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Poll: how many people actually want Fanny to pick Henry?


I hear that so often and I get so appalled! Perhaps if you haven't read the book you might feel that way, but when reading the book one should discover clues through the whole thing of how correct Fanny is in denying him. And who can blame her for loving Edmund? The only person in her life that cares and sympathizes and understands. I suppose it is the cousin thing in our time, it does seem gross to some. The next time I read the book I am going to list the clues about Henry's and Mary's vices. It should be enough that he wants to flirt with her just to make her love him and then upon being turned down he has an affair with Maria; that should be enough, but oddly it isn't for most people. Henry does not have true love for Fanny and I find it easy to conjecture what their life would be like had she accepted him. He would have continued to flirt with other women- even Mary says that he would. But she says he wouldn't love anyone else. That is because I feel he cannot really love anyone but himself and although he seems to wholeheartedly woo Fanny he is just playing and acting as she says. Their marriage would have been very sad.
If anyone disagrees please post. I love hearing the reasons honestly.

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I read the book a long time ago, so, I don't remember the details much. But I remember liking Henry a lot more than Edmund and really believed Henry loves Fanny. It might be a conquest thing at first, but he truly loves her later and tried to change for her. So, the ending twist of Henry eloping with Maria was a dissapointment for me. I wanted Henry to end up with Fanny.

As for Edmund. Yeah, he is nice to Fanny but like some other people said, he never stood up for Fanny. He is only nice to Fanny when he is unoccupied and has nothing better to do. Like the horse issue. He totally forgets about his promise to Fanny and just go riding with Mary!!!

I think I will read Mansfield Park again and see whether I will look at the story differently now that I'm older.

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I wanted Fanny to be with Edmund when I first saw the movie, then I read the book, and on my second viewing... I wanted her to go with Henry!! Funny developments, knowing the true character of Henry from the book, hey? But since this movie is not entirely based on the book in the first place, I think we have to see them as two different things. You're not going to find the spirited Fanny of the movie in the book. And I think the reason I most wanted her to go with Henry the second time was personal... I have my own real life Edmund and Fanny relationship (not with my cousin though!) but it hasn't ended with love from him... (yet). And so I was getting very mad at the movie Fanny for getting her guy when I haven't got mine! And then she gets another sweet and charming guy courting her and she doesn't even like him??? Well, I just about lost it. But like I said, that could just be my circumstances! In the book I thought Henry (and Mary) were absolute cads and the sooner they were done with, the better.

I've also found this to be the hardest Austen book to read. I've read all of them except for Persuasion and this one seems much more serious, even though I can relate to Fanny. The interesting parts (the acting they do and the adultery section) get skipped over so quickly!

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Okay first of all,definately read Persausion cuz it is absolutely amazing.

Onto the point...i understand people's liking of henry and how he is very attentive to Fanny. I'm glad that most agree that she started off as a conquest to him and she catches on very quickly. i think you guys are skipping over the fact too easily that he has sex with mariah and that he runs away with her the next morning. He does this with no thoughts of how it would affect the family and connections of others.He doesn't even try to talk to Fanny.

I mean, I GET IT. He was hurt by fanny taking back her yes to the purposal, but he acted like a spoiled child rather than an adult. If he truly cared, he would have not immediately gone to Mariah.

Even if lets say he truly loved her, she definately did not love him or respect him. She couldn't trust him! and could you blame her...he was making blatant advances towards maraiah when she was engaged! i would doubt him 2!

And all this crap about him changing becuz of her...its a nice thought and utterly romantic, but mostlikely not likely to happen. He is social and flurtatious by nature, this would only further strain of the match and he would end up restless and board, while Fanny would be constantly plagued by his past actions. Edmund and Fanny has similar values and minds and are going to be sublimely happy!

And the thought of mary ending up with edmund is utterly sickening. she was a horrible human being who was selfish in every respect and the ending where she gets yelled at and kicked out, i wanted to stand up and cheer.

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ok. i haven't read the book. but i wanted her to be with Henry.
because Edmund seems so self-righteous & selfish. btw, i also _liked_ Mary. even she is intended to be an "evil" woman.

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um did u see the last scene...she was aweful. Mary was a selfish witch that got what she deserved. and i still don't understand why people like henry so much. I mean he said the right things and played the part of a wounded man fine when fanny rejected him, but i mean he was not a good guy. He disgraced a family that completely took him in as family. And mary of coarse decides to blame it on fanny.

