child nudity?
melinda kanniman.. i assume she's 13-14? and she exposed herself on a Sweden:11 rated film?
isn't this banned in most countries? there arent even any other film with child nudity are they?
melinda kanniman.. i assume she's 13-14? and she exposed herself on a Sweden:11 rated film?
isn't this banned in most countries? there arent even any other film with child nudity are they?
Oh don't be silly. There's a huge difference between nudity and porn. Just because hollywood thinks of nudity as porn doesn't mean that the whole world does.
If a movie gets banned because of 20 seconds of child nudity then it just shows how sick this world is.
And yes, there's a lot of movies with child nudity in them, most of the ones I can think of are swedish and two of them are even based on Astrid Lindgren's books. Being naked is something natural and everyone has a naked body, everyone has a sexuality. Not to capture that in movies would be a sin.
These replies have been interesting. I would probably be considered a prudish American by most of the people who have posted things. But I wanted to share my experience with the film anyway. I went to this movie when I was young (like 8, 9, or 10) I think I remember the "boob scene" and I definitely remember the scene where he sticks his penis in a bottle. I'm not sure how I'd react to this movie as an adult, but as a child I was embarrased and uncomfortable watching the movie.
shareGood post, kbanks55. I always get a kick out of adults debating what is suitable for children while totally losing the child's perspective. Sure, everyone has their own culturally-imposed morals by the age of 18 (and btw the original poster is from Asia not America, you crazy yank-haters!). But kbanks I think you're the only person in this thread who has approached the topic through your own experience as a child. Your embarrasment & discomfort is enough to indicate to me that it may not be suitable for a 10-year-old to watch. And I think that was the whole point of the original poster.
shareOriginal poster wasn't mentioning age of watching at all, only age of appearing (actor's age). Appearing and watching is very different thing.
For instance, you can see children in extreme horror movies. But it is the editing when a completely innocent scene becomes frightening, and the person (child) doesn't have to know how will this scene be used later. A kid can simply play in the garden, and the editing will show approaching of a murderer, or alien, a ghost, whatever. Add some music, finish the scene with a dead corpse and you have a perfect horror, and all that child was doing was playing. Different situation is when it is obviously not editing, but e.g. child has a knife and performs a crime. But, interesting, unlike nude scenes, I've never read any compliance about exploiting children in horrors. And very, very rarely about them watching horrors or violence.
On the other hand, watching IS determined by culture and family. You must agree that parents are supposed to control what their 8 or 10-year-old is watching. And they are supposed to know what are the attitudes and values they are implementing in his personality. If you swear at home and laugh when your baby uses certain words, you can't expect it will be shocked to hear them on screen. If you smoke, it is likely your kid will smoke, no matter if he/she sees it in movie. If you have a pet and treat it properly, your kid most likely won't become an animal molestor (but might be terrified by such scenes on TV). If you go with your kid to naturist beaches, bare breast (or more) won't be anything special that he/she hasn't seen before. If you are religious or atheist you'll avoid movies that are extremely promoting the opposite view.
This thread is long, and I know you didn't have patience to read all of the posts. But there were few posts touching this aspect already. For instance, I wrote "Laika is not Lassie" as a response to poster named rebeljenn, you can read both posts if you want. I still think this is one of the best movies I've ever seen, perfectly suitable for teenagers, but parents with younger children should watch it before deciding if their child's ready for it.
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While I agree with your overall opinion, I don't really think the Pope's confirmation or God is relevant at all to this topic. Let's leave religion out of this.
People who are uncomfortable with this minor nude scene are ignoring context -- this was a young boy and a young girl doing what is natural. That was basically a theme in the movie -- the ups and downs of growing up.
What else is there to say?
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You do a perfect job of demonstrating how worthless organized religion is
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In that case Brooke Shields should be arrested.
Why? Because she ran-around naked in one of her films. She was only 13 at the time. It's called "Pretty Baby"
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Because God created it, the human body
can be uncovered and preserve His splendor. -Pope John Paul
Why would she be arrested? She didn't make the movie.
"Freedom means nothing if you are a slave to regular programing" - Kumarshare
but it is not natural for adults to look at them as well.
Child nudity in film is wrong no matter the context.
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Your argument about murder is flawed. In movies people aren't actually murdered.
If so, I feel sorry for those children.
I am so sick of the argument that if someone thinks it's wrong to film children nude it's their own problem and they are the ones sexualizing them.
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when it comes to children the age of the actress playing Ingemar, it's unfair for adults to assume to know what her feelings about her own body are and that those feelings will never change.
A child as young as the one playing Ingemar was at an age where she was too young to truly make her own decisions
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I honestly don't understand why it's so hard for some to accept that children can be manipulated and confused and end up doing something they might regret later in life.
Why take the chance? For what? Art?? Please.
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I don't believe in "the art of film."
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Do you think that the filmmakers of My Life A Dog had no intention of making money from their investment?
Bottomline is, there is no movie worth risking a child's welfare for, not to mention an animal or stunt person.
