Really don't get the hate


...towards the girls. I've read through many posts in the message board and several user reviews which completely trash the women. These include vulgar remarks (ie "cum dumpsters"), and more educated analysis which conclude that they were "stupid" and "wanted it" and therefor not exploited. First off, I completely respect the legal age. However, these GIRLS where not women nor had the mentality of them. I've always been a responsible person, but I'm still completely lost as to what I want from life. I'm in my early 20s, and I understand I have a lot of growing left to do. I can only imagine the pressure I'd have from throwing sex in my mix, let alone sex for pay. These girls obviously thought college wasn't for them, and didn't want a mundane 9 to 5 life. They saw the opportunity for money and took it, simple as that. They're children who were exploited due to their barely legal status...i mean come on...did you see that exploited teens site? We all have choices, but life immediately after high school is an exciting time! So much pressure to grow up, and there's this new level of freedom at their finger tips they want to explore. These sleazy site owners and photographers know this and prey on it.

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Your comments are those of a feminist in denial - no one made these girls do anything - they willfully and eagerly made the trip to Miami
to do porn on their free will - don't try to turn it around and blame anyone else. it's astounding to see how you try to twist everything around, calling the site owner and photographers "sleazy." Your an idiot who has no idea what she is talking about. If they had more class and respect for themselves and their bodies and reputations, they wouldn't make porn, but they don't do they? They are vacuous, immature and talk like morons - but they are doing because they want to. Did it ever cross your myopic mind that some ( more than you think ) of these girls are sluts to begin with - they like having nasty anonymous sex. They are not "exploited". The main caveat about this "movie" is theres no talk or use of drugs ( a joint does not count). There's tons of cocaine use in porn - that's no secret.

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The hate stems from them thinking they are so mature and hip to the world. Any adult knows you don't know *beep* about life at 18 years old like these girls believe they do. They act so enlightened as if they are above everyone else when in fact they are degraded like the trash they are. Sadly they won't realize it for another 10 years and will be preaching to their daughters one day who also won't listen to them.

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As a woman who dabbled in this industry I'm going to lay some truth on these idiot guys who think porn can be enjoyable to make for women. Firstly, I always tell young women if they are interested to do web cam because Jade in absolutely correct you are you're own boss and in control. Also live cams are not recorded and if a guy said anything degrading or asked me to anything I was uncomfortable with I could actually say no. Guess what guys, from a woman who KNOWS, I can VERIFY that the majority of women you see in porn are in pain, are uncomfortable and are definitely being exploited and sometimes raped. Why does this happen if they signed the contract and it's their own choice? Because in porn you really don't have a choice, you sign up for a blow job scene or a regular sex scene, then the producer says "Now lets do a forced BJ or anal, if you say NO, you will never be booked again, the director will see you as "difficult" if you don't do EVERYTHING they ask (even when you didn't agree to it) he will spread the word and your bookings will drop. Trust me, I know from experience, I am not making this up. Many women do drugs, (for me it was pain pills) Because it was PAINFUL! And no matter how empowering people think it is, it's not, it's degrading, it's horrible and the only reason they are more requests for the harder, more abusive stuff is how desensitized to violence as a society. This isn't to say all porn is bad, in fact I would gladly make a sex tape with my current boyfriend in order to show people what the female orgasm actually looks like, and illustrate the difference between sport *beep* and actually making love. The sad part is, young boys and girls are getting their sex education from porn which is all smoke and mirrors, it is in general becoming more violent at the expense of mostly woman who take the poundings. Are there others ways to get out of my parents house? Yes!! But everyone takes responsibility, from the actors, actresses, directors, producers, agents (pimps) and even you dumb guys or gals who watch it. I still don't see how porn is legal whereas prostitution isn't, I think both should be legal and more regulated to protect the vulnerable parties.

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kat-lew108, when you said "The sad part is, young boys and girls are getting their sex education from porn," you echoed what's been in my mind for a long time. I was beginning to think I was the only one concerned about this.

I've had a happy, long marriage. Porn isn't important to me. But it's my six grandchildren I worry about. Will they be able to maintain loving marriages with their spouse after watching hours and hours of porn? It doesn't seem possible.

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"They volunteered for it, you cant be exploited if you willingly volunteer for something. They had their choice and not only that they can leave whenever they want. "

That is categorically untrue. Almost by definition untrue.

You need to understand the definition of the word "exploited". Exploited means coerced or led to do something that is bad for you, but you choose it anyways because of the situation in which you find yourself, and/or because you lack the skills to make the better decision.

You seem to think "exploited" means physically forced. No, that would be rape in this case. Please learn that there is a large grey area between "totally want to do this porn shoot, even though I have adequate funds, other job opportunities, this is what I want to do for work" and forced rape on camera. The grey area includes exploitation.

What about somebody who has no good employment prospects, has debts, needs to pay bills, has dependents, and let's add low self-esteem. They are living day to day financially, so thinking about the future is a luxury they don't enjoy. When they are presented with a short-term way to make $800 cash, lied to about the upsides (lots of ongoing work, modelling jobs, real movie roles), and tricked about the downsides.

