Maybe it's better for the female population that you become gay, you know..I don't see what it is you find so "antipathetic" about the girl behavior during this sex scene, it obviously has nothing to do about you feeling empathy, as the only thing that matters for you is that she's uttering words and speaking her mind, which is what seems to kill your boner. You must be the silent type.
I did find their talk very cool because usually during sex in Hollywood movies -and even life- people often simply don't talk, they don't ask each other what they like or don't like, they just assume how they should act during sex. It never cease to amaze me, there must be some mind-reading involved. Like, "ok I'm not gonna say I don't like this or I don't really am into that, or I'm gonna spoil the "fun". Porn doesn't help, now everyone thinks he or she knows the scenario (or they must). Too bad that there is not more communication as in this movie, or respecting you partner when he or she is saying that something is making him or her uncomfortable. Not thinking "How dare she questions my technique, such a boner-killer !" You should take it as a proof of honesty ,your partner is not here to perform a role, to be someone else than he or she is.
In a sense it is very much the intend of this movie to show how people don't talk to each other, and often just pretend and want you to pretend all the same.(or else they resent you, as most people resent Lisa for speaking her mind)
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