Why unnecessarily film a child nude? Someone said up thread that the nudity was important because the story was being told from the child's perspective. I'm not buying that. The girl could have been filmed with her back showing and Ingemar's reaction to her and been just as effective.
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See, I don't think any risk should be taken when it comes to a child's psyche. That means ZERO.
Isn't it possible the director was seeking attention by filming the scene his way?
Orson Welles? You're talking about an entirely different time in media history.
Steven Spielberg? He was influenced into making a crap movie: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE7fzr6lQ-s This is a perfect example of how movies are made by several people with different agendas.
It's a business that just happens to have talented artists in the mix.
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Not believing children should be filmed nude is paranoid?
Do you know that there are women who were unwittingly violated at the ages of 12, 13, or 14 and only later in life realize that the adults who were supposed to protect them betrayed them?
Do you realize the violation of one's privacy can have lifelong consequences?
Do you truly believe it is okay for only 1 child out of a million to experience psychic pain later in life because at the age of 12 they mistakenly thought they were totally cool with being nude on film and were part of creating a work of art?
As I said before, we have reached an impasse. I don't get where you're coming from and never will, and you don't get where I'm coming from and apparently never will.
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Being filmed nude doesn't provide the strength of character a child needs to deal with life and it's not required to make art more artful either.
Nobody knows what's going on inside someone else's head no matter how well you think you know them.
Psychiatrists would love to pinpoint THE MOMENT that created the damaged adult in front of them, but often times it's not as simple as that.
The preteen and early teen years are confusing no matter what culture the child is growing up in.
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This is one of the most absurd statements I've ever read. I'm out.
"Child nudity in film is wrong no matter the context."
Fine, it's great you have your opinion. Just know that if you feel uncomfortable, it's because you are sexualizing them - not the makers of the film.
There is a sum total of no titillation whatsoever directed at the audience. This film involves exploring what kids experience as they grow. Such scenes are vital to such a film.
Also I hope your discomfort would not lead you to support the right wing politicians who think such art ought to be banned. Because really, the discomfort is your issue - nobody else's.
Come on. This is a great movie about how childhood can be.
I know mine happened to be much like this. I have been fortunate enough to travel a lot and get some perspective. What troubles me is the idea that a nude child is automatically pornographic in some way. I hate to tell everyone,
but children are nude sometimes. A ten year old boy sticking his penis in a bottle makes you uncomfortable ? Ten year old children are really like that. All of this stuff has little to do with the real point of the movie.
Blast away,
Very early in my life it was too late.
-Marguerite Duras
Regardless of how adults perceive (or misperceive) this film, I have to re-re-stress what k55 said above:
I went to this movie when I was young (like 8, 9, or 10) ... I'm not sure how I'd react to this movie as an adult, but as a child I was embarrased and uncomfortable watching the movie.
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Whom are you talking to? Did you even read my post?
Do you even know how to read?
P.S. God hates nudity. Why else would she invent clothes? Read your bible and report back to us.
Please show me the place in the Bible where God invented clothes. As much as I remember God made humans and they made clothes AFTER committing sin. Before sin they were clothless as God made them.
shareI think it is rather silly to have so much debate on what amounts to a few seconds of screen time. This film dels with so many other themes. The so called controversial scenes are hardly unusual of children of that age. You can film the scenes from any angle but the point is you can't get away from the fact that children play those kinds of games. I have no problem seeing this kind of thing in films. To attribute an overly unwarranted sexual element to such things other than beyond the sexual innocence of the characters is to unnecessary pollute and pervert what is reality and at the end of the day part of growing up which we all go through. At the same time I would feel uncomfortable watching this film with any pre teen or even early teen- not sure why I feel this way. Maybe children should discover sexuality, nudity etc in their own time and exposing them to childhood sexuality, no matter how briefly in a movie, is perhaps not a good idea and I can understand why I child would possibly feel uncomfortable watching it- perhaps too much reality too soon, maturing sexually for a child can be an emotionally painful experience that you don't want to have to be exposed to in a film. As an adult I am comfortable seeing it because I have been through that growing up period and can look back at it from adult perspective- a big deal at the time but water off a duck's back now.
Chinatown is the greatest film of all time.
Come to think of it Ingemar's reaction to the budding sexuality of his girl buddy is realistically portrayed. As a pre-pubescent young boy his reaction at her changing body is very much one of awkwardness, I am not ready for this kind of thing etc. This is not about a lust-driven teenage boy having a masturbatory fantasy realised. One must also remember that young girls go into puberty at a younger age and Ingemar's reaction to Sage's body changing shows this. His reaction shows he was not ready to be confronted with it. He saw the young girl not as one growing into a young woman but as his soccer/ boxing buddy. Hallstrom did a good job at showing this awkward part of growing up and in a film which has one of its themes the pains and joys of growing up I think approprite. At the end of the film when he has his arms around her we realide Ingemar now sees Sage as an object of his puppy love. Ingemar has grown up a little from those awkward moments he had to confront earlier in the film. I remember kissing a girl at 12- I loved it but a huge part of me was saying woah what am I doing; I am just a kid.
Chinatown is the greatest film of all time.
Is this really an issue at all?...
