Women are inferior

I grew up with the assumption that men and women were somehow equal, like most people. On the side, I got psychologically abused (if I use the same gravity tone as feminists) by women into "respecting/treating women well" aka be a nice guy because of the then third wave of feminism.

I grew up and evolved intellectually, then there was the recent feminist propaganda which is built on fundamental contradictions like pretending that women are not sexual objects and constantly placing women as being the targets and victims of sexual advances which just reinforces their status as coveted sex object instead of individuals, the branding of most men as being bad or worthless, nice guy as being rapist unless they're completely emasculated feminist, while objectifying men to further value handsome, muscular, rich or 'dominant' guys, or generally by pretending that freedom, equality and respect come from sexual "liberation" and desires....

This propaganda and its success, eventually ended with 50 Shades of Grey being a huge success amongst women, which will influence both older women in couple and young ones who will despise normal guy and go, not for the "bad boy" like in my generation, but for the abusive, violent, pseudo-dominant ones, and older men, young ones with elders as well as the new generation of emasculated boys who will eventually discover the truth will just follow it.

So this forced me to reconsider: are men and women really equal? Beside physiologically which isn't that important, are women really that equal in intellect, morals, potentials both bad or good, or was there reasons for women not having, say, the right to vote until recently for example. Especially when you know that women had the right to vote in Germany in the early 20s thanks to the then feminism, which is one of the main reason why Hitler got elected, on the same basis "power and domination" dynamics, until their rights got revoked?

Are women to be trusted with their choices, rationality and equality, or is there a reason, for both sexes sakes, that things were as they always were, and will always be returning to?
The fact, like this movie and many other BDSM movie shows, that lots, now more and more women, are incapable of handling themselves and their desires (I do not mean repress them, but to be sexually equal, active or dominant), that they are the one pushing men to become socially, if not physically competitive, abusive or violent, and that as this propaganda proves, women are way more prone to be influenced and manipulated into supporting fascism, inequality and violence if it fits their sexual narrative, rather than be just, rational, responsible, moral etc...?