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Promising your daughter's hand in marriage to a creepy old man


Drunkenly promising your own daughter's hand in marriage to a seriously creepy old man, even older than you are, and then going into town to drink some more in celebration while joyfully singing "To life!"?

Oy מְחוּרבָּן vey!

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This story takes place in 19'Th Century Russia. They probably didn't think anything about age differences, back in the day.



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Tzeitel's sisters seemed to. They were horrified when they heard the "good news." Hotel could barely squeak out a barely audible "mazel tov."

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That's because they knew she wanted to marry Motel.



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It seemed like more than just that, to me.

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The parents were looking at the marriage in terms of financial stability. The young people were more concerned with romance.


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Marry him wear him.out than.marry Motel after a suitable interval

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Marry him wear him.out than.marry Motel after a suitable interval

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Marry him wear him.out than.marry Motel after a suitable interval

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Marry him wear him.out than.marry Motel after a suitable interval

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Yeah arranged marriages were common enough in those days, and people who were old enough to know were aware that it was better to be prosperous with an unhappy marriage, than poor with a marriage that had been made unhappy by financial stresses.

Besides, some marriages between younger men and older women were happy enough, even arranged marriages can be very happy! And if they aren't, well, she'd be a financially independent widow soon enough.

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