Nevada too? How risky are escort services these days?

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In some areas, prostitution is considered to be a victimless crime, the cops don't waste any time on harmless exchanges between consenting adults, and sex workers advertise openly. Im told that potential clients can contact them through social media, don't ask me for details as I'm not on social media.

I guess the OP needs to look into what's available and what's considered acceptable in his area.

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Time for me to check out social media I guess!

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HOW MUCH IS YOUR MOM ASKING FOR?

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Do it if it's legal. A lot of countries have legalized prostitution. I'm in the US and I believe it's only legal in Las Vegas.

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