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Reality show like no other (?)


I certainly thought the first episode seemed real, until the scene with the young man coming out to his mom.

I'm not saying I have any reason to think it was fake, but it seemed very similar to a lot of so-called reality shows that have deep, emotional moments that when you read about it later you find it was staged for effect.

Ian and Ellen should take this as a compliment really. It was very impactful emotionally. I really felt for that young man and for his mom. It was a kind of emotional cliff-hanger when his mom ran out.

The wedding of Ian and Ellen in the temple was so awesome. This moment, combined with a concept of the "friendship marriage" is something I have longed for. We should be able to have friendship bonding ceremonies for real BBFs. Ceremonies that salute friendship can do much to help this world. Eliminate the sexual aspect of the traditional "marriage" and what you have left is the idea that human beings can commit to one another and declare to the world "We are together!" and not have it mean they are sleeping together, but they have each other's backs and you'd better watch out if you think you're gonna hurt them without consequences. Obviously, people in such relationships must have the option and right to sleep together if they choose to, but it's got nothing to do with their love bond.

I think this show can do a great deal of good for filling in the hollow spots where "acceptance" meets "appreciation" and perhaps can become celebration.

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This is a great show. I expected Japan to be somewhat more progressive, I guess because I learned about yaoi/yuri and was exposed to openly gay characters in anime and manga when I was pretty young. Naturally I assumed that must mean something about the culture itself. Then again, Japan is a nation built on fairly strict traditions and customs, so in that respect, I suppose it isn't all that surprising, though no less disappointing.

Have you watched the Brazil episode yet? It's pretty frightening and upsetting. I knew things were bad there, but I didn't know they were that bad.

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I'm brazilian and what is more creepy is the support people like Jair Bolsonaro have, Ellen Page is getting a lot of hate now, even in "gay pages" people that support Bolsonaro appears and ignore a lot of *beep* he does, I even saw some people saying Ellen Page induced the "praise" she gets from him, his supporters is ocasionally called "bolsominions" lol

You can live as gay here, it's not like it's illegal, but I can confirm is extremely hard

It's like 3 years our brazilian TV showed their first gay kiss and a lot of people deal with that like they saw the Mountain crushing Oberyn's head in "Game of Thrones"

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It's odd to me that Brazil would legalise gay marriage in the first place if it's seemingly still identified as something abnormal. It's kind of a contrast to Japan, where gay marriage is presently not legal, and yet there does not appear to be such open homophobia.

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It's odd to me that Brazil would legalise gay marriage in the first place if it's seemingly still identified as something abnormal.


Really? It's no different than 1860s America freeing the slaves then having the states create Jim Crow laws to keep them down and marginalized as a people. Or, fast forward 150 some years and America grants gays the right to marry only to have people and business still discriminate against gays and some states pass anti-LGBTQ/religious freedoms measures. Most of the GOP presidential hopefuls can't wait to get in the White House to repeal the Marriage Equality Bill, yet you find what Brazilians do odd. OK.

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I find it odd because of the extreme brutality the LGBTQ community is facing there right now. As stated in the episode, Brazil has the highest crime rate against LGBTQ individuals. Why bother legalising marriage for people you are not going to give any other rights or protection to? Yes, that is not only bizarre, it's bordering on paradoxical and illogical.

I am aware of the current situation in the US, and it is also a very scary thing, but I feel that there's no need to try to compare the two. They're both very unfavourable situations.

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Fair enough. But the Brazilian govt. did it because that is what the LGBTQ community wanted [the right to marry, etc.]. But as is the case when a govt. isn't 100% behind a measure they find/create loopholes to get out of it such as not providing any other means of protection for the group in question. The same was the case for the slaves back then, and is currently the case for the LGBTQ community today. They just threw a steak to the lion to keep it quiet. Now, it's up to the LGBTQ community to demand the same protections that straight people are afforded.

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