that’s the only thing you could see in the movie? If you can't go deeper and deeper into that movie it doesn’t mean the movie is plain.
To me this film does a restoration of what fatherhood means. It’s a rare thing these days. The general trend is that you must be rebellious and fight actively against laws, rules and every patriarchal value...
Well this movie reveals what a father means in one’s life.
The father is the one capable to reveal you to yourself.
The big shot lawyer, from the big city, facing the hidden wound of his father’s soul. An old wound made by nobody else but him. The rebellious son.
The father is hurt by the son’s impertinence and insolence to the point he becomes a criminal. A good man, a fair judge becomes a criminal.
The big shot lawyer realizes that, through his arrogant and insolent attitude he destroyed his brother’s life; and the father still suffers to the point he accidentally kills someone. Someone reminding him of his son. Father has tried so hard to destroy son’s insolence and make him see his mistake and the flaws of his personality in order to convince him to make a correction. He failed. For a father that’s a heavy pain.
Father’s failure leads to son’s professional failure he can’t save his father from the prison. But at least the son sees himself as he is. A bit of reparation is done.
Not everybody can empathize with that story.
I do and probably I’m not the only one.
There is also a part of that movie where I totally see myself. When the judge meets his granddaughter, Hank’s daughter.
My paternal grandfather was the person I loved the most from my family. He was the one loving me the most and he was the only person I could talk to without any explanation. He spoiled me like nobody else. He used to be an extremely severe father to my dad; just like may dad was and still is to me; you know nothing changes as they grow old. My grandmother used to say: look at him now, I can’t believe it! if you only knew how he was as a father with your dad…
Truth is, father’s love is a constraining force preparing you for life and it’s a privilege having a father. Many feel it like a negative force; but what bliss is having a father! That makes you be invincible; Why? Because behind that constraining force; the driven energy is an incredibly amount of love. That love is revealed only to the next generation; dad can't afford to show that love to you; he can't show you weakness! maybe to your kids but not to you.
I posted this message b/c there are very few movies praising father’s values in one’s life.
It’s understandable! I may sound paranoiac but there are many groups of interests wanting you to be weak and frail in order to manipulate you easily.
So, movies like The Judge are rare.
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
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