"She should have found an average looking (not that she is average looking, she is very pretty but the weight cancels the looks out to some extent, don’t get mad people, this is just reality)"
...for you. It cancels the looks out FOR YOU. Not for everyone. So it's not reality so much as YOUR reality.
"or overweight guy like herself. We could have seen how they fell in love and appreciated each other and maybe even agreed to work out together and eat better."
Yeah we could have. Maybe Tyler Perry is reading this board right now for ideas & he will cut you a fat check for intellectual property rights. But since you're so fat-phobic, you probably wouldn't want it.
"If a fat woman can’t love a fat man, then why should the fat woman be loved?"
No one is saying she can't. Again, this is your reality, not anyone else's. What about all the movies or TV shows where the fat guy has a hot wife who is not fat? Does that make you upset as well? If a fat man can't love a fat woman, then why should the fat man be loved? The question works both ways & you rarely see a fat woman with a good looking man in movies or TV. Good for Tyler!
"Here is a suggestion for a movie for Perry, a fat woman who is always after thin handsome guys and who rejects fat or average looking guys who realizes one day, why I am after these guys who don’t like me. I am using the same unfair criteria to judge people by which I am judged."
Who is to say the guys don't like her? Again, your reality.
"No insult intended to anyone, but a young handsome guy like that, who has his pick (which he does believe me), in real life, he is not likely to want a fat woman like Jill Scott."
Oh you'd be SURPRISED at the young, handsome thin guys who want a fat woman. Fat women tend to have food in their refrigerators. Fat women tend to take better care of their bodies (mani, pedi, waxing, haircolor, etc) because they want to look nice. Fat women already know shallow, insecure fat guys like you will judge them for their size on sight, so they have to be prepared and look their best at all times. Otherwise they're not just fat, but a slob, too!
"Apart from aesthetic considerations, if he values his body and exercises, which he obviously does, wouldn’t he want a woman that did the same?"
I can tell by this line that you're pretty young & have most likely never gotten your fat little dick wet. You can't base attraction on thoughts like that. Attraction just is. You hear it all the time. Someone will say, "Well, normally he/she would not be my type, but the personality was something I had to get to know more about & now here we are." It happens every day. There's no accounting for attraction or chemistry.
"Women who complain about unfair treatment because of their weight should look at themselves and say, Do I find fat men attractive? Or skinny men? Or men who look nerdy? If I judge them like that, why should I complaint about how I am judged?"
Like I said earlier, I think this issue is more in your fat head than out on the streets. I don't know anyone who is complaining they can't get laid because they're too fat. As you grow & mature, you learn to judge not by appearance but by actions, such as abusing animals, cheating on your taxes or spouse, voting Repug, things like that. I do know girls, fat and thin, who complain they can't find a guy who can't do more with his life than work part time at a gas station and spend the rest of his time playing WoW.
"The truth is more men fat or not find fat women attractive than women fat or not find fat men attractive."
I have not seen this to be true. Kevin James, Drew Carey, Jim Belushi, etc all have much smaller girlfriends & spouses than themselves. It's not that uncommon to see a Leah Remini-type with a Kevin James-type. Everyone thinks, "Oh she's with him because he has money", but as a lady I'm here to tell you: fat guys are teddy bears on the street, but freaks in the bed. They try harder, they're good at what they do & they're willing to try new things. What more could a girl want? Fat or thin.
"Fat men have a hard time. But being men, they are not allowed to whine.
Men whine all the time. Basically my point is: you're being ridiculous. Here's what you're basically saying:
Fat women can only date fat men & they should be grateful for any attention! Those porkers! So following your school of thought, then here is what we have:
Thin women can only date thin men.
Black women can only date black men.
Short women can only date short men.
Tall women can only date tall men.
What a boring world that would be! So go out there! Develop a personality unstead of whining about unfairness! Be a teddy in the street but a freak in the bed!
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