Marry Your Rapist


Moral of this film: Marry your attempted rapist, and live happily ever after.

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Do you even know the meaning of the word rape? Stop throwing around big words where they don't apply.
Mitchum aggressively kisses Monroe and that is where it ends.

I recommend you stay away from old movies in general, there are way too many things in them that are politically incorrect and will give you the vapors if you don't have your smelling salts handy.

Also, don't watch the TV show Rome.

Jessica Rabbit
"I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way."

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Mitchum attempts to rape Marylin in this movie. If not for being interrupted he would have raped her.

Even if you do not want to call it attempted rape, call it an assault, call it force ... whatever. The fact is he overpowered her and tried to make her do something against her will, by physical force. What woman in her right mind would want to have anything to DO with such a man after that ... much less MARRY him !!

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"If not for being interrupted he would have raped her."
And you know that for a fact?

This scene is comparable to the Gone With the Wind scene. You better don't read that either. Or The Fountainhead. Or 50 Shades...
There is quite an obvious sexual magnetism between Mitchum and Monroe.

If you'd like to be outraged, that's fine with me. I'm not.

Peace Out.

Jessica Rabbit
"I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way."

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i totally agree...

these scene was horrible for todays thinking and behaviour.

a film has to be timeless if it wants to be really good.
this scene destroyed the whole movie,
which was even without this scene quite below mediocre.
(though i like preminger, monroe and mitchell)

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ähm... Mitchum

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She's NOT raped, and she was definitely leading him on, in order to divert his attention from finding and killing her no-good boyfriend.

The dialog before he grabs her is explicit: "You'd do anything to save him. Even...be 'nice' to me?"

"I could do that without him.


"Why?"

very sexily--"Why not?"

And THEN he grabs her. But suddenly, she's fighting him, whereas two seconds before she hinting she's fine with a bit of fun.

This was film convention of the time, to inject some sex into a film. And, he apologizes for his behavior, later.

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Oh, she was ASKING for it.

Oh, the way she was dressed led him on.

Oh, he was REAL sorry afterwards.

Oh, when a woman says NO she doesn't REALLY mean NO. She's just playing hard to get.


And on and on and on we go. Pardon me while I go get sick.

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She's not playing hard to get, she's playing "How do I save my rotten boyfriend's life?" Answer--agreeing that she'd be willing to "be friends" with Mitchum.

The problem with the scene is that she's totally flirting with him, he responds and then she freaks out. It would have made more sense, in the confines of the plot and that scene, to have allowed him the kiss--or more--to insure his interest and sympathy. It's a conventional moment in many films of that time--trying to get some sexual tension out of a situation.

He does not rape her. And this is not real life. It's a silly movie and that is a silly scene. (a convenient mountain lion appears to make sure nothing goes too far in this 1954 movie!)

Real rape in real life is something to be angry over. And I will assume you address yourself to those real-life victims and situations as vigorously as you object to a scene in a movie. And that can only be a good thing.

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Mitchum does say later that he "didn't mean that back there ". So he kind of apologizes. Got a say it's all a little off putting. I really wanted to love this movie. It has some terrific moments but some truly awful ones too.

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I don't care if they both got stark naked and were lying in bed together in a room with mirrors on the ceiling. WHEN A WOMAN SAYS NO SHE MEANS NO, PERIOD. AND SHE HAS A RIGHT TO SAY THIS AT ANY TIME. AND NO MAN HAS A RIGHT TO FORCE HER EVER.

No more excuses, and any man who does not agree with this is a PIG. Oink, oink, oink !!

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Yep, he should have just left the CT there.

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"I don't care if they both got stark naked and were lying in bed together in a room with mirrors on the ceiling. WHEN A WOMAN SAYS NO SHE MEANS NO, PERIOD. AND SHE HAS A RIGHT TO SAY THIS AT ANY TIME. AND NO MAN HAS A RIGHT TO FORCE HER EVER."

If you do not want to have a man assume he can have sex with you, do not get stark naked and lie in bed with him. You have no right to be a cock tease, playing games with some guy's emotions and hormones, and then expect to walk away laughing, with no consequences. If you willingly put yourself in a situation like the one you have described, and end up unhappy with the result, you are responsible. If you don't think so, you are nothing but a spoiled child.

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Yes she was asking for it, not by the way she was dressed but by the words she said. She said she was willing to "play" and he called her bluff. From having watched these old movies for a long time I can practically guarantee that he would not have raped her. He was the good guy in the movie and real men did not rape.

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I would of nailed her right after she got on the raft. If she didn't like it I would have given her to the indians.

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Yea, he would've raped her, even knowing she was married. It was way to brutal.
I saw little, if any chemistry between them. They thought of each other as a nuisance.

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Except she wasn't married. Did you watch the film?

"It ain't dying I'm talking about, it's LIVING!"
Captain Augustus McCrae

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that doesnt change anything

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i am not so sure that he was intended to be the "good guy".
the music in this scene was quite dramatic
and preminger wasnt on the side of his hero

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Worked for Luke and Laura.

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