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Dora is a near perfect woman with ONE debilitating problem.


Always dug this movie, and the main reason for that is the character of Dora, played by Mena Suvari. Ever since I was young I've been looking for a woman like Dora. She's cute and sexy at the same time, with a button nose and large eyes (like a human anime). Her hair hits the balance between unkempt and tousled; her wardrobe and makeup are grunge-goth perfection (I still LOVE that "grunge"-y thing...boots and fishnets and raccoon makeup included). She loves animals, likes Everclear and Garbage, and knows how to sneak into Cabaret on Broadway (is that even possible?).

She's only got one problem, though, and it's a BIG one. Her relationship with Greg Kinnear's character betrays a certain lack of self-esteem, and borders on the delusional at times. How much cruelty will she put up with while chasing her dream of being the teacher's pet? The "happy" ending is too pat by half; You get the idea while watching the film that her attachment to her idea of Kinnear is so strong that if Paul hadn't come along to shake her out of the funk, she might be one of those suicide cases you hear about on the news.

I guess I'd like to know (from anyone on this board) if any of you have ever had a relationship with a Dora-like woman (or are one yourself), and if the trouble is really worth it.

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I kinda had a relationship with someone like Dora. Only that instead of a student-teacher thing, she was a teacher herself and had an affair with a more prominent teacher from another school who is with a wife and kids. I thought I had convinced her to leave the guy and everything was going great but turns out she was still having feeling for him. Thats when I said F it and end it. I guess if you manage to shatter their illusion, then you'll get someone like Dora who truly sees you for who you are (and those limey weasels as who they really are) but unfortunately that wasnt my case. I broke a couple layers but her issues go way deeper.

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She was young, and everyone gets sucked in by a charismatic a-hole at least once. She was thrilled that she had a place to stay, and she thought he got her flowers (why did Paul lie about that anyway?) so he gave her these little crumbs to string her along.

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I believe she was perfect overall. She was smart, hard working, had this fresh attitude that displays freedom. Well, her relationship with the teacher was because she was young and she was easily impressed by a man who knew how to convince her for his purposes.

Dora is a dream girl!

"Hate is baggage, life's too short to be pissed off all the time".

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Don't forget she's also a bread thief and watches Broadway shows without paying.

salter pt can we invite. I will kill you - Rick240

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Her self esteem sucked. But in real life she would have stayed with the Professor no question. This is the type of woman that gradually evolves into a drunk house wife. Don't mean to diss the character but it's fairly obvious of who she was becoming.

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