This is precisely what exploited means. Somebody takes advantage of somebody else's tough situation and bad choices. The exploiter takes advantage of the fact that the girl doesn't have a lot of other options at that time. The girl is given a catch 22, or a "Hobson's choice". The exploiter then goes on to make money off of the sacrifice and bad choice of the exploited.

Now, we can debate whether that exploitation should be legal or not. It currently is, and I suppose it should remain legal. But that don't make it right.

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what is the catch 22? but the problem is is there is no way to prove that you were exploited. there's nothing that they do to you or with you that wasn't outlined in your contract. so you can't prove that you were exploited. you weren't. and that's the whole thing with reality porn. they set up things but you never know if it's all an act or if the women really were told to do sexual things and they agreed to do them. the only thing you can know is that they are acting if the woman is a bad actor acting something out. if a woman is exploiting, I'm happy because every attractive woman should be exploited, degraded, disrespected, used, and abused, and harshly and painfully treated.

and you're acting like these women had to do porn out of necessity and that is the worst possible explanation for a woman doing porn. it's never so bad that a woman has to do porn. there are more jobs for a woman than you can possibly imagine, even for girls with no job experience, so don't take that lame excuse for having to do porn because you're in a bad financial position. these sluts are useless and worthless. and how can what they do be bad for them? and they're not lied to about lots of upcoming work. if you look good enough a man will want to fuc# you on camera. same thing with modeling jobs and real movie roles, who knows. and this whole sacrifice and bad choice of the exploiter is dumb. it's not like doing porn is bad for the girls. they love it. how could they not? everyone loves to have sex. and if a woman is ok with having sex on camera then they are doing something that they like. end of story. and they can leave it at any time. it's so irritating to me how you're trying to take away all these great opportunities that men have in getting to fuc# amazingly hot and amazingly beautiful women. and yeah, it's legal. it's legal because there's nothing wrong with porn. and because no one can prove that they got exploited with porn. the only reason why these women are complaining and crying exploitation is because they regret doing porn. but the only person they have to blame for doing porn is themselves.

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what is the catch 22? but the problem is is there is no way to prove that you were exploited. there's nothing that they do to you or with you that wasn't outlined in your contract. so you can't prove that you were exploited. you weren't. and that's the whole thing with reality porn. they set up things but you never know if it's all an act or if the women really were told to do sexual things and they agreed to do them. the only thing you can know is that they are acting if the woman is a bad actor acting something out. if a woman is exploited, I'm happy because every attractive woman should be exploited, degraded, disrespected, used, and abused, and harshly and painfully treated.

and you're acting like these women had to do porn out of necessity and that is the worst possible explanation for a woman doing porn. it's never so bad that a woman has to do porn. there are more jobs for a woman than you can possibly imagine, even for girls with no job experience, so don't take that lame excuse for having to do porn because you're in a bad financial position. these sluts are useless and worthless. and how can what they do be bad for them? and they're not lied to about lots of upcoming work. if you look good enough a man will want to fuc# you on camera. same thing with modeling jobs and real movie roles, who knows. and this whole sacrifice and bad choice of the exploiter is dumb. it's not like doing porn is bad for the girls. they love it. how could they not? everyone loves to have sex. and if a woman is ok with having sex on camera then they are doing something that they like. end of story. and they can leave it at any time. it's so irritating to me how you're trying to take away all these great opportunities that men have in getting to fuc# amazingly hot and amazingly beautiful women. and yeah, it's legal. it's legal because there's nothing wrong with porn. and because no one can prove that they got exploited with porn. the only reason why these women are complaining and crying exploitation is because they regret doing porn. but the only person they have to blame for doing porn is themselves.

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You need to understand the definition of the word "exploited". Exploited means coerced or led to do something that is bad for you, but you choose it anyways because of the situation in which you find yourself, and/or because you lack the skills to make the better decision.

So we are at leats in agreeance that women are mentally retarded sluts?




You seem to lack strong female influence in your life... I know a few women engineer's, doctors, that would like to have a talk with you.....


And about your comment about "very few women have mental capacity beyond a 16 year old's" The average brain reaches cognitive maturity around age 21-22 and that goes for males and females across the board.... before that the pre-frontal cortex is subject to bouts of impulsiveness , I am a neurologist professor, and you can see my credentials at oakland university if you would like to look it up.

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you know, i feel this is a good time to bring up a rather disturbing video of casting calls for amateur porn.. These girls you could definitely state, were exploited. Just look up "Return Of The Mysoginistic *beep* Talking Bastard"(video title(s)) and *beep* said videos are primarily hosted on, though I have found them elsewhere, under the same title) on google search and watch some of the videos that come up..

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There are young women the same age in some foreign countries that would gladly do the same thing for ten bucks.

It's all relative.

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Agreed. You only have to listen to them talk for a few minutes to see how young and naive they are. Hopefully most of them only do this for a short time then get out and don't get trapped by the industry.

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