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Mike x Eleven is cute but also makes me unconfortable


It's an uneven relationship. Eleven is totally innocent about social norms, she had a completely different childhood from other children. She did not know that she should not change her clothes in front of the boys and what was a kiss. Mike in turn does not seem innocent at all, demonstrated by the comments he made about Nancy and Steve's relationship.

I know that Mike's intentions are very good, but don't you think that a relationship between them would not be healthy right now? I feel that Eleven needs to have a family and understand social norms before being involved in a relationship.

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Mike in turn does not seem innocent at all, demonstrated by the comments he made about Nancy and Steve's relationship.

I actually think that his comments about the subject indicate that he is innocent about it as well. Specially when he says "gross" in the context of supposedly liking a girl.

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Mike: You do a lot of studying last night?
Nancy: Yeah, actually. I did.
Mike: Oh yeah? What was your test on again? Human anatomy?


He doesn't seem innocent at all. He knows perfectly what boys and girls do when they are alone.

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Mike would like to take 011 to a grade school dance. That is sweet and perfectly normal.

Are you a mom who would be upset if your daughter had a crush on a boy and wanted to go to a dance with him?

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This is not the problem. The problem is that Eleven does not know what is right or wrong. She never had anyone to tell her that. She does not even know what a crush is, Mike is pretty much the only boy that she knows.

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When they're in the bathroom together in the beginning of episode 7, before Dustin bursts in Eleven is clearly about to kiss Mike.

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When they're in the bathroom together in the beginning of episode 7, before Dustin bursts in Eleven is clearly about to kiss Mike.

Yes, that little detail about Eleven having been the one who was actually going for the kiss in that scene gets overlooked a lot.

Having a crush on someone is an emotional response, not rational. Eleven may not quiet understand the concept of romance intellectually, but it's more than obvious that she has a crush on Mike.

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She does not want to hurt the cat...

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He knows perfectly what boys and girls do when they are alone.

Just because Mike had sex education doesn't mean that he is already comfortable about the subject. His other quotes clearly show that he still has that self-conscious innocence which is typical at that age.

Like when Mike called El "pretty" in front of his friends and then self-consciously tried to backtrack with "pretty good". Or when Nancy asked him if he likes Eleven and he then said "gross". Even his whole speech before the kiss clearly showed that Mike is still very naive about the subject.

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When I was in Kindergarten I knew perfectly well how babies were made. That didn't make me any less 'innocent'.

These are two children experiencing their first crush. It's not as though they are entering a sexual relationship and Mike is taking advantage of her naivety and inexperience with men.

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It was just a kiss, it's not like he laid her on the table, pulled her panties off (assuming she was wearing any in the first place) pulled his own pants down and started to *beep* her.

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gotta save something for season 2.

imo

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Maybe this would be relevant if Eleven and Mike were in their mid-20s but they're only kids. And they seem to have mutual feelings of liking each other, so it seems pretty harmless.

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Come on, at that age you may know what happens behind closed doors so to speak, but the idea of actually talking to a girl you like is still terrifying. Having a crush isn't something you consciously decide or have any control over. It just happens.

There's a connection between Mike and Eleven almost from the first moment they set eyes on each other. When he shows her to the bathroom and seems to instinctively understand her fear of being shut in, then defends her when the rest of his friends treat her like a escapee from the psych ward. El may have a harder time articulating what she feels but she clearly has a crush on Mike too. It's all completely innocent and I don't understand someone being troubled by the whole thing. Seriously?

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There's a connection between Mike and Eleven almost from the first moment they set eyes on each other. When he shows her to the bathroom and seems to instinctively understand her fear of being shut in, then defends her when the rest of his friends treat her like a escapee from the psych ward. El may have a harder time articulating what she feels but she clearly has a crush on Mike too. It's all completely innocent and I don't understand someone being troubled by the whole thing.


I see it exacly like you. Puppy love is something complitely natural and normal, and it shows that she is not just some powerful wepon but a normal girl, a child. The show does not go far from anything. Its like being upset when Wendy wants to kiss Petar Pan.

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I think you're making something out of nothing, your post just comes across as basically Mike assaulting El, when earlier in the show, the previous episode in fact, El actually begins to lean in to kiss Mike, but Dustin interrupts that attempt

Just because El hasn't grown up in a normal environment, it doesn't mean she doesn't have instincts and impulses, Children of all ages, as young as 1 or 2 years old often kiss other kids, my best mates Son and a mutual friends daughter, both just shy of 2 years old, spent a good hour or two playing together and we saw them kiss at least 3 times and neither of them has had sex ed classes and life experience about these kinds of things, it's just a natural thing

Also Mike has zero experience with girls, he would be learning just as much as El would if they did in fact date each other, they're kids, so it''s not like one is going to be trying to have sex with the other, at that age and in that era especially, holding hands and kissing is about as far as either would go and i would imagine kissing would be rare, Mike was shy enough with just the two of them, so around his friends, i think he would have to try very hard just to hold her hand in front of them, so again, you're just reading way too much into something, that isn't even an issue

In the scenario of Mike actually kissing El, let's face it, if El felt threatened or didn't like it, Mike would either be a pancake against a wall or his brain would have been squished to a pulp

So yeah, you're definitely trying to make something out of nothing and making a pretty poor attempt at it as well

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It's like you read my mind. "Uneven relationship" is silly.

Most relationships are uneven. Pretty rare that you'll find two people exactly matched in emotional maturity, attractiveness, experience, financial security, or any of the power factors in a relationship.

And junior high is the most "uneven" place in the world. Mentally, some kids are ready for college, others have been socially promoted but are really still functioning at grade school level. Physically, some kids look like they are 18 and others look like they are 10. Emotionally, they're just about all in hormonally induced mood swings.

Eleven has proven a capable against teams of CIA assassins and a murderous extra-dimensional monster with superhuman abilities. And the OP is worried that she can't handle a relationship with a 12 year old boy?

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Puppy love is a normal part of El's development too, along with developing general socialization. As it is for Mike.

Each child likes the other, and El (who really has all the power here, if anyone does) was visibly delighted by the kiss. It's adorable, sweet and lovely.

"If you want to take over the world, we don't teach that, but give it a go."

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Is that how you actually pronounce it in real life? "unconfortable"? You never paid attention in school did you? Mouth breather.

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Originally season 2 was supposed to be set ten years later, so season 2 could have been a lot more awkward.

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Originally season 2 was supposed to be set ten years later

I wonder if that version would have featured Eleven returning as well or not. El disapparing for an entire year seems already difficult enough to explan, let alone 10 years.

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Would be weird to try to continue the story without her considering she triggered the events of the series.

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Probably would have had Eleven return, but she would have been completely naked with Godiva hair.

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I want to see the XXX version of this show

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I think Eleven having some normal interaction with her peers would be good for her. Like Mike taking her to the dance. Having a crush and kissing boys is perfectly normal for a girl her age. So far she has had a very messed up life, and I don't see how sheltering her even more would be better for her.

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