I like this but ...


I do enjoy watching this mostly because despite its flaws I think Jodie Comer is really watchable and a great actress. My boyfriend and I however are both exasperated with the insensitivity of the police every episode.

I've seen there is another similar topic regarding this and l'm not surprised because it's really unrealistic.

If this actually happened, and there are some examples I can think of in Germany and the US, the sensitive procedure of dealing with the victims would be paramount. When Ivy is first rescued she is paraded all over the police station in a space suit with some random liaison officer, offered seemingly no privacy or sensitivity. She is then allowed home that afternoon like she was a teenage runaway missing for a couple of nights. Aside from what seemed like a one off hour long appointment with a psychologist she and her family are just left to their own devices? I feel like in reality the amount of preparation for a return to the normal world supervised and supported by many professionals would be the way this would be handled. Not just for Ivy but for the whole family. For a start I doubt it would be wise for the sisters fiancé to be remaining in the house when she first came back. It would be a slow process surely of everybody, esp Ivy, in overcoming fears and trust etc.

Then there is the cackhanded way Ivy is dealt with by the police in particular the female officer who from the first couple of seconds of meeting Ivy seemed to hate her and treat her like a romantic rival with the policeman instead of a young girl who had been victimised and locked up for years. It's just ridiculous. Like another poster has said, have they never heard of Stockholm syndrome or thought how terrifying it would be to go through what Ivy went through. The fear of and the infliction of violence and abuse and the threats of a murderer and rapist which is what her abductor was would be enough to silence and coerce you into submission. The way they were acting like Ivy was willing in the cctv images was a joke. Acting like she wanted to be there because she didn't run away. Ugh it's so annoying they don't seem to have an iota of understanding or compassion, from a human level or just from any police training or whatever. They are both incompetent. Also the way they act like its Ivy's fault if anything happens to phoebe is again insane. Not to mention the way she is arrested over the body. What do they expect when they half heartedly examine her and send her home that night with not so much as an in depth series of interviews and care involving professional therapists. Why would an abused kidnapped person spill her guts to a bunch of strangers treating her coldly from the start. Ridiculous.

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Well I think you've summed up what we're all thinking. I've pretty much given up on it now.

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Totally agree. While I know you have to suspend your disbelief of reality for story - it's just too far removed from how things would really go down and also unbelievable that they would get away with doing so little while for her while also treating her with such contempt.

I really just can't understand the sheer snide attitude the female police officer has toward a victim. I know you have to look at all the angles as a detective etc, but right from the get-go she was a dead set biatch to her, and it's just got worse.

Riddle wrapped inside an enigma, wrapped inside a taco.

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I am watching episode 2 and it is absolutely ridiculous

I am flabagasted

Who wrote this insane tripe

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You really don't know the British police, do you? 1400 girls abused in Rotherham and the police didn't bat an eyelid. This is how they are.

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I completely agree, I can't believe how awful the female police officer is to poor Ivy. However, I can imagine something like this happening - professional/police misconduct does happen all the time. This show seems to be displaying an example of that kind of misconduct, where a police officer's own personality, prejudices, lack of proper training and personal circumstances lead them to act in a really insensitive and terrible way towards victims. I think it might be a bit better these days due to more awareness, but victims, particularly young female victims of rape/grooming etc, do often get blamed or viewed with suspicion - even recently there was a case in the UK of a high profile footballer grooming and having sex with a 15 year old girl. He's been sentenced to years in prison now, but when the story came out, that 15 year old girl received enormous amounts of abuse from people who thought she had led him on, was asking for it, etc. You'd think that police would know better, but there will always be one or two that have that same mindset. It's despicable really, but not entirely unrealistic.

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completely agreed! along with everyone else I think.

I did actually enjoy the show and watched the entire 5 episodes because I loved the storyline and Jodie Comer's performance made it worth it. But jesus I wanted to punch the female detective Lisa sooo badly. However I think it's pretty fair to say that is how it goes down quite often here in the UK. There are some genuinely kind police officers but I think they are just few and far between now. The entire fictional police force there seemed very ineffectual, again seems to match real life. But that's not really what I wanted in a tv show!

Oh well, better luck next time..

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I'm glad I read this..it is coming to BBC America in mid June. There have been a couple of real cases here. The age was a bit different,,older and younger.

The victims are given a lot of attention form specialists. From what you are saying the whole story is handled poorly.,to bad..

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I agree, I don't like the investigators at all. Which doesn't bode well if you want to stick with a series.

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He's not bad,you see he cares. But she is wretched. And I get they're looking for another girl, but...As for sticking with the series, there's only 2 episodes left. It wasn't renewed.

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oh wow really. did not know that thanks.

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