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I hated Henry!

"We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are." --Anais Nin

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Mary is selfish, but that's not exactly uncommon for people (particularly society women, without actual power) to want to position themselves better. She was a cad for saying that she wanted to marry the 2nd born male in the family because the 1st born might be dying - that's horrible. But I don't assume that's something most women in her position wouldn't think to themselves or say quietly to their trusted friends. Her major blunder was saying it out loud to everyone.

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I never wanted Fanny to choose Henry; I did want Edmund to come to his senses sooner than he did.

However, if you closely read the epilogue of the book, it explains somewhat the reasons why, in Austen's opinion, things had to work out as they did. According to the epilogue, Austen more than suggests that given time, Fanny would've accepted Henry, that Fanny "must have been [Henry's] reward" but (paraphrasing somewhat)"spoilt by too early an independence" and the lack of discipline in his uncle's household, Henry was, alas, incorrigible. Like Willoughby at the epilogue of S&S, he might always regret the woman, but was complacent enough in his exertions to live without her.

A great scene in the film "Glory" talks about people wanting "to get clean." Henry may have wanted to get clean, but ultimately, he was comfortable enough in mud.

Finally, the novel's premise would seem to be, as Sir Thomas reflects in the epilogue, the importance of "early struggle" and suffering in learning to endure and in the formation of true character - the contrast obvious between Fanny and William, who have indeed struggled, and Mary and Henry, who have more or less lace-handkerchiefed their way through life.

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Indeed. Or in Bridget Jones - he liked that she was someone who could help him clean up his act, but that doesn't mean he would stay faithful and interested in her. She needs more stability and good character to be married to.

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I would have picked Tom. A wild, political rebel wins over a stuffy clergyman any day.

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... Unless you're shy and more intellectually minded, like Fanny. She wanted stability and a good solid marriage, not just to be in the spotlight at society balls. Some women just wanted higher standings and to have others be jealous of them... She didn't want that.

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I know this and old thread but I wish she had chosen Henry. Edmund
is so boring. It's a wonder that Henry's sister wanted him. He does
not have the courage to defied his father and tell him to his face that he is
in love with Fanny. At least not in the movie, Henry on the other hand. is full
of wit. He does not mind following Fanny home or eating the garbage her mother serves for food now that love.

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Here are some things to consider:
1.Fanny was nothing like Elizabeth Bennet, Emma, or the Dashwood girls. She had no self confidence, completely introverted,had anxiety and discomforts over everything! Let's face it she was downright emo and just wouldn't stand up and be real! I mean, hello, you want a fire in your school room---ask for one, don't wait around for Prince Charming to do it for you!

2. Edmund was a dolt! If he cares so much about Fanny, then why not tell his father she is being mistreated! Why not stand up for her! and once Mary Crawford comes around, Edmund pretty much ignores Fanny. She is madly in love with him, but he doesn't even notice her when someone else is around.

3. What could Henry Crawford possibly get from being with Fanny!? If he was so much a cad and rake then he could only have had but two motives when it comes to women: A) Marry the rich ones for their money, and B)Charm and woe all the others into bed.
Now one might debate that Crawford wanted to bed Fanny then, bu8t in considering the atmosphere of that time period, that intrepretation of Crawford is not plausible. In the early 19th cent. an engagement was just as binding as marriage (minus the sexual part) and so to break an engagement would be almost as socially damaging as divorce. So if Crawford only meant to take Fanny to bed, have his thrills with her and leave when was finished, then why would he not try to do as much? Why would he seek to marry her and be polite and charming, instead of seductive? Surely he would realize that if he were to be engaged to Fanny he would have to marry her--sure rakes and cads didn't care much for social decorum behind closed doors, but to do something so open and public as to break ones engagement would brand a man forever.
In my own opinion I think that his relationship with Maria was merely a self-satifying flirtation to keep him amused, he says himself thathe prefers engaged women b/c they are engaged and settled, contended--so he can flirt and enjoy their company w/o the women or anyone else forming plans for them, so he can do as he pleases w/o putting his honor at stake by his counterpart believing he loved her. Or so Henry may think as Maria does think him in love with her.
Now when he does wish to be attached, he choses Fanny. But what a slap in the face it must have been, a lesson for him in life when his mere indulgence w/ Maria ruins all hopes of Fanny thinking him sincere and trustworthy. Had he not flirted with Maria, he would have had Fanny. So Fanny rejects him.

