Hypocrisy
Ida made a great point when she complained that she was expected to forgive her daughter's killer, yet wasn't allowed to have contact with her sister because her sister left the Amish way of life and was ex-communicated. I believe the concept of forgiveness is something a lot of Christians like to use to appear "holier than thou." I'm also bothered that Ida's husband would choose his Amish lifestyle over her.
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