Confused about the message

Let me get this straight.

Smith wants everyone to abandon their dream jobs in order to be a parent first and foremost?

Did HE abandon HIS dreamjob?

No.

Did ANY of those actors abandon their dream jobs to take a working class job to raise THEIR family right?

Uh... no

What this message says is :

I can pull this off... But everyone else stick to your day jobs and leave career and family acrobatics to the professionals. Don't try this at home.

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Don't get me wrong, I love Clerks... but this film's message really ticked me off!