...yeah, all of the broken hearts taken into consideration...but no one mentions that the state in the matter, the unrequited love due to sexual orientation thing, is exactly what most of your "objects of affection" grew up into.... I mean having 90% or whatever, let's just say much larger portion of the population heterosexual, gay people will have lodes of unrequited crushes/loves for a better part of their adolescency, if not even lives (that is except they go to special schools where only gay people are allowed, and thus the unrequited chances lessened) and you rarely hear them moaning about it...it's just cause they start getting used to it earlier. So what about the support group for gay people who fall in love with the str8 ones?! It just doesn't seem fair moaning about it...
I do understand the other side...I mean it's strange to me and didn't quite work...the supposable curse lifting statement "he's gay"...when you come to think of it, it doesn't really change a whole lot about a person (unless you have a problem with gay people, which I guess people who fall in love with them obviously do not have :) unless you wanna try some freudian theory, some of which I do respect, but still lets just set them a side in this simple matter)...it doesn't change a god damn thing actually, the smiles, faces, nor the thoughts or actions that got us stuck on the person to begin with. But it certainly is more effective (though kind a robotic, automatic, to me at least) to give those categories significance, and have a mind in which this sentence, this simple declaration of one characteristic can have a meaning big enough to bring closure.
....and yet once again, all of these cases are nothing special at all, it's just falling for some one who isn't into you...happens all the time. Doesn't make the thing any easier when you're living it, but is still good to keep in mind.
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