I watched this when I was the same age as k55 if not younger and the boob scene was like "heh, boobs", nothing more nothing less I also laughed as hell at the penis in the bottle scene. I say this movie just fine for 8-9-10 year olds but I guess it depends where you live and your inherited mentality towards nudity.
shareI'm with pottan_15 on this. I watched it as a little kid. No damage done. I was probably 7 when I saw it... I thought the penis in the bottle trick was funny (and it probably saved me from falling for it myself over the following years) and the boobs scene was fascinating for me at the time. If anything, it gave me an earlier appreciation for the roles men and women are forced to assume in society, and a touch more empathy for the women in my life (not to say I didn't tease the girls when I was a kid :-p )
I'd like to know if K55 feels that his lack of comfort and embarrassment caused any lasting damage. Just because we're uncomfortable or embarrassed doesn't mean that we should avoid an experience. If we did that, most of us never would have started school. I can think of a lot of movies that have caused me discomfort.. much more than seeing some nude body parts. The real problem is that parents are often so preoccupied with protecting their children that they shelter them from normal healthy parts of growing up. Perhaps, if K55 were to think about it some more, he might agree that being uncomfortable caused him to gain a little insight.
I'm currently taking a college history class.. I'm, by far, one of the oldest students in the class. It's half filled with high-school students who are seeking early college credits. We were watching a video about Hinduism which involved some brief shots of some nude old men running into the ocean as part of an annual ritual. Our instructor, being responsible, warned the class just before this scene occurred.. and several of the younger students in the class (17/18yo) literally turned their heads and averted their eyes! I appreciate that our instructor respected the beliefs and wishes of his class, but I was appalled that the students actually made the choice to look away. Can you imagine and art class where the students shield their minds from the apparent 'sin' of body parts? These children have been conditioned by their over-protective parents into thinking that the human body is dirty and wrong.
Problem with the pottan_15's "logic" above is that there was only the SUGGESTION of the boy's penis in the bottle. Unlike the scene with the developing girl, where her adolescent breasts were fully exposed with no camera-angle, blurring, lighting tricks nor cover-ups, Ingemar's penis was only (strongly) hinted at in the Netflixâ„¢ on-line version of the film that I saw. Hinted at by the actors' attention to what we would understand the boy's crotch area to be, but it was entirely covered up by intervening scenery or props or actors' postures.
NOT that I would campaign for anyone's penis to be stuck in a bottle neck like that--as it was portrayed and I'm sure would be very painful--just for the sake of reality in a movie scene. Although I'm sure some kind of theatrical "tricks" could make it realistic looking without being actually painful, as most stunts presumably are staged for films, such as being hit in the face in fight scenes and such.
My point is that if the film makers were so liberal as to portray fully a girl's breasts, why shouldn't they be as "honest" about photographing a boy's penis, as it seemed important to film the penis-in-the-bottle in the first place. Seems cowardly or hypocritical to have such a double standard in a film. Perhaps the version of the film I saw the penis-in-the-bottle scene was edited to exclude more explicit filming and so then it would be the cowardliness of the distributors.
I don't think there was any censorship in the scene that you describe, it was the original scene. But, when you make this objection, don't forget that this movie (though for me personally it is still young and new) was made almost three decades ago, when there were no computer effects. Also, this movie was a rather slow family drama-comedy, besides made in Sweden, the genre and origin where you don't expect Hollywood effects.
shareI watched this movie when it came out and I was a pre-teen. This was a non-issue and was quite funny for me and my friends. Why? Because that's how kids are and we could relate to many of the silliness than went on.
Weird.
That's a question I suppose, but it's not a question anyone here actually asked.
This thread is not about whether the film is appropriate for a child to see.
It's about how appropriate, right or wrong it is to have child nudity in the film.
Of course given the context of the scene, any reasonable person will say yes.
And to be honest, and 8,9 or 20 year old will not want to see this - it's a film for adults. Not because of any explicit stuff, but because the theme itself would go way over their heads.
Being a girl and never really playing "doctor" with any neighboring boy, I don't think I would have caught on to the fact that he stuck his penis into the bottle. This scene would have just confused me and I might have thought it was funny because all the children in the movie were laughing.
Beyond that, I don't think this would be a film that children would be interested in since it doesn't really deal with any of the themes currently found in children's entertainment. I mean, I remember watching RadioFlyer which was a children's movie and, as an adult, I would NEVER show that to a child. Nudity isn't the issue so much as the theme of dealing with the death of a parent and budding sexuality.
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Why not? I saw Radio Flyer with my little brother in the theater as a child, and to this day it remains the most powerfully bonding film for us. It has some scary material, and might seem aimed at an audience that has a few decades of life experience, but I think there are some crucial lessons for kids found within, namely that not all adults can be trusted. It also has some excellent themes of protecting each other and sticking together, whether brother, sister, mother, or dog. Some things in life are hard to explain to a child, and Radio Flyer IMO offers a priceless jumping point for some very important stranger danger discussions. My brother and I didn't feel scarred by the subject matter at all. King was just a villain to us, but a villain that was easier to relate to than most, as well as something that would help us understand the real villains in life. The adventure, magic, and wonder elements are also very engaging for a child.
