I know this is a very sensitive issue and I do not intend to sympathize with guilty rapists and whatnot. But now that me and dperth have discussed a few things, I kinda had to wonder.
In real life, yes rape is bad and rapists should no doubt be punished.
Yes, I am aware that legally it is often difficult to prove and a humiliating process for the victim to go through, and yes I know all about victim blaming, rape culture etc.
But what I was still kinda wondering though is this.
Does all of this necessarily mean that all rapists particularly men who do it to women or other men etc should necessarily be killed and possibly be made to suffer before in the worst possible sense and why?
Many civilized people in not only this day and age but I imagine the past (dunno how people would think say 2000 years ago) would say a big loud YES.
But, besides this issue, even if you feel rapists don't even deserve a fair trial, would that really make the problem go away and make the world a better place even IF we killed all the GUILTY ones like that?
And what if they DO their jail time and possibly even repent and never in a sexual sense, and possibly not in any other, sin again? Especially those that myabe did it under drunken circumstances where they intended no harm or maybe those that didn't even rape but merely touched women inappropriately etc?
Thing is, I understand there are, sadly, a LOT of complex issues surrounding this, and there are, also understandeably, a great deal of very angry and justifiably outraged people out there who want and need a stronger sentences for the perpetrators of such crime and bad deed. Sure I agree it SHOULDN'T happen in the first place.
But even if we retaliated with great vengeance and furious anger ala Pulp Fiction against those that tried and succeeded in performing rape against anyone in any way, will it be really THAT just if we named ourselves the Lord and laid our vengeance upon them? (To paraphrase Samuel L. Jackson from that movie?)
Mind you, we can STILL enjoy rape and revenge fictional MOVIES, but I take it, even GUILTY offenders deserve a trial and some retribution?
Sometimes, in hearing all the stories, I get the impression that it isn't JUST rape that is so traumatic in and of itself ie the forced sex, but the many unfaor consequences due to society's and law's ignorance and lack of preparation to DEAL with such situations - and in the case of rape, besides murder, it makes it more humiliating for the victims of such crime than it does for other acts of physical violence.
And just look at how many DIFFERENT people talk about CONSTANT changed being made to both rape and sex laws, nevermind that they are different everywhere in the world including in different American states, but we can't even all agree on them like that so we can identify the most revolting bad guy?
And say if rape actually WAS easier to prove and prosecute like other violent crimes out there - would we feel less revulsion towards the offenders unless they are constant serial ones etc that did too many of them with too much damage, including murderers?
Thing is, I don't think too much hatred towards rapists is even making the problem go away. But I certainly don't agree with just letting those dangerous individuals roam about like that. But violence doesn't seem the answer? Who is right here?
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