Stay at home moms = easy
A Day In The Life
Wifey and the husband wake up at 6:00am and she starts to get herself prepared for the day. Then, she?ll get the kids up at 7:00 or so and see them and the hubby out the door by 8:30. What?s next? There?s an entire day of freedom from the little munchkins! She?ll go home, clean and tidy the house. It?s not even 10:00. She?ll go to the gym for an hour then head to lunch with girlfriends?maybe go shopping with them, or pick up a few groceries. She?ll pick the kiddos up at 3:00pm, then go home and ?supervise? while watching whatever current garbage is on the HGTV network. At 5:00, she?ll start preparing dinner (if she bothers to cook). The husband comes home, and by 7:00 she checks out for the night as he does the dishes and helps the kids with homework. Maybe she reads them a story for an hour. Have sex at 10pm (oops, I forgot this was a marriage, so cross that off). Asleep by 11:00.
Please note, this is applicable to parents with school-age and above children. A toddler is a different ballgame, I would imagine.
These are very real stories that I?ve heard rehashed numerous times by some of my own family members and the wives of my co-workers. While they?ll never shut up about how mentally exhausting it is be a stay at home mom, and how they never get to sit down, it?s ridiculous that they think their life is somehow more stressful, or that they work harder than their husbands that deal with rush hour commutes, nagging bosses, deadlines, and the other pitfalls of a 9-5 career.
My mom stayed home and cared for my sister and I until we were both in middle school. She did things right: we had hot meals six nights a week, my dad read the paper after dinner (rarely doing dishes), and she did all the housework except for the manly stuff like mowing the lawn and changing the oil. She did not spend hours on Facebook or at lunch gossiping with girlfriends. On top of that, if asked, she always said without hesitation, ?Dad works much harder and endures much more stress than I do. I?m very lucky to be able to stay home.?
That is the attitude a stay at home mom should have.
Do The Math
Total hours ?worked? in her eyes = 6am ? 11pm = 17 hours
In reality:
4 hours for getting the kids ready and then cleaning up/tidying
1 hour shopping for groceries
1 hour entertaining the kids in the afternoon
2 hours preparing a meal and then cleaning up
Once that?s all added up it?s only eight hours, and I?m being generous with that. Meanwhile, the husbands leave the house by 8:00, sit in traffic for an hour, get a measly one hour lunch, and sit in traffic for another hour to get home. Once home, they then have to clean up (because after all, she did the cooking) and then help the kids with their math homework because mom never studied anything that actually made her think, and therefore cannot help with math.
The most disgusting part about this to me is that I hear my these stay at home moms bragging about this to no end. Yet, they still hamsterize that they are somehow working harder and longer than their husbands. They also never acknowledge that the stress of the full-time workforce is far more intense than being a stay at home mom. While their husband is being chewed out by his boss, their biggest worry of the day is not burning the lasagna (assuming they can cook)
Stay at home moms have the easiest job of all. Stop complaining moms!