Now I wish Austen had departed from Fanny and followed Crawford to where he and Maria run into each other again b/c, as far as the circumstances are, one can only speculate. If Crawford was in love with Fanny , then her refusal would leave him bitter and heartbroken, and in need of solace. Not to mention his ego as a ladies man was very wounded. So perhaps in an effort to comfort and cheer himself up he runs back to his last flirtation. Now Maria is miserble with her husband, and we know she is in love, or lust, with Crawford. So the combination of her unsatisfied lust and attraction plus Henry's wounded heart and pride, lead them to sleep together. If Herny Crawford really had intended to bed Maria, he would have done so before she was married to lessen the chance of scandal, if he had been in love witH Maria he would have run off and married her, either before her marriage, or after their affair-- after all the scandal wouldn't have been so great a thing for him to get over, considering the money he would come into when marrying her (a circumstance, I might add, that Fanny did not have). He does not marry Maria though, proving to me that she was a mere interest.

In all honesty, I think Crawford was in love with Fanny, why else would he pursue her, if he wanted her uncle's money-- why not then chose Julia. I think he might have seen something in Fanny's character, her moral goodness if you will, that he wished to aspire to.

I guess that is the eternal question, Why did Henry want Fanny?


4.But then I do have this theory: Though Mansfield Park is not told in first person, the story is conveyed--not through the eyes of Austen--but through the eyes and judgments of Fanny, and therefore no one is really as the appear to be! Especially in the case of Edmund and Henry, thier characters as portrayed are not cohesive, I think, with their characters actions. If Edmund loved her, he would have taken better care of her, but if she only thought he loved her, she would have made excuses for his slights--which I think Fanny very likely of doing. And as I said before, if Henry was such a rake and a cad, then why pursue Fanny the way he did, or why pursue her at all.



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The reason why he was so enthralled by Fanny is simple and it something I already posted!

*Fanny is the first girl to not fall faint at his feet at the sight of him! He is intrigued and want's her for the simple reason many men go after the wrong woman. Becuz they want what THEY CANT HAVE!

* He wasnt trying to get her into bed and she didnt have any money...no, but he likes the different and Fanny was unlike any other woman he had taken notice of.

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As a general response, no, she definately shouldn't have married Henry. This is my response based on both the book and the BBC production (which say what you will, I always loved). Edmund was the better match by far and they definately had the most succesful marriage.


BUT...


This version really seems to sympathize with Henry. I don't think it's right, I think it's very wrong, I think they totally misinterpreted the book and I don't care for the adaptation...


BUT...


If we're talking about this version of the movie, Henry is handsomer, charming, and ready to go to any length for Fanny. Edmund was a wussy momma's boy. Forget Fanny, *I* would have picked Henry.

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For my part, I wish that she had married Henry. Now, that said, I am basing that solely upon two reasons. The first being, that I have not read the book as yet and having seen the movie, I found I quite believed Henry to sincerely love Fanny. But without reading the book, I can't give a fully educated opinion in that matter. Secondly, and please don't be in uproar about this one, it is merely my opinion - Fanny and Edmund are first cousins. I know that did happen in high society from time to time in that day and age. And I know waaaayyyy back Eygptians used to marry siblings, but I still had a bad taste left in my mouth at the end when I watched them walk off in the sunset together. They're mothers were sisters and that just churns my stomach thinking about that <insert creepy, crawly shudder here!>

But those are my opinions on the matter. Fanny marrying her first cousin just took away from all the romanticism and beauty of the story. Bleh!

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Over the years, I've read all of Jane Austen's novels, and while I remember some of them better than others, they are ALL morality plays set in the hermetic social environment of Jane Austen's time and station in life. If you approach them with that understanding, the ending is always foreshadowed by the principles of the leading characters. The movie version of Mansfield Park telegraphs the ending more than some of the others but the pure of heart always end up with the pure of heart, though it may take a while -- as in Pride and Prejudice -- to discover the purity underneath the facade. So it was always in the cards that Fanny would end up with Edmund because they are the genuine article. Henry and Mary are "attractive" but they are schemers.

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Well, if I was Fanny I would have had a whirlwind romance for a day or two with Henry then dump the shmuck, go for Tom Berthram aka older brother hunk then have Edmund for dessert. Yum, Yum

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That's absurd. Not in that time, you wouldn't.

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