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Do you think the main character in this movie was really depressed?


I just couldn't believe that the guy who was is playing him, was really depressed. It didn't seem believable. I did enjoy the movie though. I just wish that someone would actually make a real movie about somebody with depression. My sister and I both have depression and anxiety problems. I had trouble in school on my Junior year in high school battling those problems. I kept quiting school and then I would go back the next semester and then I would quit again. But luckily I got on the right medication and I started to feel better. I ended up graduating high school at the age of 20. But I still go through phases where I really feel down in the dumps. But I'm gonna fight it. I'm not going to give up.

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I think he wasn't REALLY depressed, the guy was just passing through some stress, because of the university issues, thinking he wasn't good enogh for anything, girl, etc... I think he was just exaggerating things

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I think he was depressed somewhat as he was thinking seriously about suicide and was afraid he'd kill himself if he didn't check himself in but his level of depression was no where near what it could be. It was still smart of him to get some kind of help before it got really bad. My boyfriend's 23 year old brother killed himself several weeks ago and no one saw it coming because he didn't "appear" to be very depressed. Much of Craig's problems were kinda normal teenage stuff and he was mostly experiencing a lot of stress and anxiety from that. I've been in the psych ward and have met many teens like him who were no where near as depressed as I was so the way they depict the various kinds of mental illness and the various levels of depression in a psych ward was pretty realistic to me.

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I can relate to him. I think Craig is more frustrated than depressed. He attends a high school where the students around him are elite. There must be a lot of pressure and competition.

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I think he was going through a hard and stressful time. Maybe he was depressed, but not major depression. Although I do think by being at the hospital it did help him.

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I was like Craig at his age and didn't get help. It took me 20 years to get over the terrible anxiety and stress that governed by life and if I could go back to teen years and had seen this film, I'd have gotten help then.

Seriously realistic film despite being well-written and acted. Major surprise.

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I think he was. I know people with depression are supposed to be super dramatic or whatever but it is often said that people who don't seem sad are among the saddest. He was considering suicide. That's real deal. The difference is some people are suicidal and it seems to have no reason, while others are depressed because of the stress of school/the weight of the future/parental negligence/broken heart/etc.
I just think his depression was due to outside forces and sought help. Good for him.


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He was overwhelmed with pressure from all parts of his life and all his emotions were so bottled up he felt like exploding. He did not have depression, he was just a teenage boy who had too much on his shoulders and didn't have anyone to turn to or coping skills to use in order to get over it.

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Surely everyone going "but I was depressed..." and "but my sister was depressed and..." know that there is no such thing as simply "being depressed". Everyone is incredibly different and many people suffer from severe depression but manage to hide it from even their closest friends and family.

You could argue that as this is a film, we should notice things others around him in the film don't, but regardless of your experiences in the past, I really don't think depression is the type of thing you can just look at someone at go "yes, they're depressed". Much like pain (what I feel as a pin-prick could be an unbearable stabbing sensation to you), the human mind is an abstract thing that you can only truly understand yourself.

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i think firstly we need a certified psychiatrist to tell us, based on what the movie revealed, whether the boy's responses could be considered as typical of clinical depression.

we can keep guessing all we want, and i think it is important to compare with our own real life experiences, but it is also plain to see that none of us can really give an accurate last word.

that to me is the key here... depression isn't something we pretend to know, even if we have had some first or second hand experience. depression is something that requires so much extra sensitivity (even appearing overly concerned could have the reverse effect) that it might be harmful if we pretend to know it better than we really do.

so are we then stuck with some kinda paranoia... about who exactly is depressed around us? not really. but if we were kind to others, we would definitely not deepen the stress level of anybody near us. in fact, if we could care enough to do small things for others, it might just be that crucial ray of sunshine which saves a life.

would you be nice to Craig? or would you add to his troubles? that's all that really matters imo...

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I'm not a certified psychiatrist, but a have been a lowly mental health therapist. I think they'd first try to assess how much of a threat he was to his own safety. Then they would make a diagnosis that his insurance (or medicare or whatever) would cover treatment for. It's a kind of game that's played, that psychiatric diagnosis are partly or even mainly made on the basis of health coverage rather than the other way around. After all you can't make a diagnosis of a psychiatric condition on the basis of a blood test or urine test or any other physical measurements. Suicidal and even just self-harming patients would be admitted on the basis of that fact, independent of an exact diagnosis.
In other words, in real life you can come across very sane seeming individuals on psych wards. I think the writer actually wants to make it unclear exactly how mentally ill the characters are, and in particular make it easier for people who don't have experience with mental illness to empathize with the main character.

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The actor wasn't so great at the portrayal imo. Read the book when I was a junior, it's much better.

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Just watch Bill Murray movies. He suffers depression and does a really good job of handling it but not hiding it.

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