@cinephelia 7
No, I don't think you should have to shut off your sexuality the hell off like a faucet for life because you're part of a certain religion. Juat so you know----the Catholic church created that celibacy rule as a way to keep the lands/properties of priests after they died. If priests were allowed to get married,the wife and kids wouldn't have gotten the properties. That's the only reason that rule was created,mainly due to the church's greed,that's all that really was about. Also, Episcopalian priests can get married, as well as nuns,too. If a minister (man or women) can get married, have kids, and still serve God, then why not the nuns and priests,too? That whole celibacy has never made any sense to me anyway. You're basically supposed to cut off not only a significant aspect of your life as well as any chance of EVER having a relationship with anyone outside of the church? That's crazy and unrealistic as hell,when you really think about it!
I remember reading an article online last year about a priest in California who got suspended from his post,even though he was pretty popular, simply because it was discovered that he was dating a woman--his own age, I might add---they were both fiftyish---she was single,too. I though that was ridiculous as hell, because here were two mature adults seeing each other,and minding their own business,not hurting nobody, but the man gets put on blast for merely dating someone just because he's a priest--it's just stupid as hell to me. In fact,there's a group of married priests demanding that the Catholic Church move into the 21 century and get rid of that celibacy rule altogether for both men AND women in the Catholic church,period. I think that's cool as all heck!
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