This movie just plain sucked for me. The plot was old and had been done many times before. I liked Insidious, however. It was like a cross between Dream Quest and Poltergeist, two movies I happen to love.
Call me crazy, but I like both this film and Insidious. Though I can see why people wouldn't. About half the movie was spent on Daniel Radcliffe walking all over the house and it takes a while to get going so people could get bored and lose interest. Luckily I have more patience than most. But I think both films are some of the better ones I've seen from the past decade and find them both interesting.
I agree with what LordManHammer said earlier, its the atmosphere. I agree with you OP, this movie didnt scare me either. Insidious was just silly to me but the last movie to really do the job was The Conjuring. I did see that one in the cinema so it might have something to do with it. I rate the new version of Woman in black to be one of the better horror movies of the last decade. I am however a big fan of the traditional Victorian ghost stories, in a British setting. I like how you dont bash people with different taste though, and I guess we all get our different kicks out of different movies.
This film has like 5 jump scare scenes. The rest is about atmosphere. And that always creates a good scare.
I'm sorry if that don't scare you and that you must visually see things in order to be scared. Imagination is what made things scary, and horror films use atmosphere since it triggers your imagination. People don't even seem to use imagination any more.