Honestly, I found the New York motel scenes in Big just as scary back then, just my two cents. ;)
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"Being naked is something natural and everyone has a naked body, everyone has a sexuality. Not to capture that in movies would be a sin. "
That's what you say about a 12 year old girl's sexuality??
Ok Uncle Ernie...
Fiddling about, fiddling about, fiddle about.
Down with your bedclothes,
Up with your nightshirt.
Fiddle about, fiddle about, fiddle about.
"People should not be afraid of their government, the government should be afraid of their people."
"Being naked is something natural and everyone has a naked body, everyone has a sexuality. Not to capture that in movies would be a sin. "
I hope you don't disagree with the first sentence. The second one might not be clear enough, so it might make a confusion and irritate some people.
But the poster never said what is this sexuality like. "Everyone" means infants as well as people in nursing homes. But the shape, the form, the level of sexuality changes during one's life, and that must be respected. Even all people at same age don't have the same type of sexuality. But I think this movie showed the perfect understanding of children, including their ability to deal with traumas, their ability to adjust to new circumstances, the way they understand things happening around them, and in all that included the level of sexuality of kids on the edge of puberty (adolescence). (Watch other Hallström's movies like "Chocolate", "Gilbert Grape", even more "Cider House Rules" and you'll see it over and over again.)
This is my opinion, and I believe (but I can't say for sure, he/she should explain) that was what the poster you were replying meant.
Ok Uncle Ernie...
Fiddling about, fiddling about, fiddle about.
Down with your bedclothes,
Up with your nightshirt.
Fiddle about, fiddle about, fiddle about.
I couldn't had said it better myself! Hear hear!
shareIt's not Hollywood that thinks of nudity as porn, it's America's ignorant right wingers. They have no problem with their favorite TV and radio personalities calling for the genocide of Muslims, but heaven forbid an arty film show a child without any clothes on in clearly a non-sexual, non-threatening scene & pose. That's just over the line!
These people have enormous influence.
That is why the ratings are what they are, and America is one of the most heavily censored countries on the planet - probably THE most censored of the western counties.
Because apparently free speech only applies to right wingers. Same with being allowed to vote, habeas corpus etc.
Is LarryIrwin from the USA by any chance? You guys have such hang-ups. You also have the biggest professional porn industry in the world, go figure. Hey, maybe you're not from the US, maybe you're just personally hung up.
Have you noticed that Hollywood is just generally afraid to deal with childhood in their movies except when it's all about talking animals? I guess you can't blame the average person for being scared by European films, which are generally more honest, because the average person doesn't have the experience of honesty in films generally, being brainwashed by Hollywood into thinking we all just popped out of a CGI screen fully formed and airbrushed and with not a nipple showing (thank you Ms Jackson, how easy it is to shock a nation, huh?)
I'm not picking on you, LarryIrwin. You can't help being brainwashed. Maybe you need to sit down and have a think: your topic is, "what's my problem with seeing this kid semi-naked on screen anyway?" And don't answer -- "because it's promoting pedophillia", cos I don't notice the Europeans are any more pedophillic than english speaking countries, probably less. So it's something else bothering you. Think about it.
I dislike hollywood stuff generally. I'm from Asia. I'm definitely not hung up. Recently I've been watching a lot of euro films. And so too, I only asked.. Billy Talent.
Mind recommending me more 'honest' films? You know any other good childhood films (honest) and aren't the hollywood kind. Films like these are far better than those hollywood stuff :)
I've enjoyed this film, lilja 4ever, festen, fscking amal, ondskan, tillsammans, jungfrukällan.
good scandanavian films.
My favorite childhood / coming-of-age movie is ::
Stand by Me (1986)
http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0092005/
Try this keword search, with filtering for votes and ratings ::
Keywords :: coming-of-age and boy
Rating: 6.5 or more
Votes: 100 or more
Click on this link to see the top 25 movies (approx.) ::
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LarryIrwin:
If you like Scandinavian films, such as those you mentioned, I can recommend a mini-series by among others Lukas Moodyson, the director of *beep* Åmål and Tillsammans. It's called "Det Nya Landet" and it's very good. Don't know how easy it is to get hold of outside of sween, but I hope you find it. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0188350/
A new Swedish film I can recommend is "Kom Novak badade aldrig i Genesarets sjö". It's a coming-of-age film set during the 50's. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0419881/
"For goodness sakes, get down from that crucifix. Someone needs the wood."
- Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the desert.
We Americans are obsessed with the "evil" of nudity. My cousins in Finland do not understand our reluctance to enjoy a sauna in the way that they do. This film was filmed in Sweden and is about a boy's beginning on his journey into adulthood. I remember lots of innocent "show and tel" when I was his age. We Americans make a big deal out of something that is simple and natural. There was absolutely nothing wrong with any of the nudity in the film.
"You must be the change you seek in this world."
Whats up with so many people asking 'are you American?'? I am a Spanish from Spain and my mother and grandmother find it despicable when they see scenes such as this and they think along with their friends that Spanish cinema is going to hell (and they don't even believe in god). Your country has nothing to do with you as an individual when it comes to preferences.
