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This part gets me everytime!


Just saw this on TV and one of the many parts that gets me everytime is at the end before Emma passes, she looks over and smiles at Aurora...as if to say, "Goodbye...I love you..." Superb performance of those two!

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Just before then, when she says goodbye to everyone, well that's what makes me cry every time. The music score is one of my favourites but Brooks wisely chooses not to use it in these scenes and let the actors and his words do their magic. I start losing it when Patsy tells Emma she's her 'touchstone' and I'm half way to an emotional breakdown when Emma tells Tommy not to feel bad that he never told her he loved her because she knows. So, so heartbreaking. Aurora's breakdown with Flap when Emma passes is also genuinely deeply moving because it's so honest - there's truly nothing harder than losing your child. Anyone who remains impassive here whilst watching must have a heart of stone.

A beautifully done ten minutes of movie-making.

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The part that gets me is when Jeff Daniels finally breaks down at the end, sitting next to Patsy on the bench in the backyard, that was it for me. I had held it together long enough.

This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time. - Fight Club

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I haven't been able to watch this since a loved one died a couple years back. It's just too real. It felt exactly like this movie.

The scene where Aurora returns to the crappy hotel and wordlessly breaks down on the stairs is the saddest scene for me. She finally knows there's nothing she can do to stop things, and despite her strong, high-voltage personality; she's powerless.

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I'm surprised no one mentioned the scene where Aurora first finds out about Emma's illness. She's at home and she has just hung up the phone after the call. She clenches her hands and her eyes. She stands up, and reaches out to Rosie and says something along the lines of "Rosie...Rosie...our girl is in trouble..." Agggg...just typing it out and thinking about the scene makes my eyes water. Her body language and voice were just so ANGUISHED. I had a phone call like that from my father...just anguish is the best word I can think of.

Oh, goodbye mama. I'll never do dishes again.

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It always gets me when Aurora is yelling that Emma needs her medicine. Watching now, for the hundredth time.

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The death scene hits me hard. Emma is lying there and she looks over at her mother who is looking at her and the music starts. Emma brings her hand up and waves good-bye. That last look at her mother that says I love you mom and good-bye... Aurora realizes she's gone and looks away. You can hear her taking deep breaths trying to hold it together as the nurse checks her vitals and then you can see her starting to shatter. Also, the scene where she has to tell her children she's not going to get better. She tells Tommy that she knows he loves her and not to feel bad because he never told her. The look on the younger boys face when he's leaving the room and closing the door. I've got a lump in my throat now just thinking about it.

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Yeah, I wish that really happened..I have stage 4 cancer and this is just hollywood bs.

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I agree .. I just got through watching it and that's the part and the only part that makes me cry .. and having lost both parents I think of them and cry even more .. great movie .. I think maybe this is the 20th time that I have watched it .. when I started out I was only going to watch a little bit .. great movie .




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I start when Aurora gets back to the hotel, and Garrett is there. Aurora finally has someone who can support her..and it's a rare moment of vulnerability from her.

After that...I'm just a sobbing mass of goo for the next 30 minutes or so.

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As a 46 year old guy who has lost both parents, I get more sad than I ever did when I watch this movie. As others have pointed out, I think the scene that chokes me up the most is right after Emma dies and Aurora's reaction and responses..."Nothing could be harder" and at that moment any animosity towards Flap is suspended. I also notice more the scene at the end where Patsy comes over to sit with Flap and how she gently nudges his knee away so she can sit down..Flap then starts to let the tears come and as he puts his head on her shoulder she gives him that gentle kiss on the forehead.

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I loved this movie. It takes you through so many emotions.


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