This is a message for everyone out there who thinks nothing of using the "r" word. It is a term of derision (for those of you who don't know what derision means, it means that the "r" word is insulting, and loaded with hate). The "r" word is just as bad as the "n" word; you just may not realize it because the disabled community has never been as well organized as the African American community, nor as vocal in their protests. Please use the terms "developmentally delayed" or "developmentally disabled" or "mentally handicapped". If you can't manage that, at least say "retarded". If you insist on using the word "retard" to describe people, you will only make yourself look at best, thoughtless, at worst, cruel, and most likely so small and insecure you have to put down a group of people that have little means (note, I say "means", not "ability"; ability they may have) of defending themselves.
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