A movie should be as long as one can hold their bladder. ~ A. Hitchcock
If there is one country more prudish about sexuality than the U.S. (and there are very few in THAT club...United Kingdom certainly comes to mind), it might very well be Spain. I think centuries of Imperialism tends to screw with a population's mind, collectively.
shareNo one should lump a group of people under some title, even if it makes it easier to label others...it comes off really arrogant.
A movie should be as long as one can hold their bladder. ~ A. Hitchcock
Illegal!?!
Is it the same word that is used for Moslem traditional clothing in western civilisation? Oh, that are the same Moslems that cover their females as completely as Americans find decent in movies! I believe only talibans could make movies about kids decent enough for Americans.
But, I don't hear and listen often that talibans or other Moslems order us, Europeans, to do anything (unless to let them live their life their way). And Americans first gave Academy award to this movie, now they say it's illegal. Will whole Academy go to jail?
Why was this movie accused? USA is a very closed market and films they call "foreign" don't often come to theatres or on TV; if they do, they are butchered (cut, censored - not only because of nudity, but also because they're too slow, boring or complicated or sometimes even because they don't fit between two other programs!). If not so, Americans would know how different are European authors and audiences regarding to children life, problems, growing up, nudity, sexuality, education, family relations... And probably would be shocked to see how many movies like "My Life As a Dog" have been made (though not many so great, of course). Just within last few months there were many movies shown on different middle-European TV's that could disturb people who would forbid this film: "Jasper's Ghost", "Paradise", "Mirakel", "Dance of Polar Bears", "Ronja Rövardotter", just to name a few, and of course "My Life as a Dog", too, all of them in children/family terms at weekend mornings or early afternoons. So obviously nobody thinks they should be banned, and they mostly promote positive family and other values.
What danger or damage can this movie make? Does anybody think that people become paedophyles by watching it? That monstrous child rapist-killers from Belgium (or anywhere else) needed "Ronja", "Jasper's Ghost" or "Beau-pére" to do their crimes? Countless children go to naturist beaches. Is it really doing them harm so much if they appear in a nude scene, and not if they play killers in horrors? It it more unhealthy then smoking in movies? (You can drink juice instead of alcochol, but you can't fake smoking!) And what about the putting kids in dangerous situations ("Twilight Zone" is an extreme example)? So it's O.K. if a kid kills his parents or tortures strangers ("Children of Corn" etc) but not if takes clothes off to go to the bath. Also, very often clothes that children wear in US movies are much more sexual than nude bodies. And the cheerleaders? They are an American institution and are far more sexual than almost the entire nudity in European movies; and now Americans are exporting it to Europe (where it had no tradition!) making cheerleader girls an idol for countless little girls.
One thing is interresting. Even in USA movies boys can be nude (boys in so popular skinny-dipping scenes appear even in recent movies like "Shadrach" or "Now and Then", though there was a comment condamning it, too ), but it's girls that are disturbing and inappropriate if nude. The explanation can be disturbing, too: maybe Americans like watching nude boys, or maybe their are afraid of their feelings that appear when a girl undresses? I also never see so strict fathers in Europe who "protect" their princesses as many US fathers are (the girls are saints and noone is allowed to look at them, let alone touch them) - we can handle the fact that our daughters grow up, date, make love. Do US fathers feel jealous and even have some incestous feelings? Is this why so many American movies cope children abuse in families?
Personaly, I hope it's just a wrong look, exactly as wrong as accusing European movies to promote illegal matherial!
(By the way, as you say you're from Asia, you might be Moslem too, but I hope you realize I never ment to insult any religion! This is something in heads and not in faith!)
I am American and I do not have a problem with nudity in films. The problem with child nudity in films is that you do get sick people who find it erotic. Unfortunately there are a lot of pedaphiles in the U.S. The nudity that was displayed in, My Life As A Dog, is very innocent. It shows the true experiences of childhood. On the other hand it would make me sick to my stomache to find out some pervs are jackin off to my childs total display of innocence on screen. Just the other day I saw a man who had to be in his forties trying to pick up an eleven year old girl WEARING A MINI SKIRT.Our children can't even dress up and go out without being harrassed. If we put more child nudity on the screen, I feel it will only get worse for our children's safety. I live in New York and I see this crap everyday.
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To einherjer9:
Have you been to the shopping mall or looked in a magazine. Mini skirts are in and girls of all ages are wearing them. What the heck is wrong with an 11 year old dressing up for school with her friends. By your response, I can tell you live in the dark ages where if a woman was raped it was her own fault because of how she dressed. It doesn't matter how a kid is dressed. The point is, a grown man should know better than to try and pick up a child.
I completely agree with you and support your statement. But a victim is a victim whatever age he/she is.
