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The Time Traveler's Mom Time Traveled Too


I looked all over the board for someone to mention this and it keeps bugging me. After watching the movie I could not help but keep thinking about the "singing" part of stopping time travel and wondered if Eric Bana's mother in the movie either did not know she time traveled because she's spent her life singing and it pushed the time travel back, or she did know and realized early that singing helps so she spent her life doing it and did not think that her son might have it too so never bothered mentioning it.

What do you think?

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I read the Book, The mother is not a Time Traveler in the book.

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I watched the film only once, (all I could take), but have read the book several times, and in neither case do I remember any reference to Henry's mother being a time traveler.


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A VERY interesting thought. The movie certainly doesn't indicate that in any way ... but neither does preclude that from being possible.

However, if she were a time traveler, you would think she would have recognized adult Henry on the subway, and perhaps have been willing to talk about it to adult Henry in a way she couldn't with her 6 year old Henry.

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I don't think either of Henry's parents time traveled but it's an interesting idea. If his mother and daughter traveled but could control it to some extent then you could speculate that female time travelers are generally better equipped to deal with the situation. Meanwhile the poor old male just gets thrown back and forth and must deal with it as best he can. Which means the author has given her gender an inbuilt advantage which seems unfair to me! We males must band together and protest this discrimination ;-)

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However, if she were a time traveler, you would think she would have recognized adult Henry on the subway


Having watched this scene, I think she DID recognize him. She knew very well who he was. She did not act like some ignorant stranger at all. From her reaction to him I am pretty sure she knew who he was.

Why didn't she say more to him? Well, either because she was no time traveler herself and therefore didn't know that she was going to die, or because she was a time traveler, and knew it, but didn't want him to worry.

In either case her reaction would make sense and in either case I am sure she recognized him.

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I don't know if you have read the book but his Mother was never referred to as a time traveller.

Also, if she could control it, then why wouldn't she time travel out of the car when it crashed like Henry did (he did it as his stress coping mechanism at that point).

In the book it is explained that his parents seem to recognise him as he sees them in his time travelling, but presume he must be someone from the neighbourhood and maybe suffering from aids or something as he seems to age quickly and strangely.

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I've only watched the movie but I thought in the movie it was implied that his father knew all about time travelling and was presumably a time-traveller himself?

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Yes his father knows of it after his mother dies, however his father is not one and is at times almost disgusted with the fact Henry time travels.

In the book Henry says he is surprised his father has never connected the dots that this strange man who was around in throughout time was his time travelling son. But no, he is not a time traveller, when Henry tells him he sees his Mother all the time his father is happy that she is still out there in time, meanng he doesn't time travel.

A good part in the book is where a younger Henry is met by Alba before Henry has even met Claire and he doesn't connectthedots,even though his then girlfriend does.

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The reason his daughter had better control was because she was taking a drug to help her with it.

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While I don't think the movie is meant to make you think that his mom time traveled too. I do think it's an interesting thought that maybe she did have the ability to but never did because she always sung and just stayed in the present.



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Yes, I totally agree. It's a very interesting point and an excellent observation with a keen imaginative mind. The OP brought up a very arousing and pertinent idea. Even it's not the intention of the movie's director or the author of the book, it's relevant and more effective to the story. I like this additional detail to the story.

And, to the people who keep complaining about the movie vs. the book... stop it! People who read the book will automatically know the differences, and people who did not will not... that's a given. No one needs to religiously point that out in every movie that based on a book. We've also all known that a movie cannot be exactly as a book because of its obvious difference as a story telling medium. Something can be said and explain in books cannot be replicate in movies or vice versa. The director and producers have to work within a budget, time length, and numerous other technical constraints. At times, they have to tell the story a different way or just differently to keep the movie interesting, more at pace with the audience, and the story more adaptable to the screen. That's why all movies based on books are with screenwriters and screenplays.

For the devotees of the book who keep trashing the movie, I strongly recommend these people to take the time and watch the Special Features section in the movie DVD where the director, the screenwriter, the producers, the actors... talking and explaining about the reasons why the movie the way it is and the difficulties of telling the story from book to the screen. Especially, the part where the screenwriter explains very eloquently and in details why the movie cannot tell the story in the way the book was constructed. Among many, one simple reason is: to tell a story of an over 540-page book via an approximately 100-page screenplay in a movie time-length of 1 hour 40 minutes.

When seeing a movie of this kind (a heartfelt love story), just sit back, relax, and enjoy the show... for what it is and not going in the technical aspects of it (like time-traveling in this case) or making comparison between the book and the movie. Through my own experiences, I have not seen one movie based on a book has come out better than that book (even the famous and timeless "Gone with the Wind"). So, that's a given when going to cinemas seeing films based on books. No need to compare... unnecessary to complain.

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"Sing to stay in the present" contradicts what she told Henry right before the accident.

SING.

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Given that the time traveling is supposed to be a heritable genetic condition, it is reasonable to expect some of his parents or other relatives to be time travelers. It was not discussed in the movie (or in the book, I hear) but it could have been an interesting addition.

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Hi from 2016. You have a fair point I think since Alba says she sings to herself to stop from travelling when Henry asks how she stops herself.


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Yes, I totally agree. It's a very interesting point and an excellent observation with a keen imaginative mind. You brought up a very arousing and pertinent idea. Even it's not the intention of the movie's director or the author of the book, it's relevant and more effective to the story. I like this additional detail to the story.

And, to the people who keep complaining about the movie vs. the book... stop it! People who read the book will automatically know the differences, and people who did not will not... that's a given. No one needs to religiously point that out in every movie that based on a book. We've also all known that a movie cannot be exactly as a book because of its obvious difference as a story telling medium. Something can be said and explain in books cannot be replicate in movies or vice versa. The director and producers have to work within a budget, time length, and numerous other technical constraints. At times, they have to tell the story a different way or just differently to keep the movie interesting, more at pace with the audience, and the story more adaptable to the screen. That's why all movies based on books are with screenwriters and screenplays.

For the devotees of the book who keep trashing the movie, I strongly recommend these people to take the time and watch the Special Features section in the movie DVD where the director, the screenwriter, the producers, the actors... talking and explaining about the reasons why the movie the way it is and the difficulties of telling the story from book to the screen. Especially, the part where the screenwriter explains very eloquently and in details why the movie cannot tell the story in the way the book was constructed. Among many, one simple reason is: to tell a story of an over 540-page book via an approximately 100-page screenplay in a movie time-length of 1 hour 40 minutes.

When seeing a movie of this kind (a heartfelt love story), just sit back, relax, and enjoy the show... for what it is and not going in the technical aspects of it (like time-traveling in this case) or making comparison between the book and the movie. Through my own experiences, I have not seen one movie based on a book has come out better than that book (even the famous and timeless "Gone with the Wind"). So, that's a given when going to cinemas seeing films based on books. No need to compare... unnecessary to complain.

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