i'm twenty years old and i'm a virgin and i'm not ashamed of it. i will most likely die one because sex is not anything that i'm just dying to try. in truth i think it's pretty funny how things go down. anyway, would anyone else be embarrassed about everyone finding out you're a virgin?
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It's high school. Anything's embarassing.
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They were more making fun of her for never having been kissed, not necessarily not being a virgin.
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since when have teenagers not made a big deal about things like this? it's all about society expectations and teens are extremely susceptible to peer pressure and media influences
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I know, seriously--it's not. I'm older than you (27) and I don't care; it isn't something I'm dying to try either, and I most definitely wouldn't do it with just anyone. No one else could give a flip either.
And during high school? That subject was hardly ever raised! It didn't matter. It wasn't a big deal. Nobody really cared. Yeah, some people dated. There were even a couple of "couples" pages in the yearbook, made by the more popular ones. ;p But who was going out with whom, or "how far" they went...that kind of stuff was really not spoken of much. I don't remember anyone getting teased over or bragging about a sex life, truthfully or not.
My friends and I were all busy enough with having fun together, classes, extracurriculars, and life in general that even if we were interested in anyone, we had little time to focus on or talk about such mushy/intimate things. xD Never mind that I was always way more attracted to teachers than fellow teens anyway...!
same. we were too busy going out and studying and nobody talked about sex with their boyfriends
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