Violence of any kind changes everyone's life, not only victim's. Just knowing that some things can happen make people feel insecure and ruins social contacts. People stay at home, build fences or even armed castles (especially in places with developed destruction of society due to raising crime), they become lonely, afraid and often depressed – psychical disorders caused by social disorders. And they watch more and more sterile TV program instead of having real contacts and relations with other humans, they get brainwashed (again, more and more in insecure environment) what again leads either to neurosis or intolerance. Some start raping, others start condamning mini skirts.
This changes affect us in many ways. Let's follow the same example. Girls and women stop wearing mini skirts (Just wearing! Not immoral, not illegal!). Men lose chance to watch them (Just watching! Not immoral, not illegal!).
Noone of us is perfect. We all have good and bad components inside. It is our resposibility not to let some of them on the surface, in our acting and behaving. We can't avoid having them, and only if we confess ourselves thar we are not perfect, we can handle them. We all have a grain of greed, racism, exhibicionism, voyeurism, anger, paedophylia, arrogance, racism, misantrophy, sadism, all seven mortal sins and much more. And we have our culture, traditions, sexuality, intelligence, biology, education, and they are all related to all our positive and negative characteristics. In some societies some of the «negative» are more emphasized, in other societies the others are more unacceptable. Something just weird can become shocking or illegal if you change a place to live, or if something changes in society you live in. If we talk about sexuality (why have so many civilisations made it most interresting and most forbidden, most intriguing and most scandalising part of us?), as with all other components that determine us nothing we do is completely out of sexuality, but it is surely not main or even only mover in our actions (as some try to explain).
Exhibicionism? Does a female (I use the word intentionally, to show that age of a girl or woman isn't important at all) wear mini skirt because she feels comfortable or to show her legs to others? Only she knows, but there's probably at least a bit of both. But it doesn't have to be mainly sexual. Kind of exhibitionism is also climbing on a stage to sing, appearing in TV shows etc. Voyeurism? If a person (any age or sex) watches Goya's Nude Maja or some ancient Greek nude male statue, does he/she enjoy colours, lines and compositions, or gets sexual excitement? Knowing that we are sexual beings and that we have education in art, again surely both. But voyeurism isn't only looking through curtains in somebody's bedroom, but also reading about celebrities (gossips), trying to see what is someone eating in restaurant, even watching Olympic games.
Whatever reason may be to wear a mini skirt or have a concert; or to watch Goya or basketball, it is still a normal behaving, a pleasure, a spice of life. Noone gets hurt. But there is not a small Rubicon between this and abusing. There is a whole abyss and when you jump on the other side you are ruining the whole world. And not only because of victim, but (as explained above) because all of us the crime has to be punished.
But – back to where we started – nudity isn't always proportional to sexuality. What about cheerleaders so popular in America or majorettes so popular in Europe? Both are symbols of schools, cities, appear in public and countless people go to watch them. And the way these girls (sometimes even preschool age) dress, move, dance is far more sexual than if they swim naked on a naturist beach. But the point is that they are watched. Whatever reason may be to watch them doesn't matter as long as you know the rules, and they are the same for all ages and sexes at home, in school, on naturist beach or street.
If you teach your child that nudity itself is something normal, and if the kid accepts his/her body (as given by God or nature, whatever parents believe in), not only you give him/her better chance to grow in normal (sane) adult, but also you can explain better who the molestors are and how to avoid them. If «My Life As A Dog» (and similar stuff) isn't a taboo they won't become too curious, runing into opposite-sex dressrooms etc. Too much hiding causes curiosity. Too much curiosity causes obsession. And obsession is already a step into a psychic disorder. Talking to kids, explaing things (having in mind their age) is better way to save them than hiding them from the world. Yes, some may become rapists and criminals. But some of them become it anyway, don't they?
Watching movies is a kind of voyeurism, even double: you watch characters and in the same time you watch real, live actors. Some are younger, some older, some are male, some female, some are better or worse looking, some are more or less dressed. As the people on the street. And they won't harm us, and we must do no harm to them. Not to cross that line is the first command for all of us. Anyone who doesn't see it is a real problem: either raping, molesting, kidnapping, murdering, or condemning someone for wearing mini skirts or watching nudity (or, further, being wrong race, voting for wrong politician, listening to wrong music, going to wrong church...).
We should have freedom to wear what we like (or nothing) without fear or shame, of course in adequate situations, and to make or watch movies that follow these basic rules of conscience.
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Don't take me too literally, my replies are too long so it is hard to read everything carefully, even more what's between the lines. But I think I've said that the dressing (or undressing) depends on the place and the occasion. And that is also why parents have to discuss that matters with their children, because if they just forbid, a kid will (let's keep your example) borrow a piece of clothes you don't approve, and change at friend's home: every child has at least a few classmates or neighbours that will take part in such action. You can believe your child is the best of all, and blaim other parents because their kids are doing or wearing something you believe your child never would, but you don't know almost anything he or she is doing (and even wearing) behind the next corner. And not only fashion industry but even more entertainment industry (videos, TV, movies etc) make parents' work extremely difficult. Some kids will probably respect you and live the way you want, but they are often in greater danger once they find themselves in situations they suddenly feel freedom - birthdays, school excursions... - because they are not prepared, didn't develop their experiences step by step, and want to catch up with their friends. 20-and-something year old dead in car crash caused by driving alcocholised after his first free party (an example from real life) and 13 year old mothers are equally tragic destinies.
