are all guys like stan, in real life

They exists. But they get cheated on, divorced and taken to court by modern women, for ridiculous amounts of alimony and child support money.

See, modern women RUINED the potential for Stans to exists.

I'm 28, married -- and I don't think Stans exist!

Hey, there were plenty of Stans around....problem was, girls didn't want to date us. We were the losers that you "loved like a brother" or "Had a wonderful friendship with and didn't want to ruin it". All this while y'all went off with the douche bag that hit you and cheated on you!!

"You idiot, that's condensation. It's on the outside!"

i don't think this guy exists really, or at least i don't think the angle we got on stan showed his whole personality. i bet there was a darker side to his character that just wasn't fully expressed. for instance his drinking and his going out with that other girl that one night. we don't know what happened at his bar nights or if he would've slept with someone else had it been another girl instead of that creepy blonde chick that kept following him around. and we saw his bitterness for not going to cal tech but we never got to see the extent of it. it probably was left out because it would've been too real and people don't want to see what's real in a movie really. especially not when molly ringwald is in it. there are some really sweet guys out there, but from my experience every silver lining goes with a cloud. plus a man's natural instinct is not to be a father. it's the truth. a woman is more likely to have the nurturing instinct. they've done studies on it. a guy is given a crying baby and they look a deer in headlights. they don't know what to do, and they freak out when they hear a baby cry because most men are taught crying is wrong. though when it comes to protecting their young and their mate they can be incredibly protective by instinct. some say this is evolution. man goes out to hunt for the family and woman would say and take care of the children and home. now that times have changed though, it's difficult to adjust since a man born with more of a straightforward and logical thought pattern, different compared to a woman's more emotional sense of direction due to a different size of limbic system.

Hi Capt., it's been almost five years. Are you still with the perfect man from 2009?

I'd be super curious to hear whether or not you're still with your boyfriend, but it appears you haven't been active since 2009. Oh well.

You got the wrong guy, mang. I don't come off no banana boat.

Women are constantly looking for men who will accept them for who they are, imperfections and all, yet we judge men sometimes based soley on their imperfections! It's wrong

Wow...where to start. Yes there are guys out there like Stan. I am married to one of them. As far as it not being a natural instinct for a man to be a father, I disagree. When my daughter was born, I had to remind my husband that she was mine too...lol. The thing that sets Stan apart from a lot of men in today's society is that he was willing to take care of all of his responsibilities. Parenthood does do that to you. When you find out you are going to have a baby, you realize that there are sacrifices that will have to be made. Not just financially, but in every aspect of your lives. The fact that he was willing to dive head first into accepting his "fate" is what every PERSON, not just men, needs to accept. So yes, men like him do exist, but I wouldn't start looking for them in high school. While this does happen, it's a rare occurence that you will find them there.