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Anyone else disappointed in its rendition


Of mental illness? My dad is bipolar so as you can imagine I was looking forward to this for awhile now. I loved Silver Linings but that film might have been even less commercialized than this one. It really bothered me how his struggle with bipolar was illustrated as this constant, ongoing inconvenience for him instead of the brutal ups-and-downs the disease actually carries. In the first 5 minutes I thought this film was finally the one I was searching for; a definitive film of what it means to be bipolar. The rest of it fell far short.

He was in this constant state of hyper-activity and for an outside viewer this is the type of rhetoric that furthers the stigma of mental illness. Bipolar people do not act like that all the time. The way I see it there are three stages, or states to being bipolar:

Yourself -- The person we know and love. This is who you are normally. There is no possible way to tell someone is bipolar most of the time. They are simply who they are. In the movie this line was blurred to extinction; is he really this energized all the time? Is that who he is or is the disorder at work?

Depression -- The lowest possible lows anybody can physically feel. Life is meaningless, you are worthless, there is nothing to live for. Days fly by. It all seems so pointless and cruel that you don't want to do anything.

Mania -- This is the potentially dangerous or potentially awakened state. You could be up nights absorbed in something remarkably creative, doing anything you love. You feel on top of the world. Anything and everything is possible. Some attain moments of clarity, glimpses of enlightenment. On the other side, this freeing of the self can get mixed with hazardous thought. You can destroy, fight, harass anything in sight. This is where some people lose their jobs and spouses. Where relationships are tested. Where you aren't in control of yourself any more.

Sadly the film had a one-note character instead of the myriad feelings and complexity that those who have it go through.

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It does feel rather synthetic, with manic depression played for laughs rather than insight. And how could the mother leave her children alone with this guy? I know this is a true story, but her character just came off as self-involved and oblivious.

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As someone with Bi-polar I thought it was VERY accurate on the manic side.

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