Don't think I don't agree with you. But we live in a real world that we may not like, yet we have only one chance to bring up our children, and God save us and them both if we fail. Few centuries ago, even few decades ago communications were so poor that authorities (parents, families, church, teachers) kept their importance till adulthood. Today the influence of outside world (literally whole world, through satellite TV, available to pre-school kids) breaks authorities at veeeery early age. If your kid doesn't see something on your TV (because you don't let him), he'll see it at friend's home taped, or on computer, or he'll hear all the rumours about it... You have to keep up all that changes, and adjust your attitude from day to day, otherwise your influence will drop or vanish. It maybe "internet quasipsychology" but "forbid it and everything will be just fine" attitude works as well as "I'll close my eyes, so nothing can happen". We must take time for our children, we must grow up together. We must discuss, and that means talk as well as listen. And, back to movies (aren't they what this site is about?) PG movies should be PG to make such talking easier or possible at all. What can make a situation at home more suitable for talking than watching a movie that deals with problems, that has some message, that is in a certain way controverse? Our world is controversal: do you really want to let your children enter it without your participation?
People who find anything to be erotic are not a problem. A picture can be erotic, music, falling star, sunset, everything can be erotic. Real problems are child molestors (as one you saw), but molesting as any other violent acts has nothing common with art or eroticism, and (as I wrote before) I don't believe any art, (child or adult) nudity, eroticism etc. won't make a man a criminal, molestor, rapist, psychopate. If you see a beautiful yacht in a movie, and have no money to buy one, you won't rob a bank to get it. But some people rob banks anyway. That's a job for the police, as well as putting rapists and molestors behind bars. On the other hand, pervs don't always need nudity. They may be excited by pigtails, skirts, socks, voice... So you can't avoid 'jacking off'. And "people who find it erotic" are often not a real danger. Most child molestation happens in families when alcocholised members use kids (literally, as you would use a bag to carry books, or a comb to fix your hair), and they often aren't pedophiles at all (if she were close, they would probably use their grandmother the same way). And believe me, those people have never seen "My Life As A Dog", "Pretty Baby" or "Jasper's Ghost"; very likely man from your scene hasn't either. He doesn't need movies, he wants it real. I hope he'll get it real where he deservs it, and so we and our children can wear and watch what we like.
share Perhaps child nudity in films is a good thing. Wouldn't you rather have the perverts jackin off watching a movie with a naked kid instead of going out and actually picking up a kid? I know I certainly would. But I admit you could be right, there probably will be cases where a pedophile will find "inspiration" in a film such as this one.
And yes, there are a lot of pedophiles in the US, but not too many more than the rest of the world. They do, however, seem to be more of a problem here in the States. Could this be because they don't have films like this one or "Tom et Lola" or "Angyali üdvözlet (the annunciation)" to get their rocks off on? Think about it. Europe has a lower rate of sex crimes than the US because there is less censorship and sexual repression, just like there are higher violent crime rates in countries that ban guns. (The numbers don't lie, just look for the reports.)
Also I think that guy would try to pick that girl up regardless of what she was wearing, since he wants to get her to take it off anyway, right?
Thank's, you wrote exactly what I was trying to say, but I do it in so many words that probably noone reads (everyone gives up seeing how long my reply is).
And yes, there is a danger of inspiration, but I believe smaller than the action movies can inspire violent crimes. Don't you think that movies like "Rocky", kung-fu films, not to mention some kind of competition modern action and horror films seem to have trying to show more and more original methods of hurting and killing, being more frequent and popular and definitely more graphic can induce more evil? Growing up in Bruce Lee decade, I was quite often a victim of bullying, but it peaked each time some new Hong Kong or similar movie appeared in cinemas. And I didn't notice (reading papers) that sex crimes (against children or adults) raised when movies with nudity (child or adult) played.
I don't know if movies you mention could prevent abusing children. But the prophile of average child attacker shows a person who never saw those art movies (I never saw them, but I make conclusions according to reviews), in fact who looks in a glass and bottle rather than the screen, and - as you end your reply with a key-sentence - doesn't care what a kid wears or who it is. The other kind of molesting happens in families, and those who do it surely don't need any inspirations, their inspirations walks in front of them. And if they have any heart and conscience left inside, watching a movie like "Ronja" (that also contains a skinny-dipping scene) would surely stop him (or her, women can do it too) from destroying any, and especially their own kid's life.
You've got to be kidding: "there are higher violent crime rates in countries that ban guns"?
The number of people killed by guns in the UK is about 100, compared with 11,000 in America, where it's perfectly legal to buy a handgun.
The CHILDREN! OH THE Children! SAVE the Children!
It's because people try to surpress things that they become a problem...
Most foreign films released in the United States are cut up and censored because of the stupidity and banality of the potential audiences (people who like Bad Boys II).
