I kinda agree to be honest, the man and the son are delusional and not fit to survive in this world. Their philosophy carries no weight because there's no hope left, they're just desperately holding on to a concept that has no value or practicality anymore at the expense of their own survival and safety just to feel better about themselves.
I don't even understand how the man can still have his morals mostly intact after more than 10 years living in this hell and how he managed to survive that long, but I have my theory, to me it's pretty obvious that him and his family were very sheltered throughout the ordeal, they look more like witnesses of everything than happened, the mother know about the bandits, the rapes and the cannibalism, but they never endured it. They are always hungry, but we never saw them starving to the point of desperation.
Before everything they were upper class and educated, going to operas, owning horses, the Man knowing about scientifical terms and such.. So I'm thinking that while he's still kinda jaded and wary, he didn't had to go through half of what most people trying to survive had to, it's implied it's been years since they've last traveled before the mother gave up, and when she's having the baby in the flashback, they're well off and cosy with supplies and shelter.
One thing I found interesting, the first man we meet in the film, the long haired redneck going for a piss played by Dillahunt, is so far gone, that when he tries to appear friendly to the Man and his kid, he can't even sell it because his smile is twisted and predatory and the way he's looking at the boy you can just see the lust in his eyes, he can't act human anymore because he didn't had to for a very long time and probably forgot how to, and you'll notice he can spot right away that the Man was prey by the way he talks and the questions he asks, it's pretty telling to me that the Man had a way easier time than most, because by now he would be used to confrontations and would've intimidate the bandit into following him and proving he wasn't bluffing with his gun (even thought he wasn't, it still took the bandit to put a knife on his son's throat for him to pull the trigger, and he hesitated), instead of shaking and on the verge of tears like he was. He catch up later in the movie though.
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