-Luke
I think that to call the scene you are referring to "Child Nudity" is overstating the case. You make it sound like something perverted when in actual fact the scene was charming and innocent and in any case only revealed the girl's chest!
shareIs THAT what it is all about? I have seen the film many times and was racking my brain trying to remember any scene of nudity terrible enough to spark the remark that set off this lengthy discussion. I had not even considered that scene as nudity. In my opinion if you have a problem with that innocent scene, there is something wrong with you rather than with the film.
shareThis film was first exposed to large audiences in the US by a showing on PBS. The first time it was shown, viewers experienced the un-edited version of the film.
PBS got so many complaints about the 'child nudity' in the film, however, that when they showed it again they were forced to show it in an edited version that took out the 'child nudity'.
So there you have it ... just in case you needed any more proof that us Americans are unbelievably messed up as far as nudity goes.
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I saw this film when I was about 9-years-old and it just didn't make me feel good at all. In fact, I hated it. I'd convinced my mother to rent it for my younger brothes and myself because I thought it was going to be a good family-type story about animals and children. I was NOT expecting what it was about, especially for my young age and being sheltered anyway. I didn't even know what sex was then (or what grown up women looked like because I hadn't even hit puberty then) - but this film just really disturbed me. A far cry from the happy animal film that I was expecting... I certainly was not old enough to really 'comprehend' it.
Had I watched it when I was older and more knowledgeable, maybe it would have been a decent film and I might have even enjoyed it. I wish that my mother had looked at the video and description and got me to borrow something else from the shop.... but then I think she thought it was just a children's film too. Okay, maybe we have to blame the marketing of the film...
- Jenn
Yes, this movie really may be a bit hard to comprehend (as you say) for many 9-years-old. But is it really child nudity that bothered you most? I'm asking because you wrote your comment in this board, and I think that for a child of that age many things might be more disturbing or confusing; rather neurotic behaving of the boy, coping with mother's illness and death, sexual refferences on the beginning, maybe even destiny of real Laika... Ingmar's depressive reactions are typical for teens and can no way be understable for someone who hasn't tried to be a teenager yet. I'd really like you to answer what made you so disturbed, what do you remember now (not what you read about the movie, but what you actually remember). And then, I suggest you to watch the movie if you have any chance. Not because I expect an answer then again, but I'm just sorry that you have such a good movie in bad memory just because you were too young. And if you still won't like it, you'll know why. (I did that with some movies I hadn't understand watching them as a kid. It works!)
shareI watched it when I was young too. My parents watched it with me, and it worked as a discussion tool. I asked about stuff I did not know and was not distrubed.
ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW IS THAT YOU REALLY ARE PATHETIC. YOU REALLY ARE, NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK.
LarryIrwin you have GOT to be kidding.
shareI first thought you were American and maybe have seen American censored version. Then, having read your 'Chocolate' reply, I understood you really can't believe what some people might develop in their brains. After giving 'Mitt liv...' Academy award Americans let the movie in theatres, but faced such a reaction that they took scissors and butchered the movie as they usually do with European movies. Therefore many Americans don't understand at all what are we here taking about.
shareI'm not entirely sure where you got this from. I'm American and have seen it three times: once on a VHS tape from Blockbuster in Florida (hardly the most liberal store or state) in the late 80s, once on a DVD I checked out from a library in Chicago several years ago, and then again the other night on basic cable television, and all three featured the scenes in question.
There also wasn't "such a reaction" here in the States; I didn't even know it was an issue at all (there's nothing particularly "inappropriate" or shocking about the scenes) until I saw this thread today (which was started by a man from Asia!).
OK; maybe I got wrong information. I've read it years ago while reading about movies, maybe it happened only in some states and not the whole USA. Also, I found sites that were renting DVDs (in fact I think it was VHS) that advertised the movie as "uncut", so I assumed that usual copies are censored. However, I have never tried to rent any, because on different European channels this movie was shown, as much to my knowledge or perception, without any lack of footage.
I apologize if I've blamed your country because of incorrect and unchecked information.
I am, by the way (unrelated to topic), glad to see that Hallström kept the great level of his work after going to USA; unfortunately most European directors forget their roots once they cross the Atlantic and unsuccessfully try to change their style to something they think American audience expects - never managing to become Americans, and never even trying to return to what they were before.
I agree.
shareSurely you are not serious? Melinda Kinnaman is grown up today. If you asked her how "exposing" herself in her pre teens for a movie has formed her life - she would not understand what you are talking about.
Sweden has a completely different view on nudity than you - obviously -have. We see somone naked we go "Oh, no clothes" - or if the weather is bad "Isn't that cold?"
We do not have child beauty pageants. We do have films where people - including children - sometimes are naked. But the difference is, that they are not objectified.
Now let's see: How many Child Pageant contestants have been brutally raped/murdered in USA - and how often has that happened to Swedish child actors.
Anyone?
The Europeans are way more relaxed about nudity - as well they should be. I think the whole openly sexual dynamic of the movie, nudity included, is very beautiful and very accurately depicts the mindset of *most* of Europe.
shareExposed herself? Nudity? You mean showing her chest? To call them breasts would take a feat of imagination. Gee you guys really need to lighten up.
That's a feckin' jazz haircut!share